2026 Week 39 Update

This week’s quote by American scientist, meditation teacher and professor emeritus of medicine at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, Jon Kabat-Zinn, is an invitation to stop fighting reality, even if only for a moment. Much of our inner tension comes from believing that something should be different. The situation should have worked out another way. Someone should have behaved differently. We should be more successful, calmer, happier or further along than we are. While wanting change is perfectly natural, constantly measuring the present against an imagined version of how things should be can prevent us from experiencing what is actually happening.

Kabat-Zinn isn’t suggesting that we become passive or stop trying to improve our circumstances. Acceptance is not the same as resignation. We can acknowledge, This is where I am right now, while still deciding where we would like to go next. In fact, seeing the present clearly often allows us to respond more wisely because we are no longer using our energy to deny or resist it. The second half of the quote may be even harder. Allowing ourselves to be exactly as we are means temporarily putting aside self-judgement. We don’t have to fix every flaw, resolve every uncertainty or become a better version of ourselves before deciding that we are worthy of kindness. Sometimes peace begins with something surprisingly simple: stopping the argument with the present moment.

This week felt like a lesson in turning thought into structure. So much of what I worked on involved taking something large, complicated or slightly nebulous and asking: What are we actually trying to achieve? How do we get there? And how will we know that what we’re doing is making a difference? Slowly, scattered ideas became frameworks, possibilities became plans, and information became something I could actually use. There was a lot of learning woven into the week too, the kind that makes me look differently at work I have already been doing and realise that sometimes the question isn’t simply whether something was accomplished, but what changed because of it. I suspect that distinction will stay with me long after the workshops, notes and spreadsheets have disappeared from immediate memory.

By the end of the week, there was also the satisfying feeling of having completed what I had set out to do, perhaps even a little earlier than expected. And then life provided its inevitable reminder that beautifully organised plans are only ever provisional. Something far more important needed attention, and everything else simply had to rearrange itself around it. Perhaps that’s what I’m taking away from this week. Structure matters, planning matters, measuring progress matters, but flexibility matters too. We can build systems, organise our days and carefully map the road ahead. Then life changes the itinerary without consulting us. And maybe the real measure of progress isn’t whether everything went according to plan. It’s discovering that*when it doesn’t, I can adjust the plan without losing myself in the process.

This week, in the Bhagavad Gita, in verse 2.48, most people think peace comes after success. Krishna teaches something far more radical. Peace comes from how we approach our work, not from the outcome of it. When we become attached to results, every success inflates us and every setback diminishes us. We begin living at the mercy of circumstances. This verse invites us to a different way of being. Give your best effort. Act with sincerity and commitment. Then release the need to control the outcome. Equanimity does not mean indifference. It means remaining grounded regardless of what happens. The strongest people are not those who never fail. They are those who remain steady whether they succeed or fail. In Krishna’s teaching, this balance is not merely wisdom. It is Yoga itself.

This week, I learned that when you have the courage to leave behind what’s no longer right for you, you also have the courage to move toward what’s aligned, even when it’s hidden behind the veil of uncertainty. No matter how heavy your thoughts or emotions may feel, keep trusting the process of life. What seems unbearable now will eventually become a chapter that leads you somewhere meaningful. It only takes one “yes” to begin a new adventure, one that has the power to transform your life in unexpected, magical ways. Keep going.

That’s all I have for you this week. Stay positive, stay safe and keep smiling!

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