2015 Week 45 Update

This week was a mixture of being both hectic and then slow! Hectic in the first half because of Diwali and then slow in the second half because of work!

I decided to make 11 items for the festival, 5 each of sweets and savories and a traditional medicine, all which were fantastic. I’ll post recipes soon, especially for those which do not require specific utensils to make.

The second half at work was as usual, boring. I am serious now about talking to Big B about my future here, but will do that after my holidays. Hopefully he will be around long enough at that point in time for me to have a serious talk with him.

BB’s voice has started to break and my baby is now growing up! Actually this started a couple of weeks back, but at that point, we thought he’s getting a cold and this slightly distorted voice is because of that. When it went on for more than a week, we realized that it’s not a cold, but BB is getting to be an adult finally! He reached puberty almost two years after GG!

PSLE Week 45 Update

The penultimate school week for the year and we are reaching the end of BB & GG’s primary school journey.  The past week, both children were busy preparing for their school year-end performance as well as a charity drive that the graduating class does in their school. Every primary six class had to come up with a theme and within a budget the provided them with, had to put up a stall and sell products and services to their peers and juniors with the proceeds going to a charity of the class’ choice.

Both BB & GG belong to the school choir and they were supposed to stay back almost every day this week to practice for their school awards evening next week. Unfortunately, since BB’s voice has been breaking the last few weeks (more about that tomorrow), he told his choir teacher and she sent him back home as singing at this point will damage his voice!

Both BB & GG received awards at their year end awards evening which was along with their year-end performance. GG received an award for being best in music and will win another award for being the best in music across all classes next week and BB received his for being the top in Science, second in Maths and overall third in the class. I really wish he sees the potential he has. If I discount his pathetic Hindi marks, I am sure he has so much more better scores!

The rumors for the PSLE results are going around furiously and as the tentative dates released by MOE at the beginning of the year comes closer, I am getting more and more nervous. I know there’s nothing I can do at this point, except pray, but I am really scared about the results….

2105 Week 44 Update

Surprisingly this week went by faster than I thought it would. Work-wise, it’s still the same. I don’t have enough work to fill the eight hours at work. The day I have something to occupy my time for atleast half the day, I am happy! I’ve realized it’s far more difficult to pretend to be busy and do work than to actually do something….

Tomorrow is Diwali, the festival of lights and probably the most important festival in the Hindu calendar for the year. I’ve been busy preparing sweets and savories and have over-extended myself this year. Hopefully by the end of the day, I actually finish making all that I have planned for…

Beofre the festival, people clean and if possible, renovate and decorate their homes. The festival is celebrated slightly differently in North and South India. What’s common is the creation of beautiful rangolis or patterns made from coloured flour outside homes and decorated with lamps. The lamps are kept lit throughout the night so as to invite Goddess Lakshmi, the Goddess of Wealth into your home. People also wear new clothes across the country on Diwali and burst fire crackers outside.

In South India, Diwali is celebrated as the day Lord Krishna defeated the evil demon Nakasura and is called Naraka Chaturthi. Here, traditionally, especially in Tamil Brahmin homes, if the festival falls on a new moon, everyone wakes up super early and the lady of the house first takes a bath and lights the lamp. Then one by one, family members come and sit in front of the lamp where the lady of the house will put some gingelly oil which has been prepared the previous evening on them. They then have a bath and come and prostate before the Lord, after which they get their new clothes. Before they start the feating which is typical of the festival, they are also given a medicinal legiyam which sort of helps digest all the fried food and sweets which you eat throughout the day.

In North India, the festival is celebrated as the day Lord Rama, from the epic, Ramayana was welcomed back home to Ayodhya in present day Uttar Pradesh along with his wife Goddess Sita and brother Lord Lakshmana after a 14 year exile. Lamps are lit to welcome the trio. Prayers are also said to Goddess Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth in the evening of Diwali.

Certain communities also welcome their new year on the last day of the celebrations.

Here’s wishing all of you a very Happy Diwali! May the festival of lights light up your lives and bring you happiness and abundant prosperity….

PSLE Week 44 Update

The children are having a blast, preparing for their year-end concert which happens next week. They went for another Learning Journey this week which was basically a swap of last week – so BB went to the National Museum and GG went to the Discovery Centre.

The school also had a Parenting Talk this week on how parents can help children transition from the primary school system to the secondary one. The talk was very informative, especially since more than three quarters of the people in the room were first time parents of children who will move to Secondary 1 next year. The speaker, a medical doctor with three adult children had enough anecdotes about her own children which made it quite informative and useful.

After the talk, the school had invited a dozen secondary schools, both in the neighbourhood and beyond to have small booths in the school hall. When we reached the hall, we also found the primary 6 students there. I managed to catch hold of GG and we walked around a bit checking out some schools. We need to identify some schools and then go for open houses so that we can narrow it down to the six we need to select for the Secondary 1 Admission Exercise.

That was pretty much what the children did. Next week is the penultimate school year, with the last day of school on 20th November. Then we have to gird our loins for the results. I am just praying that they do decently and we don’t end up crying when the results are declared!

2015 Week 43 Update

My usual boring week at work….

I’m trying real hard to remain positive, but there are days when I want to scream….or to hit someone 😦

Diwali preparations have started in earnest at home. Last week we went to Little India and brought the things needed for the sweets and savories. This year I am being most ambitious in all the years, so I hope all goes well. If it does look and taste good, I will definitely post the recipes here. Some are traditional recipes and some new ones.

We have a parenting talk in the children’s school about the transition to secondary school as well as some schools will be having booths which I wanted to check out.

Off to work now, but have a wonderful week everyone!