I am knee-deep in annual cleaning and prepping for the festival of lights, Diwali. In Singapore, we don’t go as all out as we do in India, but there is still that air of anticipation and excitement for this pan-Indian festival. It doesn’t matter which region you belong to, which language you speak, or even which religion you adhere to, the festival of Diwali or Deepavali as it is sometimes also called, brings out the inner child in you. Whether it is wearing new clothes, eating loads of sweets and savoury foods, meeting family and friends, going to Diwali parties, or bursting firecrackers, everyone is caught up in the festivities. Do you celebrate the festival? Where are you in the planning process?

Today’s quote by American author Augusten Burroughs highlights the acceptance of human imperfections. Burroughs is best known for his memoirs, particularly Running with Scissors, which chronicles his unconventional and often difficult upbringing, and his work often explores themes of resilience, imperfection, and finding humour in life’s challenges, which resonates with his own experiences of overcoming adversity. In the quote, Burroughs emphasises that flaws are a natural part of being human. He finds comfort in being around others who are also imperfect, suggesting that vulnerability and authenticity are more relatable than striving for perfection. He acknowledges his own flaws but views them with understanding, knowing that despite his imperfections, he has good intentions. This reflects a healthy self-awareness and acceptance of the complexities of human nature. The quote suggests that true connections with others come from shared imperfections rather than a façade of perfection. Being open about flaws allows for deeper, more meaningful relationships.

Life is going on for all of us. I am still unemployed on a fulltime basis, but am doing some freelance writing, so that is some small consolation. I have been continuously applying for positions where I feel I would add value, but nothing has clicked so far. Please send positive thoughts my way, if you can that something clicks soon. GG is busy with school and the stress and pace has picked up a notch, but she is doing ok, so that’s a blessing. BB is also doing ok at national service, which, frankly speaking, I am surprised because most boys do not seem to enjoy the two years. I guess since he is doing something somewhat relevant to his course of study, he is not finding it as difficult as others. We miss him terribly, of course, but speak with him daily and see him for 48 hours every weekend!

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!