2023 Words of the Year

Every year, dictionaries and language authorities take up the mantle of word sleuths, scouring the linguistic landscape for the term that best captures the zeitgeist of the past twelve months. These words of the year transcend mere dictionary definitions, acting as cultural barometers and reflecting our anxieties, aspirations, and the shifting sands of our collective consciousness.

Oxford Dictionary
The Oxford Dictionary, the venerable custodian of the English language, crowned “rizz” its 2023 Word of the Year. Born in the effervescent realm of online slang, “rizz” defies easy definition. It encompasses charm, charisma, and an almost magnetic ability to attract and impress. Think smooth moves, witty repartee, and the undeniable swagger that makes hearts flutter and heads turn.

“Rizz” isn’t just a word; it’s a cultural phenomenon. Its meteoric rise reflects the growing influence of internet slang and the democratization of language itself. It’s a testament to the power of Gen Z to carve their linguistic niche, one meme and TikTok video at a time.

Dictionary.com
Across the pond, Dictionary.com chose “hallucinate” as its word of the year. But fear not, no mass psychosis is upon us! This “hallucinate” refers not to the clinical variety but to the ever-blurring lines between reality and the increasingly sophisticated simulations crafted by artificial intelligence.

From deepfakes that make anyone say anything to the hyper-curated realities of social media, “hallucinate” captures the unsettling yet seductive power of technology to bend and reshape our perception of the world. It’s a cautionary tale in the age of digital illusion, urging us to remain discerning travellers within the labyrinthine landscapes of the virtual.

Merriam-Webster
For Merriam-Webster, the quest for authenticity reigned supreme. In a world awash in filters and facades, “authentic” emerged as the word that resonated most deeply. It’s a yearning for genuineness, for connection beyond the carefully constructed personas we present online and offline.

“Authentic” reflects a growing societal desire for transparency, for experiences and relationships that ring true. It’s a pushback against the tide of artifice, a call to embrace our vulnerabilities and celebrate the unique tapestry of our narratives.

Collins Dictionary
Collins Dictionary has crowned “AI,” the ubiquitous acronym for artificial intelligence, as its Word of the Year for 2023. This potent choice reflects the undeniable pervasiveness of AI in every corner of our lives, from healthcare to art, entertainment to ethics.

From self-driving cars navigating city streets to language models like myself parsing your questions, AI has become the invisible hand shaping our reality in profound and often unsettling ways. Choosing “AI” as the Word of the Year isn’t just a recognition of its technological prowess, but a call to examine its ever-expanding role in our society and, crucially, to define the future we want AI to forge for us.

Cambridge Dictionary
Cambridge has also chosen “Hallucinate” as its word of the year. The surge of interest in this word has been prompted by an abundance of tools being released for public use, all of which depend on large language models. With this new technology comes a new language. Many existing words, such as hallucinate, have adopted additional AI-related meanings this year as well.

The Cambridge Dictionary team chose hallucinate as its Word of the Year 2023 as it recognized that the new meaning gets to the heart of why people are talking about AI. Generative AI is a powerful tool but one we’re all still learning how to interact with safely and effectively. This means being aware of both its potential strengths and its current weaknesses.

While 2023 threw its fair share of curveballs, the diverse tapestry of ‘Words of the Year’ also whispers a story of resilience, innovation, and a search for meaning. As we step into the unknown of 2024, let these words serve as a compass, guiding us towards authenticity, connection, and perhaps a sprinkle of digital rizz along the way. So, which ‘Word of the Year’ resonates most with you?

2023 Week 52 Update

Here’s wishing every one of you readers a very happy 2024! I wish you a joyous and prosperous New Year filled with good health, love, and laughter. May all your dreams come true in the year ahead!

2023’s last quote is an unknown Chinese quote. The quote speaks to the profound connection between our mental and physical well-being and suggests that inner peace and emotional tranquility have a significant impact on our physical health. The quote suggests that there is a symbiotic relationship between emotional or mental well-being and physical health. When the heart, or inner state of being, is tranquil and content, it contributes to overall bodily health. Stress and emotional unrest can have a significant impact on physical health. Conversely, a calm and at-ease mindset is seen as conducive to maintaining a healthy body. The quote reflects the understanding that the mind and body are interconnected, and the state of one can influence the state of the other. Mental and emotional well-being can contribute to physical wellness, and vice versa. It aligns with holistic approaches to health that emphasise the importance of addressing both mental and physical aspects for overall well-being. Attaining a sense of ease in the heart is seen as a key component of this holistic perspective. In essence, the Chinese proverb encourages individuals to recognise the impact of emotional well-being on physical health. It emphasizes the value of maintaining a calm and content heart as a pathway to achieving and preserving overall health and wellness.

This year has been a good one for me, especially career-wise and I am at a happy place there. GG started university and BB started his national service, so they are also in a good place. BB does need to think about his future and what he wants to do in life, so that is something he needs to work on, especially before he finishes his basic military training.

All in all, I can’t complain about 2023 and am looking forward to the new year. I hope that this year brings a year of happiness, health, love, positivity, and joy.

Here’s to a blessed 2024!

2023 Wrap-up

2023 was a decent year for me. The TL&DR version would read like this: I walked a lot, read a lot, started a new job and enjoyed time with my family!

This year, I read 70 books and crushed my annual goal of 52 books. This means I averaged roughly 1.5 books per week. I hope this trend continues in 2024 too, but with subscriptions to multiple OTT platforms and work, it will take some effort to make time to read.

I also managed to reach the retirement community where my parents live in early June and start my walk back to Singapore. This year, I walked about 3000 km and am currently very close to the coastal city of Visakhapatnam.

In terms of work, I managed to snag a good job, one where I can contribute to society as well as my family. It’s also quite fulfilling and I enjoy going to work and the company of my coworkers.

This year, both BB and GG graduated from polytechnics. And for the first time in her educational journey, GG graduated with a higher cGPA than BB! BB spent the three years at the polytechnic mostly playing games and not being 100% present during online classes. GG has since then started university and will graduate with a degree in accountancy, hopefully with an honours degree. BB, on the other hand, is currently doing his compulsory service to the nation, his National Service.

I also finally visited my parents with S and the children for a couple of weeks and on the way back home, my parents came to Singapore with me. This was most likely their last overseas trip and I was so happy that it was to Singapore.

So, all in all, I am pretty satisfied with the year that was. As we move into 2024, I will take with me the lessons I learned in the year and want to carry forward all the good things that happened in 2023 so that 2024 is a better version of this year.

2023 Week 51 Update

To everyone celebrating the festival, here’s wishing you and your loved ones a very Merry Christmas! May the spirit of the season fill your home with peace, love, and happiness.

American lyricist, librettist, theatrical producer, director, and award-winner Oscar Hammerstein emphasises the importance of having aspirations, goals, and dreams as a fundamental step toward achieving them. The quote suggests that having a dream is a prerequisite for turning it into reality. It emphasises the idea that a clear vision or goal is the starting point for any meaningful achievement. Without a dream to strive for, there might be a lack of inspiration and drive to pursue significant accomplishments. The quote implies that the process of realising a dream involves more than wishful thinking; it requires active effort, planning, and dedication. Simply having a dream is the initial step, but the subsequent actions are crucial for bringing it to fruition. The quote encourages individuals to engage in the practice of setting goals and envisioning a desired future. It suggests that the act of dreaming is not only valuable but essential for personal growth and achievement. The quote underscores the idea that dreams provide the foundation for meaningful accomplishments, and having a vision is a prerequisite for making progress and turning aspirations into reality. It serves as a reminder of the importance of cultivating dreams as a source of inspiration and motivation in life.

We are in the last week of 2023 and this year, instead of goals for 2024, I want to think of what I want to do in the next year. There are some hazy and vague ideas in the back of my head, and until I have crystallized them myself, it would be premature to share them as yet. I want to make some fundamental changes to the way I think, work and live, and I want to take my time fleshing this out.

And on that note, stay safe and stay positive. Do reflect on how 2023 was for you and what your plans are for the new year.

2023 Week 50 Update

Yung Pueblo, the pen name of poet, writer, and meditation teacher Diego Perez, is the author of today’s quote. Born in Ecuador, he migrated to the United States in his early childhood and gained prominence through his writings on mindfulness, self-love, and personal development. The quote suggests that personal development and maturity involve accepting and embracing moments of vulnerability, discomfort, or emotional challenges. The quote implies that as individuals grow and evolve, they come to recognise that it’s normal and acceptable not to have everything figured out or to experience emotional lows. Being “okay with not being okay” signifies a level of self-acceptance and understanding that setbacks or difficult emotions are a natural part of the human experience. The quote suggests that true growth involves developing resilience and the ability to navigate through periods of discomfort without being overwhelmed by them. It’s about facing challenges head-on and using them as opportunities for learning and self-discovery. By encouraging acceptance of not being okay, the quote challenges the notion of perfectionism and the unrealistic expectation that one should always be in a state of contentment. It promotes a healthier perspective on the ebb and flow of emotions and life experiences.

It’s the last two weeks of the year and I am going to start clearing my leave, which means, I can start working on my writing and start planning what the blog will look like in 2024. I am looking forward to that this week.

In other news, well, there is no other news. BB is home from camp and will go back tomorrow. It’s always wonderful to have him back home. I am pleasantly surprised that he does not hate his BMT experience and doesn’t have many complaints about life in the barracks. Well, he needs to decide if this is something he wants to do more of and if he decides to sign on. I’ve told him, it has to be 100% his decision and this is something none of us will interfere in. We’ll know sooner or later what he decides and when he does, I will support him.

That’s all from me this week. Happy Holidays, everyone!