In My Hands Today…

The Great Indian Novel – Shashi Tharoor

In this award-winning, internationally acclaimed novel, Tharoor has masterfully recast the 2,000 year-old epic, The Mahabharata, with fictional but highly recognizable events and characters from twentieth-century Indian politics. Chronicling the Indian struggle for freedom and independence from Great Britain, Tharoor directs his hilarious satire as much against Indian foibles as the bumbling of the British rulers.

Majulah Singapura…..

The Jubilee Weekend started today! To commemorate Singapore’s 50th year of independence which falls on Sunday, we got an extra SG50 holiday today! So today’s post is picture post, dedicated to Singapore – Happy Birthday Singapore…..

The Singapore Flag flypast

The Singapore Flag flypast

RSAF jets making their presence felt

RSAF jets making their presence felt

Arty shot of the RSAF flypast

Arty shot of the RSAF flypast

What's a party without fireworks!

What’s a party without fireworks!

A part of the Singapore skyline

A part of the Singapore skyline

The gun salute tonners making their way to the Merlion before their salute to the nation

The gun salute tonners making their way to the Merlion before their salute to the nation

Fireworks which were the best...

Fireworks which were the best…

Majulah Singapura (Onward Singapore) and may you have many more such years!!

In My Hands Today…

Straight From the Donkey’s Mouth A Tail of a Greek Island, its People, their Politics – and their Donkeys! – Eleni Trataris Cotton

What is life like on a Greek island? Indigo and turquoise seas, white sands, wine, salads and cheese? Yes, and handsome dark-eyed waiters too! But why not delve deeper and discover the passions, feuds and exuberance of the islanders. Be ready to be charmed, captivated and maybe shocked!

Join Peter and Serena, an English couple, drowning in a quagmire of bureaucracy as they try to start a new life on the island and struggle to get a licence to open a business. Will they make it?

Meet Apollo (brown) and Hortensia (grey), two island donkeys owned by the sadistic Aristides whom Apollo has named Arsie . They see everything as they go with Arsie on his rounds, the effects of draconian government measures to raise money for the country’s debt, the rabid tax evasion, the manipulation of EU grants – everything. Unhindered by human logic their comments are pithy, straight on the mark, acidic even. But will Apollo be able to save himself and Hortensia, and Eleftheris, another farmer, from Arsie’s cruel plans?

Stay awhile with the warm, earthy inhabitants of Paradisaki island and join in the rollicking lifestyle, the fun, the laughter and the tears. Cheer them on in their struggle as they use all their wits to survive the political climate and never lose that determination to live, and live well, come what may.

Cyberbullying

The past few days I have been riveted to a saga on this micro blogging site I signed up for. I am not sure if it is popular in other parts of the world, most of the bloggers there seem to be from Southeast Asia.

What happened was that one of the more popular bloggers, let’s call him A,  went on a trip a reasonably faraway place with his wife, toddler, infant and parents and blogged about how difficult it was travel with young children/infants. One of the other bloggers, let’s call her B,  with children similar ages as that blogger and who does not live in this continent commented  that it was not too difficult, especially since in Asia you had access to help (parents, live-in helpers etc) which she apparently didn’t have.

This happened early in the month of July I guess. Then sometime in the middle of the month, the blogger’s wife, let’s call her C, apparently a popular blogger herself (apparently since I had not heard of her before joining this site) and one who makes a living blogging herself wrote a post on her blog, calling out B out in her blog in a very passive aggressive way – not naming names, but with enough details that her followers, many of whom also are on the micro blogging site, recognized who B was.

Then it started – a lot of the bloggers started calling out B and it degenerated to a lot of name calling, which was awful to read. People who supported B also were called names, which given that quite a few of the name callers are supposedly respected bloggers who make a living through blogging and have a lot clients whom they blog about. The irony was that A to whom the original comment was intended to has kept silent completely. C responded once and I understand from B’s posts that she reached out to C through email to apologise.

This whole incident has left a bad taste in my mouth. This is simply a case of Cyberbullying. According to Wikipedia , Cyberbullying is the harming or harassing via information technology networks in a repeated and deliberate manner. According to U.S. Legal Definitions, “cyber-bullying could be limited to posting rumors or gossips about a person in the internet bringing about hatred in other’s minds; or it may go to the extent of personally identifying victims and publishing materials severely defaming and humiliating them”

What was a non-incident has been blown up unnecessarily and made people take camps. While I have not yet commented on this in the micro blogging site, I decided to post here, mostly because this is something many of us may have experienced.  So if a person posts comments which may not be to your liking (maybe showing a hint of crack in the perfect life you potray on social media), does that mean, you and maybe your friends start bullying the person who posted the comment? Most of the people who commented negatively against B were those who were not involved – just friends of A & C. Where does the line end?

I am now seriously worried for my kids as teens are supposed to be experts at Cyberbullying. I need to educate them over the school holidays on the perils of posting online, especially since they now move out the secure primary school environs and more to a more socially aware and social media dominated environment that is secondary school.

More information on Cyberbullying, escpecially in relation to children and teen cyberbullying can be found here, here and here.

The internet never forgets, what you post anywhere will stay on forever – even if you delete it….

In My Hands Today…

Morality for Beautiful Girls – Alexander McCall Smith (No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency #3)

Mma Ramotswe is engaged to “the excellent” Mr. J.L.B. Matekoni, owner of Tlokweng Road Speedy Motors, but faces a slowdown of business at the The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency that threatens its existence.

Mma Ramotswe investigates the alleged poisoning of the brother of an important government official, and the moral character of four beauty contestants.

When her business has money trouble, and problems arise at at her reliable fiance Mr J.L.B. Matekoni’s Speedy Motors, she finds he is more complicated then he seems. Forced to make difficult choices, Mma Ramotswe moves the business into the office of her fiancé’s garage and makes her assistant, Mma Grace Makutsi, its assistant manager. At just this time, Mr. J.L.B. Matekoni has been showing signs of lethargy and neglecting his business.