2024 Week 12 Update

American author, entrepreneur, and motivational speaker known for his self-help books, seminars, and coaching programs, Tony Robbins’ quote underscores the importance of learning from mistakes, addressing challenges, and embracing the imperfections inherent in the human experience. Robbins emphasises the value of viewing mistakes as learning opportunities rather than failures. By analysing the causes of problems, individuals can gain insights that help prevent similar issues in the future. The quote encourages proactive problem-solving by identifying the root cause of problems and taking steps to eliminate them. This approach fosters personal growth and continuous improvement. Robbins advocates for embracing imperfection as an essential aspect of being human. Instead of striving for unattainable perfection, he suggests focusing on being the best version of oneself and serving as a positive example for others. By embracing imperfection and learning from mistakes, individuals can exemplify the resilience, adaptability, and compassion that characterize the human experience. Rather than aiming for perfection, Robbins suggests striving to be an excellent example of humanity in all its complexity. In essence, today’s quote encourages individuals to adopt a growth mindset, tackle challenges head-on, and embrace the journey of self-improvement with compassion and resilience. It emphasises the value of learning, problem-solving, and being authentically human in the pursuit of excellence.

BB has rejoined his training unit after his leave following his passing out parade. He is to be a technician, which is something he is happy about because it is aligned with what he studied at the polytechnic. He will undergo a three-month training, then a one-month on-the-job training, after which he will be posted to his unit.

GG is very stressed with school. She is finding it hard to cope and this week had a mini breakdown. I could only console her and tell her getting fewer marks on a test is not the end of the world. But that is the reality of the world and the sooner she adapts to it, the better.

That’s all from me this week, stay positive and keep smiling.

2024 Week 11 Update

Today’s quote comes to us from the Spanish surrealist artist, Salvador Dali, known for his striking and bizarre images who worked in various media, including painting, sculpture, film, photography, and jewellery. This quote by Dali reminds us that perfection is an impossible and unrealistic goal, and that one should not be afraid of trying new things or making mistakes. By relinquishing the fear of imperfection, individuals can explore new ideas and possibilities without the constraints of unrealistic standards. Dalí’s words advocate for embracing the creative process itself, rather than fixating on achieving a flawless outcome. He recognizes that true innovation and artistic expression often arise from experimentation, risk-taking, and embracing the unexpected.

BB goes back to his unit tomorrow. He has been assigned to a training unit where he will learn to do maintenance work, which is close to what he studied in poly. So he is chill and very accepting of his new vocation. I hope he gets to learn useful skills that can be translated into real world skills. GG, on the other hand, is very stressed about school. But there’s nothing new there, is it?

I’ve been busy with work and my writing and some days I am so tired that after I am home, I am nodding off even before 9 pm! I have a gruelling commute, with my first and last mile by bus and the middle portion by train. But I am not complaining, this is my space and I am allowed to vent!

And on that note, have a fantastic Sunday and a wonderful and positive week!

2024 Week 10 Update

The iconic American actress, and multiple award winner, Meryl Streep, is the author of today’s quote. Beyond her remarkable acting career, Streep is also known for her advocacy on issues such as gender equality and environmental conservation, using her platform to effect positive change in the world. Streep suggests that prioritising the opinions of others over one’s own values and beliefs can lead to a loss of individual identity and authenticity. The quote encourages individuals to embrace their unique qualities and stay true to themselves, regardless of societal pressures or judgments. Streep’s words imply that true fulfilment and self-discovery come from staying grounded in one’s truth and living in alignment with personal values and convictions.

Yesterday, BB officially graduated from Basic Military Training and is now enjoying a well-deserved break. He will know later this week where he will be deployed to and I hope the unit he is assigned to is someplace where he enjoys doing his job and learns skills that are transferrable in the real world.

GG is busy with school, as usual, no change there. And for me, work has been so busy these days that I don’t have time to write. I need to figure out where and how I can make time to write so my blog does not suffer too much.

And on that note, let me go and do some writing. Have a great and positive week ahead everyone!

2024 Week 09 Update

An Irish modernist writer known for his innovative and experimental writing style, James Joyce’s quote emphasises the reciprocal nature of the mind’s workings. Joyce suggests that the mind functions akin to a mirror, reflecting the content and quality of the thoughts, ideas, and experiences that one feeds into it. The quote underscores the principle that the quality of one’s mental output, such as creativity, understanding, and perception, is directly influenced by the quality of the mental input, including education, experiences, and reflections. Joyce’s words imply that individuals bear responsibility for what they expose their minds to, highlighting the importance of cultivating a nourishing mental environment through reading, learning, and introspection.

This week has been crazy at work and I am so glad for today. It’ll be a mini break for me before the new work week starts again. I am so busy working on my laptop that my shoulders are perpetually achy and I have to keep getting GG to give me shoulder massages.

BB will finally finish his BMT next week and hopefully, he gets posted into a vocation that he enjoys for the next year and a half. We will know only the week after, so please send him positive energy. GG is, as usual, busy with school and projects and is constantly worried about grades.

And that’s all from me this week. Stay safe and positive and keep smiling!

2024 Week 08 Update

Today’s quote is from American physicist and astronaut, Ronald McNair, who made significant contributions to science and space exploration. In today’s quote, McNair encapsulates the essence of aspiration, action, and achievement. The quote underscores the significance of having dreams or aspirations in life. Dreams serve as the foundation for setting goals, envisioning possibilities, and pursuing personal growth and fulfilment. McNair’s quote implies that dreams are not merely idle wishes but essential prerequisites for turning aspirations into reality. Before one can embark on the journey of making a dream come true, one must first conceive of it and believe in its possibility. Dreams serve as powerful motivators, inspiring individuals to take action, overcome obstacles, and persevere in the face of challenges. They provide direction and purpose, fueling the drive to pursue one’s passions and aspirations. The quote suggests that dreams are expressions of human potential and imagination. They represent the limitless possibilities that individuals can envision for themselves and the world around them. In essence, Ronald McNair’s quote encourages individuals to cultivate and cherish their dreams, recognising them as the starting point for personal and professional achievements. It emphasises the transformative power of aspiration and the importance of nurturing a vision for the future.

Work has been pretty hectic this week and it will continue next week too. BB is almost at the end of his Basic Military Training and we will go and see his Passing Out Parade in the next few weeks. Then he gets a week off, during which time, he will know which unit he has been posted to. I am crossing my fingers to hope he gets a unit and vocation he enjoys and can learn something useful in the next 1.5 years. GG is busy with school as usual.

I’ve been pissed because I lost data from two external drives. A lot of blog posts I was working on were on one of the external drives and that made me both mad and sad. A lot of hard work has gone down the drain and now I have to recreate a couple of weeks’ worth of writing and this will push me back in my writing. So I am pissed!

That’s all from my side this week. Stay positive, I am trying too…