2026 Week 02 Update

It’s the second week of January, and it’s the time when New Year’s resolutions typically start to slacken. So my advice to you all is to stay the course. Try and stay with your resolutions for January, and you’ll soon see it becoming second nature.

Today’s quote by Marie Ray, a writer and poet whose work often explored themes of presence, creativity, and the urgency of living authentically, is a gentle but firm reminder of life’s urgency. It speaks to how easily we postpone the things that matter, convincing ourselves there will be more time later. More clarity. More courage. A better moment. Ray cuts through that illusion. There is no endless runway ahead of us. There is only now. The quote balances beauty with truth. Calling the present moment “sparkling like a star” reminds us how precious and alive it is. At the same time, describing it as “melting like a snowflake” highlights how fleeting it can be. The moment you notice it, it’s already slipping away. This isn’t meant to create panic, but awareness. When you truly grasp how temporary each moment is, procrastination starts to feel costly.

Ray isn’t asking for reckless action or dramatic leaps. She’s pointing toward honest movement. Start where you are. Do the small version of the thing you keep delaying. Write the first paragraph. Make the call. Say the truth. Choose the life-aligned option instead of the safe one. Waiting for certainty often becomes a way of avoiding responsibility for our own happiness. At its core, the quote is about presence and courage. When you act now, you honour both the fragility and the brilliance of being alive. You stop living as though time is guaranteed and start living as though this moment matters. Because it does.

Life is ongoing, and while 2025 did not end the way I hoped it would, 2026 has begun with hope and the promise of a better year. GG has started her internship and is thriving in her chosen field. This is a graduation requirement, but she still has a few courses that she will take this semester. BB is at home, trying to figure out what he wants to do next. He is also applying for university and will get his driver’s license while waiting.

Today’s verse slices straight through comparison culture. The Gita makes it clear: you can win someone else’s race and still lose your life’s meaning. Your dharma isn’t your job title, your résumé, or your social status. It’s your inner compass, your natural blend of talents, tendencies, and temperament. When you imitate someone else’s path because it looks safer, shinier, or socially approved, you lose the steady foundation that comes from authenticity. Imitation always carries anxiety, because you’re operating with borrowed choices.

Following your own path, even clumsily, is the only route to growth that actually transforms you. Imperfection becomes a teacher, not a threat. Fear dissolves because you’re not pretending anymore. This verse is a reminder that your life is not supposed to look like anyone else’s timeline. Your dharma is not mass-produced. It is handcrafted by your story, your struggles, and your strengths. Live it. Even messily, especially messily. That’s where real progress begins.

And in the same vein, the light within you can never be extinguished. This inner source of power guides you through even the darkest moments of your life, allowing you to choose love and trust over fear. On the days you feel lost, remind yourself that this light is your constant source of strength, and nothing can ever take away what lives at your core. You have the power to endure and rise after even the fiercest storms. No setback or obstacle has the power to keep you from what is inherently yours. What belongs to you cannot be lost; it will always come back to you.

With those words, here’s to a beautiful second half of January!

In My Hands Today…

Persians: The Age of the Great Kings – Lloyd Llewellyn-Jones

The Achaemenid Persian kings ruled over the largest empire of antiquity, stretching from Libya to the steppes of Asia and from Ethiopia to Pakistan. From the palace-city of Persepolis, Cyrus the Great, Darius, Xerxes, and their heirs reigned supreme for centuries until the conquests of Alexander of Macedon brought the empire to a swift and unexpected end in the late 330s BCE.

In Persians, historian Lloyd Llewellyn-Jones tells the epic story of this dynasty and the world it ruled. Drawing on Iranian inscriptions, cuneiform tablets, art, and archaeology, he shows how the Achaemenid Persian Empire was the world’s first superpower—one built, despite its imperial ambition, on cooperation and tolerance. This is the definitive history of the Achaemenid dynasty and its legacies in modern-day Iran, a book that completely reshapes our understanding of the ancient world.

Sacred Stones, Spaces, and Stories: Jyotirlingas Part 1

In the vast and intricate tapestry of Indian spirituality, certain symbols resound across centuries, uniting story, devotion, architecture, and memory. Among these, the concept of Jyotirlinga occupies a place of deep reverence. These are not simply temples, not merely shrines, but radiant embodiments of the infinite cosmic light of Lord Shiva, that manifest in forms that bridge the seen and unseen, the earthly and transcendent.

In Sanskrit, Jyoti means “light” and Linga means “mark” or “sign.” Thus, a Jyotirlinga is the “radiant sign of Shiva.” Devotees believe that these shrines are not representations of Shiva crafted by human effort but are rather natural manifestations of his infinite energy, breaking through the earthly veil as columns of light.

There is a famous story in the puranic tradition: once, the gods Vishnu and Brahma debated the supremacy of creation and preservation. To settle their disagreement, Shiva manifested as an endless pillar of light, extending beyond all measure. No beginning, no end, just infinite brilliance. Brahma and Vishnu, even with all their might, failed to find its origin or terminus. That boundless beam is the essence of the Jyotirlinga.

Each Jyotirlinga temple is thus not merely a place of worship but a cosmic reminder that divinity cannot be contained, only glimpsed. While many Shiva temples exist across the subcontinent, thousands upon thousands, the twelve Jyotirlingas are especially sacred, each considered a direct site where Shiva revealed himself as light.

The Shiva Mahapurana recounts that originally Shiva manifested in innumerable Jyotirlingas, but twelve came to hold supreme prominence. These are spread across India, forming not a neat geographical circle but a sacred web binding disparate landscapes into a single spiritual network.

The 12 Jyotirlingas are traditionally named as: Somnath, Mallikarjuna, Mahakaleshwar, Omkareshwar, Kedarnath, Bhimashankar, Vishwanath (Kashi Vishwanath), Trimbakeshwar, Vaidyanath, Nageshwar, Rameshwaram, and Grishneshwar.

Each has its unique legends, but collectively, they narrate a larger cultural truth: the omnipresence of Lord Shiva. From the Himalayan slopes of Kedarnath to the coastal waves of Rameshwaram, from the deserts of Gujarat to the dense temples of Maharashtra, the Jyotirlingas embody the principle that divinity pervades all terrain, all time, all people.

Unlike pilgrimages that cluster around one region, the circuit of Jyotirlingas cuts across the entire Indian subcontinent. This makes them not only holy destinations but also cultural highways through which stories, practices, and communities travelled.

North and South: Kedarnath rises in the snow-clad Himalayas, while Rameshwaram marks the southern reach of the Tamil coast.
East and West: Vaidyanath lies in today’s Jharkhand, while Somnath shines on Gujarat’s western shoreline, carrying centuries of resilience in the face of invasions.
The Central Heartland: Madhya Pradesh hosts temples like Omkareshwar and Mahakaleshwar, where Narmada and timeless cityscapes converge.

In this way, the Jyotirlingas collectively become not just a religious map but also a civilizational geography, showcasing the range of India’s landscapes, heritage, and local traditions. For pilgrims over centuries, undertaking journeys to one, several, or all of the Jyotirlingas was not just about devotion but about experiencing the vastness of their own homeland: mountain, river, plain, forest, desert, and sea, each sanctified by Shiva’s light.

At the heart of every Jyotirlinga is a story. But unlike fixed myths, these narratives exist in multiple versions, layered and adapted across regions. Somnath tells of the moon god’s relief from a curse; Omkareshwar emerges from the tale of divine contest on the Narmada; Kedarnath is linked with the penance of the Pandavas after Kurukshetra; Rameshwaram connects to Rama’s journey before crossing the sea to Lanka. In these stories, we glimpse a pattern: the Jyotirlinga shrines don’t emerge only from abstract theology but are deeply entwined with epic history, cosmic events, and moral lessons. Some legends highlight the consequences of pride, others the power of repentance, still others the compassion of Shiva as healer, protector, or cosmic witness. These stories also underscore a uniquely Indian way of sacralising geography: temples are not arbitrary but spring from mythic episodes rooted in the very soil, waters, or mountain where the shrine arose.

Though united in sanctity, the Jyotirlinga temples are strikingly diverse in architectural style. This diversity mirrors India’s regional creativity with each temple absorbing the styles of dynasties, local artisans, and materials at hand. Somnath rebuilt multiple times, embodies defiance and renewal, its sandstone spire rising against the Arabian Sea. Mahakaleshwar holds its sanctum underground, where rituals unfold in the raw intimacy of stone. Kedarnath, perched high in the Himalayas, stands austere and unyielding amid glacier and storm. Rameshwaram is famed for its magnificent corridors, among the longest in the world, echoing with chant and silence. Grishneshwar, smaller in scale, radiates intimacy with its sculpted beauty.

In each, stone becomes story, architecture becomes theology. Shikhara towers stretch skyward like frozen prayers. Mandapas receive wandering pilgrims. Intricate carvings unfold symbolic worlds: snakes, lotuses, cosmic wheels—all testifying to Shiva’s manifold nature.

The Jyotirlinga temples remain not relics of the past but vibrant centres of living tradition. Daily rituals unfold in sequence: dawn abhisheka with waters, milk, and flowers; chants of Vedic mantras; fragrance of incense; the rhythmic ringing of bells. Pilgrims arrive with hopes, vows, burdens, and gratitude. Water from sacred rivers is poured over the linga. Ashes are smeared on brows. Offerings are carried with devotion in baskets of marigold and bilva leaves. Nights resound with hymns and processions.

Beyond individual worship, festivals magnify the spirit of the Jyotirlingas: Mahashivaratri, in particular, transforms each temple into a vibrant ocean of chanting and fasting devotees, who hold vigil through the night to honour Lord Shiva’s cosmic dance.

The core symbolism of Jyotirlinga worship is profound. Where icons depict form, the Jyotirlinga signifies the formless infinite. The lingam is not an idol in the conventional sense but a symbol, a reminder of the ineffable, suggesting that the divine cannot be confined within anthropomorphic imagery. The idea of Shiva as formless light aligns with deep philosophical currents in Indian thought, especially Advaita philosophy: reality as one without a second, beyond image, beyond time, infinite like light itself. Worship of the Jyotirlinga thus becomes not just an act of bhakti or devotion, but also a gateway into contemplative realisation: the one who bows before the linga is also bowing before the boundless within themselves.

Perhaps one of the most remarkable aspects of the Jyotirlinga temples is their resilience. They have faced invasions, destruction, natural calamities, and yet have been rebuilt time and again, symbolising not just survival but renewal of faith. Somnath, for example, was desecrated multiple times across centuries, yet always rose anew. Kedarnath witnessed devastating floods, but continues to be a magnet of devotion. Rameshwaram has absorbed tidal rhythms of history and faith.

In this resilience lies a lesson: that the sacred, even when broken, is never truly destroyed. Faith finds ways to rebuild, to sing, to remember, to sanctify again. The Jyotirlingas are living examples of this civilisational continuity.

The Jyotirlingas are not only pilgrimage sites but cultural fountains. They have inspired poetry, devotional songs, art, and ritual practices across centuries. Saints and mystics, such as Tulsidas, Adi Shankaracharya, and countless regional poets, have sung of Shiva’s presence in these sacred shrines. Economically, the temples have long sustained communities of artisans, priests, and pilgrims. Socially, they facilitate gatherings that dissolve barriers: rich and poor, scholar and villager, all queue together to pour water over the same linga. They also serve as cultural markers: to say one has walked to Somnath, climbed to Kedarnath, bathed at Rameshwaram, is not only to claim devotional merit but to claim a deeper cultural identity.

In today’s world of fast travel, the Jyotirlinga circuit has taken new shapes. Devotees sometimes attempt to visit all twelve within a single journey, aided by trains, flights, and tour packages. For others, the pilgrimage is spread across a lifetime, an unfolding quest where each temple marks a personal milestone. Yet, even amidst modernity, the essence remains untouched: to travel to a Jyotirlinga is to step outside ordinary routine, to participate in a timeless cycle, to stand beneath stone spires and remember the infinite light.

Finally, the significance of the Jyotirlingas is not limited to geographical shrines. Many teachers remind us that the truest Jyotirlinga resides within, as the spark of consciousness and light at the core of being. The pilgrim’s outer journey, through dust roads and mountain passes, is mirrored by an inward journey, through meditation and realisation. The twelve Jyotirlingas may be seen as stations of the larger inner pilgrimage: toward recognizing the self as shaped by nothing but light, infinite and eternal.

The Jyotirlinga temples are not twelve stones scattered across India. They are twelve flames in a greater fire, twelve windows into infinity, twelve markers reminding us of the endless dance of destruction and renewal that is Shiva himself. To reflect on them is to reflect on a civilisation’s memory, on resilience against time, and on humanity’s longing to touch the infinite. So follow me along, as together we will walk more slowly into each temple’s world, pausing to hear its legends, study its architecture, savor its rituals, and glimpse how community and culture intertwine around its sacred space.

For now, let us hold this wider vision: that across mountains, coasts, rivers, forests, and deserts, the Jyotirlinga temples stand as luminous testimonies to the eternal light of Lord Shiva: stones that carry story, spaces that breathe devotion, shrines that forever point beyond themselves to the formless, radiant source of all.

In My Hands Today…

The Madman’s Library: The Strangest Books, Manuscripts and Other Literary Curiosities from History – Edward Brooke-Hitching

The Madman’s Library delves into its darkest territories to hunt down the oddest books and manuscripts ever written, uncovering the intriguing stories behind their creation.

From the Qur’an written in the blood of Saddam Hussein, to the gorgeously decorated fifteenth-century lawsuit filed by the Devil against Jesus, to the most enormous book ever created, The Madman’s Library features many long forgotten, eccentric, and extraordinary volumes gathered from around the world.

Books written in blood and books that kill, books of the insane and books that hoaxed the globe, books invisible to the naked eye and books so long they could destroy the Universe, books worn into battle and books of code and cypher whose secrets remain undiscovered. Spell books, alchemist scrolls, wearable books, edible books, books to summon demons, books written by ghosts, and more all come together in the most curiously strange library imaginable.

Featuring hundreds of remarkable images and packed with entertaining facts and stories to discover, The Madman’s Library is a captivating compendium perfect for bibliophiles, literature enthusiasts, and collectors intrigued by bizarre oddities, obscure history, and the macabre.

Adulting 101: The Importance of Problem-Solving and Critical Thinking Skills

Adulthood often arrives without warning. One day you’re sitting in university lectures, and the next you’re picked to lead a team project at your first job. Challenges, big and small, come at you from every direction: academic deadlines, workplace dilemmas, financial independence, and shifting social responsibilities. At the heart of thriving in these situations lies one essential duo: problem-solving and critical thinking skills.

For young adults stepping into independence, cultivating these abilities can be the difference between feeling overwhelmed and confidently navigating life’s complexities. Read on to dive deep into what these skills truly mean, why they are so important in school and early career life, and how you can actively cultivate them to build a strong foundation for adulthood.

What Are Problem-Solving and Critical Thinking Skills?

Problem-Solving Skills:
Problem-solving is the ability to identify challenges clearly and develop effective solutions. It is not about avoiding problems but rather transforming them into opportunities for improvement and growth. A good problem-solver is analytical, creative, and resilient enough to test different strategies until finding the best fit.

Key components of problem-solving include:

  • Identifying the problem: Understanding the real issue rather than reacting to the surface-level symptoms.
  • Analysing causes: Digging deeper into why a challenge exists in the first place.
  • Brainstorming alternatives: Thinking creatively to generate multiple possible solutions.
  • Choosing solutions thoughtfully: Weighing pros and cons before making a decision.
  • Implementing and evaluating: Acting on the chosen solution and adjusting as needed.

Critical Thinking Skills:
Critical thinking goes hand in hand with problem-solving. It is the ability to evaluate information objectively, avoid being misled by biases, and form well-thought-out judgments. Instead of accepting things at face value, critical thinkers ask why and how, and they use logic and reasoning to assess information.

Elements of critical thinking include:

  • Questioning assumptions: Not blindly accepting perceived truths.
  • Evaluating evidence: Looking at facts, statistics, and sources before forming opinions.
  • Connecting ideas logically: Making sense of how concepts link together.
  • Considering different perspectives: Understanding that issues often have multiple sides.
  • Making reasoned decisions: Drawing conclusions based on evidence, not emotions alone.

Together, problem-solving focuses on what to do about challenges, while critical thinking ensures you’re making those decisions with accuracy and fairness.

Why These Skills Matter

In University Life:
University is often the first testing ground for independent problem-solving and critical thinking. Professors don’t just hand you the right answers; you’re expected to research, evaluate, and form conclusions on your own. Common university scenarios include:

  • Managing time and priorities: Balancing coursework, part-time jobs, and social life requires constant decisions about resource allocation.
  • Academic assignments: Research papers and presentations demand evaluating sources, building logical arguments, and solving subject-specific challenges.
  • Group projects: Navigating clashing opinions and finding consensus requires both thinking critically about team dynamics and approaching problems with solutions that work for everyone.

In the Early Career Stage
Once stepping into the professional world, young adults quickly notice that employers highly value these skills. Consider the following workplace realities:

  • Decision-making responsibilities: Even entry-level positions require making daily judgments that affect workflow.
  • Complex projects: Many jobs involve ambiguity, and employers look for employees who can handle uncertainty while still delivering results.
  • Innovation and growth: Companies thrive when employees can spot problems, propose improvements, and think creatively about solutions.
  • Conflict management: Workplace disagreements are inevitable, and resolving them effectively requires a mix of reasoning and diplomacy.

In Everyday Life
Beyond school and work, critical thinking and problem-solving skills prove invaluable in everyday decisions, whether it’s budgeting, resolving disagreements with roommates, or choosing the right career opportunities. These are not abstract academic skills but real-world survival tools that reduce stress and improve outcomes.

Building and Cultivating Problem-Solving Skills
Problem-solving can feel overwhelming, but like any skill, it strengthens through practice. Here are ways young adults can develop stronger abilities:

  • Break Problems Down: A large, complex problem is easier to tackle when broken into smaller parts. For example, if you’re struggling with poor grades, instead of panicking about the entire picture, analyse individual courses, identify weak areas, and devise targeted solutions.
  • Use a Structured Approach: Methods like the IDEAL model (Identify, Define, Explore, Act, Look back) or design thinking can provide structure. These systems encourage systematic analysis rather than hasty guesswork.
  • Embrace Creativity: Sometimes solutions won’t be obvious. Allow space for brainstorming unconventional ideas. Creativity might help you innovate beyond traditional approaches.
  • Learn from Mistakes: Not every attempt will succeed, and that’s essential. Reflecting on what didn’t work helps you refine your strategy for next time.

Developing Critical Thinking Skills
Critical thinking, much like problem-solving, is a lifelong pursuit. Below are actionable strategies:

  • Ask More Questions: Instead of taking information at face value, challenge yourself to ask, “What evidence supports this?” Who benefits? What alternatives exist?
  • Diversify Perspectives: Expose yourself to different viewpoints: read books and articles on both sides of debates, talk to people with different opinions, and stay open to adjusting your perspective.
  • Practice Reflection: Journaling can help critically process daily experiences. Writing down what happened, how you felt, and why it mattered sharpens your ability to analyse situations.
  • Evaluate Information Sources: In an age of social media algorithms and misinformation, being discerning about where your information comes from is crucial. Learn to spot biases, verify data, and prioritise credible sources.

Exercises and Habits for Growth
Problem-Solving Habits

  • Puzzles and logic games: Activities like Sudoku, chess, or escape rooms sharpen problem-solving muscles.
  • Scenario challenges: Write out “What if?” scenarios and practice crafting response plans.
  • Project planning: Take initiative in planning events or group tasks, which forces you to organise resources and anticipate obstacles.

Critical Thinking Habits

  • Daily news analysis: Don’t just read headlines; analyse context and multiple outlets’ coverage.
  • Structured debates: Engage in respectful arguments with peers to practice defending ideas logically.
  • Reflective reading: While reading any book or article, pause to evaluate the strength of the argument and note any assumptions.

Tips and Tricks for Everyday Use

  • Pause before reacting: Often, emotional reactions cloud judgment. Taking even a short pause allows space for rational thought.
  • Seek mentorship: Learn problem-solving approaches from professors, managers, or more experienced peers.
  • Learn decision-making frameworks: Tools like SWOT analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats) can make decisions more systematic.
  • Use feedback wisely: Constructive criticism should be seen as an opportunity to test and refine your critical thinking.
  • Embrace uncertainty: Not every challenge has a clear answer. Sometimes the skill lies in moving forward confidently despite ambiguity.

The Long-Term Benefits of Mastering These Skills

Problem-solving and critical thinking are not just about handling situations today; they are investments in your entire adult future. Cultivating these abilities pays off by:

  • Improving employability: Employers consistently rank these as top skills sought in new hires.
  • Enhancing adaptability: Life is unpredictable, but with strong critical thinking and problem-solving, you can adjust more easily.
  • Boosting independence: Confidence in decision-making reduces reliance on others for solutions.
  • Strengthening relationships: Whether with colleagues, friends, or partners, being able to think through disagreements fosters healthier interactions.

The journey of adulthood is lined with both opportunities and obstacles. Young adults in university or entering the workforce are uniquely positioned to grow into resilient, thoughtful individuals by sharpening their problem-solving and critical thinking skills. These are not abstract academic theories; they are practical tools for making better academic, professional, and personal choices.

By practising questioning, evaluating information, exploring creative solutions, and learning from mistakes, you cultivate habits that prepare you for the complexities of the real world. As you step into independence, mastering these skills won’t just help you survive adulthood; it will empower you to thrive.