Freelance writer and aphorist, Robert Brault’s quote emphasises the importance of appreciating the small, everyday moments in life. Brault suggests that the seemingly insignificant moments in our daily lives often hold more value and significance than we realise. Taking the time to appreciate these “little things” can enhance our overall happiness and fulfilment. The quote implies that with time, we might come to understand that these small moments contributed greatly to our life’s joy and meaning. What we might overlook or take for granted today can become cherished memories in the future. Brault’s words encourage mindfulness and gratitude, reminding us to be present and to find joy in the simple pleasures and experiences that make up our everyday lives.

This week we have a sick household. It started with GG going out for a picnic with her friends in the middle of the day! She came home with a bad cold and passed it to me and S. I have spent the better part of the week sneezing, coughing and feeling woozy with the cough medicines. I hope we get better soon but with a cold and cough, I know that medicines will only alleviate the discomfort, but it has to run its course.

And on that note, have a great weekend! Stay positive and keep smiling!

Today’s quote is by American writer, publisher, and philosopher known for his inspirational essays and aphorisms, Elbert Hubbard, who often explored themes of individualism, self-reliance, and the pursuit of personal excellence. Hubbard’s quote underscores the detrimental impact of excessive fear and self-doubt on personal growth and fulfilment. He suggests that allowing fear of failure to dominate one’s mindset can prevent them from taking risks and pursuing opportunities, ultimately hindering their potential for success and happiness. The quote encourages individuals to accept that making mistakes is a natural part of life’s journey and that dwelling on the possibility of failure can impede progress and personal development. Hubbard’s words advocate for courage, resilience, and a willingness to embrace challenges and uncertainties. By reframing mistakes as opportunities for learning and growth, individuals can navigate life with greater confidence and optimism. This is something very similar to what someone told me recently, so this is going to be my new mantra from now on!

I mentioned last week that I was going to be talking to a career coach for an introductory session. I did that this week. While the coach I spoke to was wonderful, doing this in the long run may be very expensive, so I am thinking of doing a couple of sessions, including a resume overview, to see if that would work out.

GG’s exams are done, so she is enjoying herself by watching shows on Netflix and looking for internships. Let’s hope she finds something she enjoys doing. As for BB, it’s the same as last week. I will probably have something new to report only after he joins his unit after training.

That’s it from me this week. Keep smiling and stay positive!

Today’s quote by former American President and one of the men I look up to, Barack Obama, resonates with me, given my state of mind these days. The quote emphasises the importance of using failures as a learning opportunity rather than allowing them to negatively impact one’s self-perception. It suggests that instead of viewing failures as a reflection of one’s identity, one should see them as valuable experiences from which to gain wisdom and improve. It’s about shifting the perspective from a fixed mindset, where failures are seen as insurmountable, to a growth mindset, where challenges are embraced as chances to develop and strengthen one’s abilities.

So how can you do that? Instead of brushing off failures, you should take the time to reflect on them. Ask yourself what went wrong, what could have been done differently, and what lessons can be learned. Embrace the idea that abilities and intelligence can be developed. See challenges as opportunities to grow, rather than obstacles that define you. After a failure, identify specific areas for improvement and set goals to develop those skills. Don’t hesitate to ask for feedback from others. Constructive criticism can provide valuable insights into areas you may not have considered. Persistence is key. When faced with setbacks, remind yourself of the progress you’ve made and the lessons learned along the way. Recognise and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. This helps build confidence and reinforces a positive association with learning from mistakes. And lastly, remember that it’s about shifting your perspective to view failures not as a negative reflection of your abilities, but as stepping stones to success. Now all I need to do is remember this. Should I print this out and put it above my desk? Maybe I will!

This week, as a way to reframe my failure, I did something I have never done. I reached out to a career coach and will have my initial introductory session next week. And if I am convinced this is the right thing to do, I will pay for a few sessions to see if I can turn things around.

GG just finished her second-semester exams and it’s been a hit-and-miss so far. Some papers went well and some were not so good. BB is fine at camp and is now in his second month of training. After three months of training here, he will move to his unit for a month of on-the-job training. He is happy at camp, because not only is it close to home, but since he is doing engineering work, he feels he is learning something useful.

Please send positive energies my way as I attempt to find a new job in my fifties!