2024 Week 23 Update

Dale Carnegie is an American writer, lecturer and developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking and interpersonal skills. He is best known for his groundbreaking book “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” first published in 1936, which has become one of the best-selling self-help books of all time. Carnegie’s quote emphasises the power of perseverance and determination to achieve significant accomplishments. The quote highlights that many of the world’s greatest achievements have been made by individuals who persisted despite facing seemingly insurmountable challenges and hopeless situations. It underscores that success often comes from a relentless commitment to one’s goals and a refusal to give up, even when the odds are against them. Carnegie’s words serve as an inspiration to keep striving and maintaining hope, suggesting that unwavering determination can lead to remarkable outcomes, regardless of the difficulties encountered.

India finally finished its dance with democracy with the results declared earlier this week. Like many Indians or people of Indian origin both within the country and abroad, I too was hooked to the results coming in. The Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) and its coalition, the National Democratic Alliance (NDA), retained power, albeit with reduced numbers. The BJP won 240 seats, down from 303 in 2019, losing its singular majority but maintaining control through coalition support. The Indian National Developmental Inclusive Alliance or INDIA, a coalition led by the Indian National Congress (INC), significantly increased its representation, securing 234 seats, with the Congress alone winning 99 seats. This marked a substantial improvement for the opposition, which will now hold the status of the Official Opposition in the Lok Sabha.

Voter turnout was remarkable, with over 642 million people casting their votes, including record participation by women voters. The election process was the largest in history, surpassing previous records and involving extensive phases across the country. Despite BJP’s victory, the elections were marred by controversies, including allegations of Electronic Voting Machine (EVM) malfunctions and suppression of political opponents. Prime Minister Narendra Modi, having completed two terms, will now lead a coalition government for his third term, supported by key allies such as the Telugu Desam Party and Janata Dal (United). Simultaneous state legislative assembly elections in Andhra Pradesh, Arunachal Pradesh, Odisha, and Sikkim, along with by-elections for 25 legislative assembly constituencies, also took place.

BB is at the tail end of his current course before he joins his unit for on-the-job training later this month. This means that for the next 10 days, his course will be stay-out, meaning that he comes home each night. BB is thrilled with this, as according to him, he sleeps best in his bed! GG is enjoying her holidays, as she didn’t manage to secure any internships. She is doing one course in summer school and she is busy with that in addition to crocheting and going out with friends. As for me, I am still where I was last week, with no change in status.

And that’s all from me this week. Keep smiling!

2024 Week 22 Update

Irish playwright, poet and novelist, known for his sharp wit, flamboyant style and brilliant conversational skills, Oscar Wilde’s quote suggests that the voluntary reading we do out of personal interest and passion shapes our character and intellect more profoundly than required reading. Wilde emphasises the importance of reading out of personal choice and curiosity. This type of reading often reflects our true interests, passions, and values. The quote implies that the knowledge, ideas, and perspectives we gain from this voluntary reading have a significant impact on who we become, especially in situations where our natural tendencies and instincts come to the fore. Wilde’s words suggest that what we choose to read in our leisure time can deeply influence our beliefs, attitudes, and behaviours, ultimately shaping our identity in ways that compulsory reading might not.

S and I are still sick. My cold has gone, but there’s a bit of phlegm in the throat which is just not going away. If you have any remedies that work, please let me know.

My job search is still going on, but in the last two-plus months, I have not had a single interview call. I am still trying to be positive, but how long this will take, I don’t know.  

Life has become boring these days and in the last week, I had zero motivation to write. How the days passed is still a mystery!

And on that note, have a wonderful week people and stay positive!

2024 Week 21 Update

Freelance writer and aphorist, Robert Brault’s quote emphasises the importance of appreciating the small, everyday moments in life. Brault suggests that the seemingly insignificant moments in our daily lives often hold more value and significance than we realise. Taking the time to appreciate these “little things” can enhance our overall happiness and fulfilment. The quote implies that with time, we might come to understand that these small moments contributed greatly to our life’s joy and meaning. What we might overlook or take for granted today can become cherished memories in the future. Brault’s words encourage mindfulness and gratitude, reminding us to be present and to find joy in the simple pleasures and experiences that make up our everyday lives.

This week we have a sick household. It started with GG going out for a picnic with her friends in the middle of the day! She came home with a bad cold and passed it to me and S. I have spent the better part of the week sneezing, coughing and feeling woozy with the cough medicines. I hope we get better soon but with a cold and cough, I know that medicines will only alleviate the discomfort, but it has to run its course.

And on that note, have a great weekend! Stay positive and keep smiling!

2024 Week 19 Update

Tig Notaro is an American stand-up comedian, writer, and actress known for her deadpan delivery and unique comedic style. Her quote highlights the significance of incremental progress and perseverance. Notaro emphasises that even the smallest, seemingly insignificant steps can lead to substantial progress over time. Consistent effort, no matter how small, contributes to long-term success. The quote acknowledges that these steps may be uncomfortable or challenging, but facing and overcoming this discomfort is essential for growth and achievement. Notaro’s words encourage patience and persistence, illustrating that accumulated small actions can lead to significant outcomes and distances, both literally and metaphorically.

Earlier this week, Lawrence Wong was sworn in as Singapore’s fourth Prime Minister, succeeding Mr. Lee Hsien Loong. At 51, he is the first Prime Minister born after Singapore’s independence, symbolising a generational shift in leadership. The ceremony took place at the Istana lawn and was a significant event, marking the transition from the third-generation to the fourth-generation (4G) political team. This was the first swearing-in ceremony I watched in Singapore. Our former prime minister was sworn in in 2004 and with twin infants at home and a full-time job, I doubt I had time to even breathe. In his inaugural speech, PM Wong emphasised unity and the collective effort to build a brighter future for Singapore.

I start my unemployment days this week and hope it is a short-lived one. I am also working with a career coach, so hopefully, I will be able to erase mistakes from my resume and get interviews soon. To date, I have applied to more than 60 positions, but have not received a single interview call, and have been mostly ghosted.

That’s all from me this week! Stay positive, as I am trying to be and keep smiling!

2024 Week 18 Update

Today, Mother’s Day is celebrated in many parts of the world. It is a day to honour the strength and compassion that mothers bestow upon us. A mother is a child’s guide, offering wisdom and encouragement. She is the architect of their character and the keeper of their childhood memories. Her love is the invisible thread that weaves through the tapestry of their lives, ever-present and enduring. So, on this Mother’s Day, let us pause and reflect on the profound impact of these remarkable women. Let us celebrate their sacrifices, acknowledge their unwavering support, and express our deepest gratitude for their everlasting love.

To all the mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, and mother figures who enrich our lives in countless ways, may this Mother’s Day be filled with joy, laughter, and the recognition you so richly deserve. Happy Mother’s Day!

American poet, memoirist, and civil rights activist known for her inspirational writings and powerful advocacy for social justice, Maya Angelou’s quote emphasises the transformative power of courage and resilience in the face of failure. Angelou suggests that true success lies not in avoiding failure, but in having the courage to confront it and extract valuable lessons from the experience. By embracing failure as a natural part of the journey toward success, individuals can gain insights, develop resilience, and ultimately emerge stronger and wiser. Angelou’s words encourage a shift in perspective, recognising that failure is not an endpoint but a stepping stone to greater achievements. Individuals can transform setbacks into personal and professional growth opportunities through courage and perseverance.

I am heading to the end of my employment, which feels bittersweet. On the one hand, it’s a relief to move away from some toxic people, but on the other hand, I will miss the programme I was part of and the money I earned at the end of the month.

It’s been hot here in Singapore as well as across Asia. Extreme heat can have significant consequences for both the environment and human health. Conditions such as heat stroke can be fatal and heat can worsen cardiovascular and respiratory disorders, as well as other chronic conditions like diabetes and renal disease. Outdoor and manual workers are at a higher risk for heat-related injuries, leading to losses in productivity and increased costs. Even Bengaluru, said to have a very equitable climate, has not been spared this summer.

I don’t have much to report this week, so that’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!