Adhika Masa: A spiritual month to align oneself to the Divine

In Hinduism, the lunar calendar plays a significant role in determining auspicious times for various rituals, festivals, and ceremonies. While most lunar calendars consist of 12 months, occasionally, an extra month called the Adhik Masa is added to align the lunar and solar calendars. In 2023, after a gap of 19 years, this extra month returns from 18 July to 16 August.

Also known as Purushottam Maas or Mala Masa, the Adhik Maas is a rare additional month that occurs in the Hindu calendar to adjust the discrepancy between the lunar and solar cycles. This intercalary month, approximately 30 days long, is considered highly auspicious and is believed to be under the special blessings of Lord Vishnu, the preserver of the universe. The adhika-masa is an extra lunar month added to the solar calendar every three years so that the lunar and the solar years are synchronised, along with the agricultural cycle and seasons. Adhika refers to the Sanskrit word for additional or extra, while masa means month.

According to the mythology, all the gods refused to become the master of this month due to it supposedly being dirty, then the month prayed to Lord Vishnu, who pleased with the prayer of the month, gave his name to this month, and so the month is known as Purushottam Maas. Lord Vishnu gave the boon to this month that any devotee who worships Lord Shiva during this month does religious work, listens to the Bhagwat Katha, and donates to charity during this month, will get the never-ending virtue.

When the Sun does not at all transit into a new rāshi or zodiac sign which is 30 degrees sidereal zodiac, but simply keeps moving within a rāshi in a lunar month before a new moon, then that lunar month will be named according to the first upcoming transit. It will also take the epithet adhika or extra. The transition of the Sun from one rāshi to the next is called Sankranti. The next month will be labelled according to its transit as usual and will get the epithet nija or original or shuddha or clean. The terms Pratham or first Chaitra and Dvitiya or second Chaitra may also be used.

An extra month, or adhika-masa, falls every 32.5 months on average. The solar year is made up of 365 days and about 6 hours, and the lunar year is made up of 354 days. This causes a gap of 11 days, 1 hour, 31 minutes and 12 seconds between the lunar and the solar years. As this gap accumulates each year, it approximates 2.7 years to one month. No adhika-masa falls during the months of Margashirsha to Magha or November/December to about January/February. An adhika-masa during the month of Kartika or October/November is extremely rare, but in the 250 years between 1901 to 2150, it occurred once, in 1963. The Moon takes about 27.3 days to make one complete orbit around the Earth. The Earth orbits around the Sun once every 365.2422 days. The Earth and the Moon, in 27.3 days, have moved as a system about 1/12 of the way around the Sun. This means that from one full moon to the next full moon, the Moon must travel 2.2 extra days before it appears again as a full moon due to the curve of the Earth’s orbit around the Sun. This creates a variance of 10.87 days a year between a lunar year and a solar year. And so, to compensate for this difference, the additional month is added after every 32.5 months on average.

Adhik Masa is dedicated to Lord Vishnu, and devotees observe this month with great devotion and reverence. Lord Vishnu is believed to be more accessible and responsive during this time, making it an ideal period for intensifying spiritual practices such as meditation, prayer, and reading sacred scriptures. The month is also considered a sacred opportunity to cleanse oneself of accumulated karmic debts. Devotees engage in acts of charity, self-discipline, and selfless service, seeking to purify their souls and seek forgiveness for any past wrongdoings. By engaging in these virtuous acts, individuals aim to elevate their spiritual consciousness and bring about positive transformation in their lives.

During Adhik Masa, specific rituals and observances are followed to appease Lord Vishnu. Devotees often perform pujas which are ritualistic worship, and offer prayers to the deity. Fasting, particularly on Ekadashi, the eleventh day of each fortnight, holds great significance during this month. Observing fasts is believed to enhance spiritual growth and foster self-control and discipline.

Many devotees undertake pilgrimages to holy places associated with Lord Vishnu during Adhik Masa. Places like Badrinath, Jagannath Puri, and Rameswaram are particularly popular destinations during this auspicious month. These pilgrimages allow individuals to immerse themselves in a spiritually charged atmosphere, fostering a deeper connection with the divine. Regarded to be a holy month, many people perform the adhika masa vrata. People engage in practices such as mala japas, pradakshinas, pilgrimages, scriptural reading, and parayanas. During adhika-masa, people perform various types of religious rituals such as keeping fast, recitation of religious scriptures, mantras, and prayers, and performing various types of puja and havan. Vratas or fasts of various durations, including for the full day, half day, weekly, fortnight, and full month are often undertaken. The vratas may be complete fasting with liquids only or without liquids, fasting with fruits only or keeping fast with vegetarian food, as the individual can tolerate. It is said that the persons performing good deeds or satkarma in this month conquer their senses and they come out of the cycle of rebirth. This month is often regarded to be inauspicious, where the performance of rites such as weddings do not take place. It also serves as a compensatory period for adherents who had previously neglected their religious duties.

A month-long mela or fair is celebrated in Machhegaun village in Nepal during adhika-masa. It is believed that one can wash away all his sins by taking a bath in the pond at Machhenarayan temple. Specific festivals such as Dussehra or Deepavali are not marked during this month. In the Beed district of Maharashtra, there is a small village called Purushottampuri, where there is a temple dedicated to Lord Purushottam, a regional form of Krishna. Every adhika-masa, there is a big fair, and thousands of people come from various places to invoke the blessings of the deity.

Adhik Masa offers a unique opportunity to deepen one’s devotion and connection with the divine. By engaging in daily spiritual practices and rituals, individuals can experience a heightened sense of spirituality and devotion. Regular prayer, chanting of mantras, and meditation can help cultivate a deeper connection with Lord Vishnu and nurture a sense of inner peace and tranquillity. The month encourages devotees to engage in self-reflection and introspection and provides an ideal time to assess one’s spiritual progress, identify areas for improvement, and set new goals for personal growth. Through introspection, individuals can gain clarity, overcome obstacles, and strengthen their resolve to lead a more righteous and virtuous life. Adhik Masa is an opportune time to delve into the study of sacred texts and scriptures. Devotees can spend time reading spiritual literature, participating in satsangs which are spiritual discourses, and attending religious lectures to expand their understanding of the teachings and principles of Lord Vishnu. This knowledge serves as a guiding light in one’s spiritual journey. The Adhik Masa is considered a season of giving and selflessness. Devotees actively participate in acts of charity and service, extending kindness and compassion to the less fortunate. By contributing to the welfare of others, individuals can not only alleviate the sufferings of those in need but also cultivate a sense of gratitude and humility.

So do try and spend time deepening your devotion, engaging in self-reflection, and immersing in sacred rituals and practices. The return of Adhik Masa after a gap of 19 years serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of aligning oneself with the divine and seeking spiritual elevation. May this Adhik Masa bring blessings, peace, and spiritual upliftment to everyone.

In My Hands Today…

It. Goes. So. Fast.: The Year of No Do-Overs – Mary Louise Kelly

The time for do-overs is over.

Ever since she became a parent, Mary Louise Kelly has said “next year.” Next year will be the year she makes it to her son James’s soccer games (which are on weekdays at 4 p.m., right when she is on the air on NPR’s All Things Considered, talking to millions of listeners). Drive carpool for her son Alexander? Not if she wants to do that story about Ukraine and interview the secretary of state. Like millions of parents who wrestle with raising children while pursuing a career, she has never been cavalier about these decisions. The bargain she has always made with herself is this: this time I’ll get on the plane, and next year I’ll find a way to be there for the mom stuff.

Well, James and Alexander are now seventeen and fifteen, and a realization has overtaken Mary Louise: her older son will be leaving soon for college. There used to be years to make good on her promises; now, there are months, weeks, minutes. And with the devastating death of her beloved father, Mary Louise is facing act three of her life head-on.

Mary Louise is coming to grips with the reality every parent faces. Childhood has a definite expiration date. You have only so many years with your kids before they leave your house to build their own lives. It’s what every parent is supposed to want, what they raise their children to do. But it is bittersweet. Mary Louise is also dealing with the realities of having aging parents. This pivotal time brings with it the enormous questions of what you did right and what you did wrong.

This chronicle of her eldest child’s final year at home, of losing her father, as well as other curve balls thrown at her, is not a definitive answer―not for herself and certainly not for any other parent. But her questions, her issues, will resonate with every parent. And, yes, especially with mothers, who are judged more harshly by society and, more important, judge themselves more harshly. What would she do if she had to decide all over again?

Mary Louise’s thoughts as she faces the coming year will speak to anyone who has ever cared about a child or a parent. It. Goes. So. Fast. is honest, funny, poignant, revelatory, and immensely relatable.

Short Story: The Green Bangle

Aishah sat alone on the Klebang beach, the sun sinking below the horizon, casting a warm golden glow over the waves. Tears streamed down her face, her heart heavy with sorrow. Just hours ago, she had received the devastating news that her fiance, Nasrul’s family had called off their engagement. The suddenness of it all left her bewildered and hurt.

“Why?” Aishah whispered to the sea, her voice carried away by the gentle breeze. “Why would they do this without any explanation?”

As she aimlessly sifted through the sand, her fingers brushed against something solid. Intrigued, she dug deeper, revealing a small, intricately carved jade bangle. The sunlight reflected off its smooth surface, casting an ethereal green glow. Without thinking, Aishah slipped the bangle onto her wrist.

In that instant, the world around her transformed. Aishah found herself standing in a bustling street, surrounded by buildings that at once seemed familiar, yet unfamiliar. She looked down at herself and realised that she was no longer Aishah but a young Chinese woman. Floundering, Aishah tried to walk down the street when someone called for Su-Yen behind her. She didn’t stop until someone poked her with an umbrella. “Su-Yen, can’t you see I am calling you? Where are you?” Aishah realised that she was a Chinese woman named Su-Yen and this was Malacca, but from what she knew of her history, she had been transported to 17th-century Malacca. Fear and confusion gripped Su-Yen as she tried to make sense of her new reality and glanced at the jade bangle on her wrist, now pulsating with otherworldly energy.

As Su-Yen navigated the crowded streets, fragments of memories flooded her mind. She recalled being the daughter of a wealthy Chinese merchant and a beautiful Eurasian woman. Her parents’ marriage had been a union of two worlds, a testament to the cosmopolitan nature of Malacca. But her blissful existence had come to an abrupt end when her father’s business faltered, and their fortune vanished.

Stripped of their opulence, Su-Yen’s family struggled to make ends meet. In a desperate attempt to secure a better future, her father arranged a marriage between Su-Yen and a powerful but cruel man named Li Wei. Desperate to escape her fate, Su-Yen sought solace in the arms of her secret love, a kind-hearted Malay sailor named Rizal. The same soulmate who had presented her soon with the bangle which adorned her hand right now.

Through the haze of memory, Su-Yen recalled the fateful night that would forever change her life. Li Wei had discovered her illicit romance and confronted them with rage in his eyes. In a fit of jealousy, he had drawn his sword, and before Su-Yen could react, Rizal leapt in front of her, sacrificing his life to protect her.

Tears welled up in Su-Yen’s eyes as she relived the grief and guilt that had consumed her at that moment. She had blamed herself for Rizal’s death and had made a desperate plea to the heavens for a chance to right her wrongs. Su-Yen made up her mind. She started running and did not stop until she reached the beach. She was panting, and collapsed in the fine sand, tears running down her face. She reached for the jade bangle, the symbol of Rizal’s love and flung it before getting up and walking determinedly towards the sea, to be with her love, her soulmate, Rizal.

Back on the Klebang beach, Aishah’s surroundings began to shift. She found herself back in the present day, the jade bangle still snugly adorning her wrist. She knew now that Su-Yen’s story was not just a figment of her imagination but a connection to her struggles.

A newfound determination surged within Aishah. She would not let the pain of heartbreak consume her. Like Su-Yen, she would fight for her happiness. Aishah sought answers, determined to uncover the reason behind Nasrul’s family’s decision.

Days turned into weeks, and Aishah soon learned why Nasrul’s family broke their engagement. One of his relatives had launched a whisper campaign against her, assassinating her character and poisoning their ears against her and her family. The relative wanted Nasrul to marry her daughter and so started this negativity. The revelation filled Aishah with a mix of anger and sadness. She had hoped that love would conquer all, but it seemed that prejudice still held sway.

Armed with newfound resolve, Aishah confronted Nasrul’s family and challenged their decision. She reminded them that her and Nasrul’s love was the forever kind and that their happiness was worth fighting for. Her heartfelt plea touched Nasrul and he stood up against his family and the relative who poisoned their hearts against Aishah and her family. Seeing Nasrul’s steely determination, his family realised the depth of their son’s love for Aishah and relented, understanding that their happiness lay in accepting her as their daughter-in-law.

Aishah and Nasrul’s love triumphed over the prejudices that had once threatened to tear them apart. As they exchanged vows on their wedding day, the jade bangle served as a reminder of the strength and resilience they had found within themselves. And as Aishah glanced at her reflection, she couldn’t help but wonder if Su-Yen was looking back at her, sharing in her joy and celebrating the victory over the trials of the past. The jade bangle, once a catalyst for their connection, now stood as a symbol of the intertwined destinies of two women separated by time but united by love and the indomitable spirit of Malaysia’s rich history.

2023 Week 28

Today’s quote by Steve Jobs, the co-founder of Apple, highlights the importance of passion and enjoyment in achieving excellence in one’s work. Jobs emphasises that to produce exceptional or remarkable work, a certain approach is necessary. He suggests that a fundamental prerequisite for achieving greatness in one’s work is to have a genuine love or passion for what one is doing. So what Steve Jobs is conveying is the idea that when one has a deep passion for their work, it becomes much easier to devote oneself to it wholeheartedly. This passion fuels their motivation, perseverance, and dedication, which are essential ingredients for producing outstanding results. When one truly enjoys what they do, work becomes more than just a means to an end — it becomes a fulfilling and meaningful pursuit in itself. Food for thought, right?

This week was an extension of the previous one where BB was busy doing what he enjoys doing best, spending time with family and friends and gaming before he has to stop pretty much everything for the next two odd years. GG had her new university orientation for an experiential project which she has to do with students from different faculties and departments earlier this week and she was exhausted at the end of each but is also excited to start school again. As for me, I kept myself busy with my writing and looking after my family.

That’s all from me this week. Take care, stay safe and stay positive!

In My Hands Today…

What Looks Like Bravery: An Epic Journey Through Loss to Love – Laurel Braitman

Laurel Braitman spent her childhood learning how to outfish grown men, keep bees, and fix carburetors from her larger-than-life dad. Diagnosed with terminal cancer, he went to spectacular lengths to teach her the skills she’d need to survive without him. But by her mid-thirties she is a ship about to splinter on the rocks, exhausted by running from her own bad feelings. We follow as Laurel changes course, navigating multiple wildernesses—from northern New Mexico and western Alaska to her own Tinder app. She learns the hard way that no achievement, no matter how shiny, can protect her from pain, and works to transform guilt and regret into gold: learning from a badass birder in the Bering Sea, a few dozen grieving kids in a support group, a pile of smoking ashes, and countless online dates. Along the way, she faces a wildfire that threatens everyone and everything she cares about, a grueling test of her own survival skills, and the fact that we often have to say our hardest goodbyes before we’re ready. In the end Laurel realizes that being open to love after loss is not only possible, it can set us free.

What Looks Like Bravery is a hero’s journey for our times. Laurel teaches us that hope is a form of courage, one that can work as an all-purpose key to the locked doors of your dreams.