2016 Week 4 Update

I wrote myself a new jobscope and went back to Big B. I did get feedback from my previous boss and his first comment was “Do you really want to stay on given all the changes happening here?” Which was a valid point, some of the stuff I’ve been hearing over the past week have indicated that there’s trouble in paradise!

I showed Big B the jobscope I wrote for myself, and he did seem think there’s something in it. We’re meeting again today to discuss it further. The company which employes me has written to say they will be renewing the contract for another 3 months, which was what Big B also mentioned. Hopefully, by the end of February, I’ll have a better grasp of what is happening here. I have started to look for opportunities, but age is against me this time I know and it will be difficult….

On the home-front, things are going on well, the children are settling down in school, though a bit boring. I’m looking forward to the Chinese New Year long weekend in two weeks time for some R&R, more importantly sleep!

Have a great week folks!
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2016 Sec 1 Week 4 Update

We’re almost at the end of the first full month of school and the children have never been more busy! They’ve adapted themselves quite well to the more demanding schedule of secondary school, but I guess we need to wait till the first tests to see really how well they have adapted to school….

One good news which started the week for us was that BB got into the Singapore Youth Flying Club for his CCA. This was his dream CCA and the one for which he chose this particular school as his first choice school. He went for his first CCA and they spent the time getting to know each other and playing ice breakers. I’ve heard from other parents that this is an expensive CCA, as we need to buy model planes and remotes for them which should cost a few hundreds each year. Also they will inevitably crash planes, so that’s money gone!

GG on the other hand, still has not gotten her CCA allocation yet, which should come out next week. But unofficially she has already started attending Choir when they practice. Her school is going to go into Show Choir this year and she is super excited about it. It involves dancing to moves while singing and this way she gets to do both her passions – singing and dancing! She has a CCA attachment for Choir this week, which in her case is a moot point, since she is already attending it. Also she’s been texting her teacher for costumes to be worn for the Chinese New Year performance next week, so she’s happy!

I also went for my first Parent Support Group (PSG) meeting at BB’s school on Friday. In their primary school, although I was a parent volunteer, it was mostly ad-hoc. We didn’t have a formal PSG and there was one person who used to liaise between the school and parents. The meeting on Friday was good as we met the principal and some school leaders so we were able to voice out concerns. I also met other parents which was good for me.

 

2016 Week 3 Update

The week started on Monday with Big B changing my yearly appraisal meeting to later in the week. Then the recruitment company where I am nominally employed wrote to me saying that Big B has not yet confirmed that he is going to renew my contract. The whole week I was in pins and needles thinking about this this. At one point, I even thought that Big B was just sitting out my contract which is due to end in 2.5 weeks since I was having no work to do as it is!

After the appraisal, which to my surprise went well, I am even more confused. Big B is very satisfied with my work and I’ve gotten mostly 4s and 5s on the different parameters (on a scale of 1-5 with 5 being the best). The only criteria where I didn;t score was relationships. Apparently the people here don’t think I am a happy camper. I need to up my ante more on the office politics (something which I loathe) and as Big B put it, “When you are in a situation where you need to get get approval to get on board permanently, it helps to have more people on your side”. I agree, but I don’t like it!

Apparently since I am in this role for three years now, Big B is being pressured to either regularise my employment, which means making me permanent or let me go and this job will be done by one of the executive assistants as an enhanced role. They are still mulling over what the final decision will be, so in the meantime they will extend my contract for three months. I actually asked Big B “What would happen if they didn’t get the green light for my extended appointment and so does that mean I will be without a job after three months? Should I start looking for a new job now?” I think he was a bit taken aback at this, but he didn’t tell me what, just said he didn’t think it would come to that. So now I am to write a new job scope for myself which takes into account my current role as well as an enhanced version of what I want to do. So I guess my plan of action is to do that and at the same time start seriously looking for a new position.

On the home, we finally put the plans we had to renovate BB & GG’s rooms which we had not done when we shifted here around seven years back. The carpenter will take out the existing furniture and then pre-fabricate the new desk and book shelves in his factory and during the March holidays, will come over to fit it. In the process BB’s bed will have to go as it’s part of the existing built-in furniture, but we will replace it with a single bed which converts to a double one, so this will be useful when we have guests over.

After this, one after the other, my washing machine and laptop have also given up on me. After thinking we need to replace the washer since it’s almost eight years old, I spoke to the company customer service and tried to see if it could be repaired, but it was a no-go as the technician could only give a three months warranty and the repair job would cost slightly less than a new machine. So we went and ordered a new machine and happily, they delivered in less than 12 hours, so now we’re all sorted in that department!As for the laptop, I now need to take it to the service centre to get it repaired once again!

Because I don’t have much work in office, I am reading more than ever! I came to the Goodreads app a lot later than I care, but last year when I got in, I started the yearly reading challenge. I challenged myself to read 100 books in 2015 and completed the challenge just after Christmas. This year’s challenge is 125 books which this time at work helps. Reading fluff books (romances, chick-lit etc) will help me reach the goal faster. According to my calculations, I need to read 2.5 books a week or 10.4 books a month. I am currently ahead in the challenge and I need another 3 books to reach my January mini goal, which should be by the end of next week….

Have a great week people!

2016 Week 2 Update

a8710aa2de45ceea77262f4c13cab465The first work and school week of 2016!

We started the week with new chapter in our lives – BB & GG moving on to Secondary school as I wrote yesterday. It was a week full of anticipation, excitement as well as a bit of tepidation as both S & I wondered how GG & BB will cope with a new school, new friends etc. But our fears were unfounded as both have so far (touchwood) coped beautifully in their new school environment.

My first week at work was the usual – no work and plenty of time to think. It’s so much more harder to pretend to be busy than to actually be busy. With the exception of Monday, when I actually had stuff to do for the first half of the day, I was so free the whole week, I was resorting to typing random stuff on my laptop, just to show people I was busy. I’ve managed to snag an appointment with Big B for next week to discuss my performance this year. If that meeting happens (as Big B is well known for cancelling meetings with small minions like me at the very last minute), then I will definitely have a discussion on where my career is going to go in this company. I have been stagnant in the last one year and if this year will be status quo, then I see no choice for me but to start looking for a new job very very seriously (I know I’ve been talking about this for a very long time, but this year I am super serious about it).

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Oh, since I am on the subject of Big B, let me do a mini rant here – I absolutely hate it when he never replies to emails. I am not asking for lengthly and verbose replies to my emails, but it it too much to acknowledge my email to you. For almost every email I send him, I need to walk to his office to confirm what I said and get the response I need! I wonder if he does this only to me or to everyone else? Ok, rant over!!

Yesterday, both BB & GG got Edusave Awards from our local Member of Parliament. They got this for being among those with the best progress in their year. BB has been getting this award three years in a row now, GG got it for the first year, missed it last year and got it again this year. We were so proud of them and I have mentioned to both how happy we would be if they won the Merit Awards next year for being the top 10% of their level in school!

Here’s to a happy and productive week everyone!

2016 Sec 1 Week 2 Update

'Well, Alex, we survived the first day of the new school year.'

School finally started! We were on pins and needles the entire night before school started and I remember not being able to sleep till around 1! It is coincidental that their first day of Secondary school was the same date as their first day of primary school!

We left around 7, which in hindsight was late. Although we’ve done the route before, we didn’t anticipate the traffic which is quite bad, as many people drop their children to school before getting to work! Also the road leading to BB’s school is a narrow, single lane road, so that also eats into the time. We managed to get both to school on time though, narrowly missing being late. We experimented with leaving home slightly earlier and it seems to work, which will now be our daily norm.

I was a bit worried about them coming back home alone, as they’ve hardly, if ever taken the train/bus home alone, especially from an area they are not very familiar with, but they both surpassed all expectations. GG slightly lost her way on the first day and took a longer route to reach the train station, but she was ok from the second day onwards. BB was supposed to be taking the bus to get home, but he also started taking the MRT as it was a faster option.

The first week was Orientation Week where they got to know their classmates, seniors, teachers and the school. It was very hectic, with both coming home quite late except for the first day. Guess this is the start of being an adult, where you leave home as the sun starts to rise and return back only when it sets!

GG only got her class allocation by the end of the week, but BB got his on registration day. We learnt that GG’s school class allocation was by their PSLE marks, BB’s was by subject. He is in the Maths class which means everyone is a high scorer in the subject. He is the only one who scored an A* (91 and above) while the other 39 students have scored an A (between 76 and 90). So he has to really work hard to maintain this lead!

BB’s bestie is another class – the overall best class since he got 6 points more than BB. So both have been starting to make new friends in school. GG is very friendly and social and already made a couple of new friends while BB is starting to do so with the boys in his class. Since it’s a Maths class and boys are supposed to be stronger than girls in this subject there are 29 boys and only 11 girls in his class!

On Friday at BB’s school, we had a Parents session in the evening as well as the formal Secondary 1 induction. This was from 7 – 9 pm, which meant BB had been in school close to 14 hours!

Saturday was the Parents Dialogue plus CCA awareness day at GG’s school. Although they both had Hindi school that day, only BB went and GG and me went to her school.
After listening to both schools over the last two days, I am happy for both of them – both schools, so far, have been great and I am sure both BB & GG will have a great time in their respective schools.