Yung Pueblo, the pen name of poet, writer, and meditation teacher Diego Perez, is the author of today’s quote. Born in Ecuador, he migrated to the United States in his early childhood and gained prominence through his writings on mindfulness, self-love, and personal development. The quote suggests that personal development and maturity involve accepting and embracing moments of vulnerability, discomfort, or emotional challenges. The quote implies that as individuals grow and evolve, they come to recognise that it’s normal and acceptable not to have everything figured out or to experience emotional lows. Being “okay with not being okay” signifies a level of self-acceptance and understanding that setbacks or difficult emotions are a natural part of the human experience. The quote suggests that true growth involves developing resilience and the ability to navigate through periods of discomfort without being overwhelmed by them. It’s about facing challenges head-on and using them as opportunities for learning and self-discovery. By encouraging acceptance of not being okay, the quote challenges the notion of perfectionism and the unrealistic expectation that one should always be in a state of contentment. It promotes a healthier perspective on the ebb and flow of emotions and life experiences.

It’s the last two weeks of the year and I am going to start clearing my leave, which means, I can start working on my writing and start planning what the blog will look like in 2024. I am looking forward to that this week.

In other news, well, there is no other news. BB is home from camp and will go back tomorrow. It’s always wonderful to have him back home. I am pleasantly surprised that he does not hate his BMT experience and doesn’t have many complaints about life in the barracks. Well, he needs to decide if this is something he wants to do more of and if he decides to sign on. I’ve told him, it has to be 100% his decision and this is something none of us will interfere in. We’ll know sooner or later what he decides and when he does, I will support him.

That’s all from me this week. Happy Holidays, everyone!

Today’s quote is a Chinese proverb that underscores the importance of maintaining hope, aspirations, and a sense of purpose in life. This quote tells us that dreams are symbolic of one’s hopes, goals, and aspirations. They represent the things we strive for and the visions we have for our lives. Using the metaphor of a bird with broken wings suggests a state of incapacity or limitation. Without dreams, life may lack direction, purpose, and the motivation to soar to greater heights. The quote encourages individuals to cherish and pursue their dreams, recognising them as essential components of a fulfilling and meaningful life. Dreams provide motivation, and the pursuit of those dreams can instill resilience in the face of challenges. They serve as guiding lights during difficult times. In essence, this proverb conveys the idea that dreams are not only sources of inspiration but also crucial for personal growth and well-being. It emphasizes the transformative power of having a vision and the potential for a less fulfilling life without the pursuit of one’s aspirations.

As the year winds down, I am introspecting a lot more these days. I guess it’s a combination of the winding down of a year and the beginning of a new year, which is like starting anew. This is something many do, as it is an opportunity to learn from experiences, understand one’s thoughts and feelings, and make resolutions or set goals for the new year.

That’s all from me this week. I have things I want to share, but because things are still in flux and not firmed up, I can’t share them yet, but hopefully soon. Stay safe and stay positive!

I am beyond exhausted, so today’s update will be a very short one. Yesterday’s event was a success, but the days leading up to it were hard work. But I am glad it’s done and dusted and life can go back to normal.

Today’s quote is attributed to the Buddha. This quote encapsulates key principles of mindfulness, the law of attraction, and the power of positive thinking. The quote underscores the influence of thoughts on one’s character and actions. It suggests that the nature of our thoughts plays a significant role in shaping who we are and what we eventually manifest in our lives. It also suggests a connection between emotions and the energy we attract. Positive emotions are thought to attract positive experiences, relationships, and opportunities, while negative emotions may draw in corresponding challenges. By envisioning a desired outcome or scenario, individuals are believed to contribute to the manifestation of those imaginings in their lives. The quote reflects the idea that our mental and emotional states play a crucial role in shaping our reality, aligning with principles found in various spiritual and self-help philosophies.

BB is also home this weekend and next week, he has block leave, which means he will be home for a block of time. I am excited about this so I can get to spend time with him. And it’s perfect because my big event is also over and I will have the time to spend with him.

That all this week, stay positive and keep smiling! 

Today’s quote is from the American animator, film producer, and entrepreneur, Walt Disney. The quote emphasises the importance of perseverance and resilience in the face of challenges. According to Disney, success is achievable as long as one does not give up or quit in the pursuit of their goals. It implies that success often requires a commitment to enduring difficulties without giving up. The difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is often their willingness to keep going despite challenges. A positive and determined attitude can make a significant difference in the outcome and by not quitting, one can increase their chances of reaching their desired outcome. Success may not always come quickly or easily, but the quote implies that persistence over time can lead to victory. The quote reflects the belief that continuous effort and the refusal to quit are key elements in achieving success, and the difference between winning and losing often lies in the decision to persevere.

This week has been very stressful, as will the next week be, because of an event at work, of which I am an important part in the coordination. But this too shall pass and then there will be some downtime.

BB has his first nighttime guard duty during his training. They did two hours of duty, followed by four hours of rest and this was over 12 hours. He is back home and will book into camp in a few hours from now. BB has more or less adjusted to life inside the camp. My only prayer is that he ends his basic training without any injuries.

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!

Today is the festival of Diwali or Deepavali, which is celebrated across the country and everywhere where the Indian diaspora lives. Here’s wishing everyone reading my blog a very happy Diwali. I wish you a Diwali filled with love, laughter, and sweet moments.May your home be blessed with happiness, prosperity, and love.

Today’s quote comes to us from the American media mogul, television host, actress, producer, and philanthropist, Oprah Winfrey. In this quote, Oprah tells us that each of us has a unique passion, talent, or calling that inspires us and gives our life purpose. Discovering and nurturing this inner “light” is the key to making a positive impact on the world. The quote encourages us to search for what truly excites and motivates us. It suggests that finding and nurturing this inner “light” is not only essential for personal fulfilment but is also the foundation for making a meaningful contribution to the world. The quote implies that by following one’s passion and making a positive impact, we can inspire and influence others, contributing to a better and brighter world. Today’s quote is a motivational reminder that each of us possesses the potential to create a positive change in the world by pursuing what genuinely inspires and drives us. It emphasises the importance of personal passion and purpose in making a difference and leaving a lasting impact on society.

And BB came back from his confinement week just in time to celebrate the festival of lights with us. We were thrilled to see him, because even video calls daily are not the same as having him in the house. Later in the evening today, we will go and visit his grandmother and grandaunt, who also can’t wait to see him again. He will go back to camp tomorrow and because of the public holiday tomorrow, we get an extra day with him. But now the wait will only be for a week each time, so I guess it won’t be so bad!

That’s all from my side today! And now off I go to celebrate Diwali with my family! From my family to yours, here’s wishing you a very Happy Diwali or Deepavali and may the festival bring you and your loved ones only joy, happiness and prosperity!