2024 Week 52 Update

Legendary singer, songwriter and best-known member of The Beatles, Sir Paul McCartney’s quote reflects the enduring, accessible nature of meditation and its value as a personal resource. McCartney highlights that meditation, once learned, becomes a tool for life—a practice that anyone can rely on whenever they seek peace, clarity, or a moment to reconnect. Meditation provides a way to centre oneself, creating moments of calm in an often chaotic world. Meditation is a gift that requires no special conditions or equipment, making it easy to integrate into daily life, whether during a stressful day at work, a quiet morning, or a moment of anxiety. It serves as a bridge to self-awareness and calm, and McCartney’s words remind us that it is always within reach, waiting to offer comfort, guidance, or clarity when needed. Through regular practice, meditation helps foster a sense of empowerment, as we become better equipped to respond to challenges with a clear and steady mind.

Today is the last Sunday of the year and the best time to reflect on the year that went by and what you want your life to look like in the new year. We’re at the fag end of our holiday in India, and while I am sad to leave my parents, I am also happy to go back to my life in Singapore. The last three weeks were a great pause in our lives, and I am going back, stronger and calmer, to a better me, to a new year, and to hopefully a better life.

Wishing each one of you a very Happy New Year! May 2025 be the year where everything falls into place in your lives and everything you think of and touch turns to gold…

2024 Week 51 Update

British author, speaker, and spiritual teacher Jeff Foster, known for his work on mindfulness, self-acceptance, and inner peace, is our author of the week. His quote invites us to reconsider our understanding of healing and wholeness. Rather than viewing healing as a process of fixing or mending something damaged within us, Foster suggests that true healing lies in rediscovering the intrinsic wholeness we already possess. By focusing on reconnecting with this unbroken essence, we shift from trying to “fix” ourselves to embracing a compassionate awareness of our own inherent completeness. The journey of true healing, according to Foster, is not about erasing pain or past trauma but about recognising that we can still experience peace, love, and self-acceptance despite it. This perspective helps us move away from the self-critical tendencies that can keep us stuck in cycles of shame or guilt. Instead of focusing on what needs “fixing,” we’re encouraged to approach ourselves with kindness and a sense of gratitude for our resilience. In this way, healing becomes a process of acceptance, allowing us to witness our strengths and embrace ourselves as we are.

Namaskaras from Bengaluru! We returned back to Bangalore early this week, and since then both GG & I have been sick with a cold and a bad cough. BB & S joined us a couple of days back, and we will be here for slightly over a week before we go back home.

The next week promises to be one filled with eating and shopping to our heart’s content as well as spending time with my mum and dad. I can’t wait to see what happens this week.

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling 🙂

2024 Week 50 Update

Hello from Mumbai!! Surprised? While I reach Bangalore earlier in the week, GG & I made a lightning trip to Mumbai to do some work, meet up with friends and eat good food. The trip has been amazing so far and as I return back to Bangalore today, I leave with a full heart and a hope I can return back to my city of birth, my Mumbai!

Today’s quote is from American singer-songwriter, author, and visual artist, Bob Dylan whose quote highlights the paradoxical nature of life. Though stability often suggests permanence or predictability, change is the one constant that remains. Dylan’s words encourage us to view change not as an unsettling force, but as the foundational element of existence itself. By embracing the inevitability of change, we allow ourselves to adapt, evolve, and find grounding in the very essence of transformation. The quote also suggests that fighting against change or yearning for a permanent state is a source of struggle. When we cling to what feels stable, we often resist life’s natural rhythms, which inevitably brings discomfort and stress. By contrast, accepting change as an unshakable part of life grants us peace and agility. Dylan’s perspective reminds us to approach life with a mindset that values adaptability over rigid attachment, allowing us to be more present and less burdened by fear of the unknown. In essence, Dylan’s message reminds us that the real strength lies not in trying to find permanent answers but in cultivating our adaptability, our openness, and our appreciation for each moment. Stability, paradoxically, is found in learning to flow with change.

This week was a super hectic one, what with flying to Bangalore and then Mumbai. So other than catching up with friends and enjoying my time in what I still consider my hometown, I didn’t do much.

I’ll share more about the trip later as well as some photos, but for now, let me bid you adieu! Keep smiling and stay positive.

2024 Week 49 Update

American naturalist, philosopher, and writer Henry David Thoreau captures altruism’s profound beauty and impact. At its core, it reminds us that life’s truest fulfilment often comes from making a difference in the lives of others. This sentiment stands out as a call to put others’ happiness and well-being at the forefront in a world that frequently prioritises individual achievements, possessions, and personal success. Thoreau’s message also speaks to the notion that beauty is not limited to appearances or material things but can be found in our actions and intentions. Compassionate acts, regardless of size, can uplift others, and even a single person’s efforts to bring positivity can create ripples that influence an entire community. Ultimately, Thoreau suggests that there’s a special kind of beauty in this act of service and generosity. In seeking to make life better for others, we discover a deeper connection to the world around us, experiencing firsthand how powerful compassion and empathy can be.

Later in the week, I will be travelling to India to visit my parents and I am super excited about the trip. I have paused my job search till the new year as nothing has come up and I want to take this time to re-evaluate my choices and figure out what I really want.

I’ve managed to finish my year’s reading target and as of today, I have read 53 books, one more than what I set out to read. I hope to read some more during this month, especially while in India when I will have time on my hands.

I haven’t been walking as much since November because of my ankle pain. I am also taking it easy until I see the specialist because I don’t want to make a potentially severe issue worse. So as of the end of November, I have finished my circuit of India, having crossed my home in Mumbai as well as the retirement home in Bangalore my parents now live in and after taking the east coast road, have crossed into Myanmar from Manipur. My walk met my incoming route near Siliguri and I crossed into Myanmar from the same place I entered India and Manipur, at Moreh. I am about 200 km north of Mandalay and after Myanmar, I still have Thailand and Malaysia to cover before I reach home, another 3,000 plus km and a year’s worth of walking.

And on that note, see you next week in India! Enjoy the holidays and stay positive and keep smiling!

2024 Week 48 Update

We’re in the last month of the year and I don’t know about you all, but I have started reflecting on how the year was for me and what I want for 2025. What about you? Do you reflect on your life in the last days of the year?

Today’s quote by Roshi Joan Halifax, an American Zen Buddhist teacher, anthropologist, author, and pioneer in end-of-life care speaks of the true, revitalising power of compassion. Often, people perceive compassion as an exhausting emotion, especially in the face of life’s myriad challenges, suffering, and demands. However, Halifax offers a different perspective, one that sees compassion as a wellspring of energy and fulfilment. When we engage compassionately, we step out of the confines of our limited perspectives and connect deeply with others, creating bonds that can inspire, uplift, and renew our sense of purpose. Halifax reminds us that compassion is not about depleting ourselves; rather, it is about opening ourselves up to the boundless energy that arises from genuine connection. Practising compassion allows us to transcend the narrow focus on our individual concerns and challenges. By understanding and empathising with others, we experience a profound sense of unity, belonging, and purpose. Compassion fosters empathy and helps cultivate a broader view of the world, often easing personal burdens as it places our own lives within a larger context.

Life is going on as usual, there’s nothing much to update. Nothing much has changed since last week. I have started planning and shopping for my trip to India and am super excited. GG is on leave and has been meeting up with friends before she goes on holiday and BB is busy with his camp. He will be using up his leave to go to India and visit his grandparents.

And with that, I leave you this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!