Spiritual teacher and author renowned for his teachings on mindfulness and living in the present moment, Eckhart Tolle’s quote emphasises the profound strength and wisdom required to release what no longer serves us. Letting go can seem counterintuitive in a world where perseverance is often celebrated. However, Tolle suggests that clinging to outdated beliefs, toxic relationships, or past failures can drain energy, impede growth, and create suffering. Letting go, in contrast, liberates us, creating space for transformation, healing, and new opportunities. Letting go is not about giving up or surrendering in defeat; it is about recognising when something no longer aligns with our values, goals, or well-being. It takes courage to release attachments, especially when they are deeply ingrained in our identity or provide a sense of security. By letting go, we acknowledge the impermanence of life and allow ourselves to flow with its natural rhythms. This act is empowering because it shifts our focus from resistance to acceptance, enabling us to reclaim control over our emotional and mental states. Tolle’s words encourage mindfulness—the practice of living in the present moment without being burdened by regrets of the past or anxieties about the future. Holding on to pain, resentment, or fear keeps us tethered to the things hindering our growth. Letting go, on the other hand, is an act of self-compassion, demonstrating a willingness to prioritise inner peace over external circumstances. This concept applies broadly to relationships, personal ambitions, and even self-identity. A toxic relationship, for instance, may provide familiarity, but releasing it can open the door to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Similarly, letting go of perfectionism or rigid expectations can free us to pursue goals with authenticity and joy. Tolle’s insight reminds us that power is not about controlling every aspect of life but about embracing its fluidity and trusting the renewal process. In essence, the quote invites us to view letting go not as a sign of weakness, but as an act of profound strength that can lead to freedom, self-discovery, and peace.

This is the first Sunday of 2025, and the entire year is open and ready for us. So what are your plans for the year? We returned back to Singapore on the last day of 2024 and spent the day catching up on sleep and celebrating S’ birthday. Contrary to previous years, I slept in on the first day of the year. Maybe this will be the change that makes a difference in my life this year.

I have lots of plans for 2025, including some travel for which I am very excited. I’ll share more once the plans get finalised. Other plans, as usual, include being more healthy, creative, and financially prudent. BB is back in camp, and we have started the countdown to his finishing his national service, which is happening in the last quarter of this year. GG will start school later this month, and this semester is going to be an intensive one for her, one that she is not looking forward to.

And on that note, here’s wishing everyone an amazing 2025! May the year bring you hope, joy, happiness, and prosperity. May all your dreams materialise this year and all wishes fulfilled. Have a great year!

Legendary singer, songwriter and best-known member of The Beatles, Sir Paul McCartney’s quote reflects the enduring, accessible nature of meditation and its value as a personal resource. McCartney highlights that meditation, once learned, becomes a tool for life—a practice that anyone can rely on whenever they seek peace, clarity, or a moment to reconnect. Meditation provides a way to centre oneself, creating moments of calm in an often chaotic world. Meditation is a gift that requires no special conditions or equipment, making it easy to integrate into daily life, whether during a stressful day at work, a quiet morning, or a moment of anxiety. It serves as a bridge to self-awareness and calm, and McCartney’s words remind us that it is always within reach, waiting to offer comfort, guidance, or clarity when needed. Through regular practice, meditation helps foster a sense of empowerment, as we become better equipped to respond to challenges with a clear and steady mind.

Today is the last Sunday of the year and the best time to reflect on the year that went by and what you want your life to look like in the new year. We’re at the fag end of our holiday in India, and while I am sad to leave my parents, I am also happy to go back to my life in Singapore. The last three weeks were a great pause in our lives, and I am going back, stronger and calmer, to a better me, to a new year, and to hopefully a better life.

Wishing each one of you a very Happy New Year! May 2025 be the year where everything falls into place in your lives and everything you think of and touch turns to gold…

British author, speaker, and spiritual teacher Jeff Foster, known for his work on mindfulness, self-acceptance, and inner peace, is our author of the week. His quote invites us to reconsider our understanding of healing and wholeness. Rather than viewing healing as a process of fixing or mending something damaged within us, Foster suggests that true healing lies in rediscovering the intrinsic wholeness we already possess. By focusing on reconnecting with this unbroken essence, we shift from trying to “fix” ourselves to embracing a compassionate awareness of our own inherent completeness. The journey of true healing, according to Foster, is not about erasing pain or past trauma but about recognising that we can still experience peace, love, and self-acceptance despite it. This perspective helps us move away from the self-critical tendencies that can keep us stuck in cycles of shame or guilt. Instead of focusing on what needs “fixing,” we’re encouraged to approach ourselves with kindness and a sense of gratitude for our resilience. In this way, healing becomes a process of acceptance, allowing us to witness our strengths and embrace ourselves as we are.

Namaskaras from Bengaluru! We returned back to Bangalore early this week, and since then both GG & I have been sick with a cold and a bad cough. BB & S joined us a couple of days back, and we will be here for slightly over a week before we go back home.

The next week promises to be one filled with eating and shopping to our heart’s content as well as spending time with my mum and dad. I can’t wait to see what happens this week.

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling 🙂

Hello from Mumbai!! Surprised? While I reach Bangalore earlier in the week, GG & I made a lightning trip to Mumbai to do some work, meet up with friends and eat good food. The trip has been amazing so far and as I return back to Bangalore today, I leave with a full heart and a hope I can return back to my city of birth, my Mumbai!

Today’s quote is from American singer-songwriter, author, and visual artist, Bob Dylan whose quote highlights the paradoxical nature of life. Though stability often suggests permanence or predictability, change is the one constant that remains. Dylan’s words encourage us to view change not as an unsettling force, but as the foundational element of existence itself. By embracing the inevitability of change, we allow ourselves to adapt, evolve, and find grounding in the very essence of transformation. The quote also suggests that fighting against change or yearning for a permanent state is a source of struggle. When we cling to what feels stable, we often resist life’s natural rhythms, which inevitably brings discomfort and stress. By contrast, accepting change as an unshakable part of life grants us peace and agility. Dylan’s perspective reminds us to approach life with a mindset that values adaptability over rigid attachment, allowing us to be more present and less burdened by fear of the unknown. In essence, Dylan’s message reminds us that the real strength lies not in trying to find permanent answers but in cultivating our adaptability, our openness, and our appreciation for each moment. Stability, paradoxically, is found in learning to flow with change.

This week was a super hectic one, what with flying to Bangalore and then Mumbai. So other than catching up with friends and enjoying my time in what I still consider my hometown, I didn’t do much.

I’ll share more about the trip later as well as some photos, but for now, let me bid you adieu! Keep smiling and stay positive.