Family Footprints: An Unforgettable Italian Adventure – Part 4

First view of Venice

Venice
We reached Venice around 8 pm, and my god, the first view of the city by the water completely blew me away! We reached just around sunset, and the city was so beautiful! We took a water taxi to the stop closest to our Airbnb, which was the Rialto Bridge, and walked to the house. Venice is full of cobbled streets and lots of bridges, so we had a slightly hard time walking to the house. The flat was on the second floor and didn’t have an elevator, so again I had to climb with the luggage. We went and brought back food, had a nice dinner with wine, and slept after a tiring day.

St Mark’s Square

The next day, our last day of the trip, we woke up slightly late, and then after getting ready and checking out, we left our luggage at a luggage storage place. There are lots around, and we found one midway between our house and the water taxi point. We also booked tickets for a water taxi to get to the airport before leaving the house. After coffee, we walked to St. Mark’s Square, where we took in the beauty of the square and the Doge’s Palace. Then it was time to tick off a bucket list item—a gondola ride. We negotiated and got two gondolas and took the one-hour ride. After that, it was time for a quick lunch before one of us had to leave for the train station, as she was continuing her trip in Italy. The rest of us wandered around and finally picked up our luggage before heading to the water taxi embarkation point at Rialto. The taxi took about an hour to get to the airport, which is also connected to a jetty. It was super hot at this point, and it was the only time I had to put my hair up! Then a two-hour flight back to London before we took a taxi back to my sister’s house.

Another view of the Venice Grand Canal

The next day, the day I was flying back to Singapore, we all woke up late, after being exhausted the previous six days. After getting ready, I got my sister to take me food shopping. I had a list of some cheese, tea, and oils to buy, which I was not able to purchase in Italy because of the rules in the UK. Then we went to lunch at this amazing West African restaurant. We had the tasting menu, which lasted for about 2 hours. After that, we dropped the sister, who also lives in London, at the train station, which was the easiest way for her to get home, and then rushed home because it was late for me to get to the airport. I was stressed at this point because I had heard so much about how long it would take to clear check-in and passport control at London Heathrow that I was constantly refreshing all the apps I had checking about the times it would take me. After quickly changing and putting my things in my bag, we left for the airport. Check-in was smooth, as was passport control and customs, and I was finally on the other side. Then it was another 13 hours to Singapore, which I spent more or less sleeping, and then I was reunited with my family!

And that was our epic trip in spring!

Taking off from London Heathrow

Some last thoughts:

We packed too much into the trip – if I have to redo it, I would only do one main activity or attraction in a day and let us flow through the day. Since this was the first trip to Italy for most of us, we wanted to maximise our time there. What we forgot was that if you have six women trying to get out of the door, things will be delayed! Also, maybe we should not have gone to Venice and had an additional day in Florence. But this just means I have to go back to see all that I missed.

We used the Frecciarossa high-speed train from the Italian Rail, and I was impressed. We decided to spend a bit more and booked business class tickets on both journeys. The trains left and arrived on time on both trips. On the trip from Rome to Florence, other than us, there were two other people in the cabin, while we were the only ones in the cabin on the trip from Florence to Venice. The ticket also included a drink and a cookie. There is a small storage area above the seats, and bigger bags can be stored in a dedicated space at the entrance of the cabin. It was safe, as this was a nonstop trip and we were in eye contact with our luggage at all times. During the Rome to Florence trip, we did have some police asking to see our passports, but this didn’t happen on the second trip.

We also used Rome’s metro almost exclusively during our time there and didn’t have any issues. We all had contactless cards and used them. Rome’s metro has a fixed charge, and we paid €1.5 for each trip, irrespective of the distance, and you only need to tap your card when you enter, not when you exit. We did see a couple jump fare when we were coming back from dinner near Piazza Popolo, so that took us by surprise.

I was also worried about pickpockets in Italy and especially in Rome and had taken the precaution of having my phone on a lanyard around my neck at all times, but we didn’t see anything, and touch wood, nothing happened to us. I guess, growing up in India, we unconsciously were careful, or maybe we didn’t look like it was worth pickpocketing us. I also never had my passport with me; instead, I had a photo and my digital copy on hand.

Somewhere in Florence

Some tips and tricks that may help future travellers:

Overall Italy:

  • The streets are cobbled, and most older buildings don’t have lifts or elevators. So, before you pack that extra piece of clothing, think about whether you will be able to carry it up. My knowledge is from Airbnb, so if you are staying in a hotel, it may be different.
  • When visiting churches, shoulders and knees must be covered (men too), hats off, and no sleeveless tops. Both Florence’s Duomo and St Mark’s Basilica are strict and actively turning people away. Pack a light scarf for instant compliance.
  • Reserve, screenshot, repeat. Timed tickets for hot spots (Colosseum arena, Brunelleschi’s Dome, Accademia, Uffizi) open ~90 days out and often live only in a QR code. Save it offline: Italian turnstiles frequently lose signal, and email apps can lag. Florence’s Dome is now gated by the Brunelleschi Pass, so no pass, no climb.
  • Stamp (or check in) your regional train ticket. Paper regional tickets must be time-stamped in the green/white machines; digital tickets need the Trenitalia/Italo “check-in” tap before departure. Fines start around €50 if the conductor catches an unstamped fare.
  • Historic centres in pretty much all Italian cities are camera-policed limited-traffic zones; a rental car that strays inside can trigger an €80–€120 ticket months after you’re home, plus the agency’s admin fee. Park outside the walls and ride public transport instead.
  • Carry a small cross-body and stay alert.
  • Keep phones zipped away during crowd surges and ignore “helpful” strangers who bump or offer petitions.
Piazza del Popolo

Rome:

  • Book tickets early for major sites like the Colosseum and the Vatican. We booked almost 2 months out and still could not get the dates/times we wanted. Hence, the big miss when we went to Vatican City.
  • Use contactless cards on Rome’s public transit system. We used the same card for both the metro and the bus and, in both cases, paid €1.50 for each ride, irrespective of its length.
  • Hydrate from the street. Rome’s 2,500 nasoni fountains pour free, safe water 24/7. Carry a bottle and skip pricey kiosks. Look for “acqua non potabile” signs before sipping.
Views from Castello di Brolio

Florence:

  • Book Brunelleschi Pass tickets in advance for timed entry.
  • The Uffizi is free on the first Sunday of the month, but expect crowds.
  • Avoid driving in ZTL zones; you will be liable for heavy fines otherwise.
Grand Canal, Venice

Venice:

  • Budget for the “invisible” fees. Venice now charges day-trippers €5 (€10 if you book within 4 days of arrival) on 54 peak-season dates; carry the downloaded QR or risk a €50–€300 fine at the causeways.
  • Take the skip-the-line queue for St. Mark’s Basilica; watch for acqua alta.
  • The vaporetto pass is cheaper, but avoid large luggage. Though when we did use it from the station to our Airbnb, one of us had a large luggage, it was ok, but manageable.
  • There are fines for feeding pigeons or sitting on the Rialto Bridge steps.

2025 Week 37 Update

It’s been a week since BB has been in Australia. Though we speak over the phone almost daily, it’s not the same. I’ve been counting down the days when he will come back home. But he is enjoying himself and the scenery is just amazing from the few photos he shared with us. And that’s what is important. This week, I barely saw GG also as she was super busy with school work, tests and project submissions. But she has been very hard at work, especially after her priority offer, so I am happy for her.

Today’s quote is from Chinese general, military strategist, and philosopher best known as the author of The Art of War, an influential text on military strategy, leadership, and tactics, Sun Tzu. His philosophy emphasises discipline, foresight, adaptability, and the intelligent use of opportunities and his teachings remind us that success often comes from strategy and decisiveness rather than sheer force.

The quote emphasises the idea that taking action creates momentum. Sun Tzu suggests that opportunities don’t just appear randomly; they grow out of the ones we act upon. When we seize a chance, it often opens the door to new possibilities, connections, and paths that wouldn’t have existed had we hesitated.

For example, saying yes to one project may lead to new partnerships, recognition, or further opportunities down the line. In contrast, failing to act can cause opportunities to vanish. The message is clear: initiative breeds abundance, while inaction breeds stagnation. This insight applies not only to warfare, Sun Tzu’s primary subject, but also to everyday life: careers, relationships, and personal growth. The more proactive and courageous we are, the more doors open before us.

Another thing I read this week is also similar and spoke to me. What it said was that little tweaks in the way we speak to ourself can transform the narratives that shape our life experiences. For example, instead of saying “I let go of control”, we can say “I let go of the illusion of control”. This little distinction can help us remember that we don’t have to worry about figuring it all out by ourselves. Things work better when we surrender control, open up to trusting more. So by reframing “This day is ruined” into “This is only a difficult moment. It will pass soon”, we take control of how we perceive and shape our view. The key is being aware of the way we perceive our experiences, it makes all the difference.

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!

In My Hands Today…

After the North Pole: A Story of Survival, Mythmaking, and Melting Ice – Erling Kagge

The North Pole looms large in our collective psyche—the ultimate Otherland in a world mapped and traversed. It is the center of our planet’s rotation, one of the places that is most vulnerable in an epoch of global climate change. Its sub-zero temperatures and strange year of one sunset and one sunrise make it an eerie, utterly disorienting place that challenges human endurance and understanding.

Erling Kagge and his friend Børge Ousland became the first people “to ever reach the pole without dogs, without depots and without motorized aids,” skiing for 58 days from a drop off point on the ice edge of Canada’s northernmost island.

In magisterial prose, Erling narrates his epic, record-making journey, probing the physical challenges and psychological motivations for embarking on such an epic expedition, the history of the territory’s exploration, its place in legend and art, and the thrilling adventures he experienced during the trek. It is another example of what bestselling author Robert MacFarlane has called “Kagge’s extraordinary life in wild places,”

Erling offers surprises on every page while observing the key role that this place holds in our current climate and geopolitical conversations. As majestic, mesmerizing, and monumental as the terrain it captures, The North Pole is for anyone who has gazed out at the horizon—and wondered what happens if you keep going.

Sacred Stones, Spaces and Stories: Shakthipeeta Part 19

Ujaani Temple, Mangalkot, West Bengal
The Ujani Shakti Peeth, located in the serene village of Ujani near Guskara in Bardhaman district is dedicated to Maa Mangal Chandi, a powerful form of Goddess Durga. It is believed that Sati’s right wrist fell at this location in Ujani village.

The temple has been a centre of devotion for centuries. The name Mangal Chandi reflects the goddess’s role as a protector and benefactor of her devotees. The word Mangal means welfare, while Chandi refers to Goddess Durga’s fierce and protective aspect. The temple’s current structure is simple yet exudes an aura of divinity that draws pilgrims seeking peace and blessings. The temple is located about 16 kilometers from Guskara Railway Station and is easily accessible by road. Surrounded by lush greenery and ancient trees, the temple offers a serene environment for meditation and worship.

Goddess Sati is worshipped here as Maa Mangal Chandi, symbolising divine protection and nurturing energy. Lord Shiva is revered as Kapilambar Bhairava, representing his role as a guardian and protector. The combination of Maa Mangal Chandi and Kapilambar Bhairava represents the union of nurturing feminine energy with protective masculine power, making this Shakti Peetha a site of immense spiritual significance.

The Ujani Shakti Peeth stands out for its distinctive characteristics. The sanctum sanctorum houses two idols: one of Maa Mangal Chandi and another of Lord Shiva as Kapilambar Bhairava. Maa Mangal Chandi’s idol depicts her in a benevolent yet powerful form, adorned with ornaments and flowers offered by devotees. Kapilambar Bhairava’s idol symbolises Lord Shiva’s meditative yet protective aspect.

The temple structure is painted yellow and lacks elaborate architectural ornamentation. Its simplicity emphasizes spiritual connection over material grandeur. The courtyard is shaded by ancient trees that add to the temple’s serene ambiance. A pavilion or mandap in front of the deity provides space for devotees to sit and meditate. Pilgrims often describe entering meditative states effortlessly in this peaceful setting. Surrounded by greenery, the temple offers a calm environment ideal for introspection and prayer. Birds chirping in the trees add to its natural charm.

Daily pujas are performed by priests with morning Aarti begining at sunrise with chanting of hymns like Durga Saptashati and evening Aarti concluding with the lighting oil lamps around the temple premises. Durga Puja is celebrated with great fervor at Ujani Shakti Peeth. Elaborate rituals are conducted to honour Maa Mangal Chandi’s victory over evil forces. The deity is adorned with new clothes and jewelry donated by devotees during this time. Navratri is celebrated twice a year with grand rituals honoring Maa Mangal Chandi’s nurturing aspect. Devotees observe fasting during these nine days to seek blessings for prosperity and protection.

Dedicated to Lord Shiva who is worshipped as Kapilambar Bhairava, Mahashivratri involves night-long prayers and abhishekam with milk, honey, ghee, curd, and holy water. Devotees light oil lamps around the temple premises as part of their offerings. Yagnas are conducted during auspicious occasions like Navratri to invoke divine blessings for health, wealth, and spiritual growth.

According to legend, when Sati’s right wrist fell at this site after being dismembered by Vishnu’s Sudarshan Chakra, it radiated immense divine energy that sanctified not only Ujani but also its surrounding regions. Devotees believe that this energy can still be felt within the temple premises during meditation or prayer. Local lore suggests that Kapilambar Bhairava appeared in his fierce form to protect this sacred site from negative energies after Sati’s right wrist fell here. His presence ensures balance and harmony at Ujani Shakti Peeth. Devotees believe that Maa Mangal Chandi possesses miraculous healing powers. Many pilgrims visit the temple seeking relief from physical ailments or emotional distress after hearing stories of miraculous recoveries attributed to her blessings.

The Ujani Shakti Peeth offers visitors a unique spiritual experience rooted in mythology and devotion.

Bargabhima Temple, Tamluk, West Bengal
Located in Tamluk, Purba Medinipur district, the Vibhash Shakti Peeth, also known as the Bargabhima Temple, is dedicated to Maa Kapalini or Bhimarupa, an incarnation of Goddess Durga. As one of the 51 sacred Shakti Peethas, it is believed that the left ankle or heel of Goddess Sati fell at this site. Nestled on the banks of the Roopnarayan River, this ancient temple blends spirituality, history, and cultural heritage. Lord Shiva is worshipped here as Sarvanand Bhairava.

The temple is said to have been constructed during the reign of the Mayur dynasty, which ruled over Tamluk in ancient times. The current structure has undergone several renovations over centuries but retains its spiritual essence. Historical records suggest that the temple has been a centre of devotion for over 1,000 years. Tamluk itself holds special significance as a sacred Vaishnava Tirtha or pilgrimage site. According to the Jaimini Mahabharata and Kashidas Mahabharata, Lord Krishna visited Tamluk to release the divine horse for the Ashwamedha Yajna.

Goddess Sati is worshipped here as Maa Kapalini or Bhimarupa, symbolising power and protection. Lord Shiva is revered as Sarvanand Bhairava, representing his role as a guardian and protector. The left ankle or vama gulpha of Sati is believed to have fallen at this site.

The sanctum sanctorum houses an idol of Maa Kapalini in her fierce form. She is depicted with multiple arms holding weapons and adorned with ornaments offered by devotees. Adjacent to her shrine is a large black stone Shiva Lingam representing Sarvanand Bhairava. The Lingam is surrounded by a circular white marble boundary. The temple architecture reflects a blend of Hindu, Buddhist, and Oriya styles. Its pyramidal dome resembles Kalinga temple tombs, while the natmandir or prayer hall follows the traditional Bengali aatchala style. The intricate carvings on its walls depict scenes from Hindu mythology.

Situated on the banks of the Roopnarayan River amidst lush greenery, the temple offers a serene environment ideal for meditation and prayer. During India’s freedom struggle, revolutionaries like Khudiram Bose visited this temple to seek blessings before embarking on their missions. The temple served as an oath-taking site for many revolutionaries who vowed to free their motherland. Unlike most temples where vegetarian offerings are made, Maa Kapalini’s prasad includes non-vegetarian items such as cooked fish or sol mach. This practice reflects ancient traditions associated with Shakti worship.

The rituals at Vibhash Shakti Peeth reflect deep-rooted traditions combined with local customs. Daily pujas are performed by priests. The morning Aarti begins at sunrise with chanting of hymns like Durga Saptashati, while evening Aarti concludes with lighting oil lamps around the temple premises. Durga Puja is celebrated with grandeur at Vibhash Shakti Peeth. Elaborate rituals are conducted over nine days to honour Maa Kapalini’s victory over evil forces. Devotees participate in cultural programs and community feasts during this time.

Held during Makara Sankranti in January, Barunir Mela is an annual fair that attracts thousands of pilgrims who come to take a holy dip in the Roopnarayan River before offering prayers at the temple. On Sharad Purnima, special prayers are held under moonlight to invoke divine blessings for prosperity and happiness. Dedicated to Sarvanand Bhairava, Mahashivratri involves night-long prayers and abhishekam with milk, honey, ghee, curd, and holy water. Devotees light oil lamps around the Shiva Lingam as part of their offerings.

Tamluk holds special significance due to its association with Lord Krishna. According to local lore recorded in Jaimini Mahabharata and Kashidas Mahabharata, Lord Krishna visited Tamluk during his Ashwamedha Yajna and blessed the region with his divine presence. During India’s freedom struggle, many revolutionaries took oaths at Vibhash Shakti Peeth before embarking on their missions. They believed that Maa Kapalini’s blessings would protect them in their fight for independence.

The Vibhash Shakti Peeth offers visitors a unique spiritual experience rooted in mythology and devotion. Unique features like non-vegetarian prasad emphasise ancient traditions while preserving spiritual heritage. Whether you seek spiritual solace or wish to explore India’s rich cultural heritage, visiting this ancient shrine will leave you feeling connected to divine feminine energy embodied by Maa Kapalini.

Jogadya Temple, Kshirgram, West Bengal
The Jogadya Temple, located in Kshirgram, Purba Bardhaman district s dedicated to Maa Jogadya, a fierce form of Goddess Durga. Lord Shiva is worshipped here as Kshireshwar Bhairava. It is believed that the big toe of Sati’s right leg fell at this site, sanctifying it as a Shakti Peetha. Known for its unique rituals, historical significance, and mystical legends, the Jogadya Temple attracts devotees from across India who come to seek blessings and experience its divine energy.

Historical evidence suggests that the temple dates back to the 11th century CE. It was originally constructed as a brick temple surrounded by a compound wall. Over time, it underwent several phases of destruction and reconstruction. The temple was severely damaged during invasions by Kalapahar but was later restored by local rulers and devotees. The current structure reflects a blend of ancient and modern architecture.

The name Jogadya derives from two Sanskrit words: Jug meaning era and Adya meaning the first, symbolising the goddess as the primordial force who presides over all eras. Locals also refer to the temple as Maa-er Baari or the Mother’s Home, emphasising its importance in their lives. The combination of Maa Jogadya and Kshireshwar Bhairava represents the union of nurturing feminine energy with protective masculine power.

The main sanctum does not house a traditional idol but instead has an altar connected to an underground chamber symbolising Maa Jogadya’s connection to the underworld or Paatalnivasini. Devotees worship this altar as her divine presence. Adjacent to the temple lies a sacred pond known as Kshirdighi. It is believed that Maa Jogadya resides in this water body. The goddess is ceremonially brought out of the water only seven days a year for public worship. Devotees believe that bathing in this pond purifies sins and brings prosperity. A copper pot or kalash filled with water from the sacred pond, Kshirdighi, is placed on the altar during special rituals.

A beautifully carved decagonal statue of Mahishamardini Durga was created by Nabin Chandra Bhaskar in imitation of an older idol lost during invasions. This statue is housed in a new temple built by villagers and remains open for darshan throughout the year. The temple complex includes three main sections: the domed sanctum or the garbhagriha, an entrance hall or the ardhamandap, and a dance hall or the natmandir. Its design reflects traditional Bengali temple architecture with minimal ornamentation. A small shrine dedicated to Lord Shiva as Kshireshwar Bhairava stands near Maa Jogadya’s temple. The idol of Shiva is placed at an elevated height and is accessible via stairs.

Daily pujas are performed by priests with the morning Aarti at sunrise which begins with chanting of hymns like Durga Saptashati, while evening Aarti concludes with lighting oil lamps around the temple premises. On Baishakh Sankranti, the last day of Baishakh, Maa Jogadya is ceremonially brought out of Kshirdighi for public worship. This grand event attracts thousands of devotees who gather to witness her darshan. Buffalo sacrifices are performed during this ritual as part of ancient Shakti worship practices. Apart from Baishakh Sankranti, Maa Jogadya is brought out on select days like Asadh Navami, Vijayadashami or Dussehra, Paush Sankranti, and Makara Sankranti for worship by priests or specific community members. Durga Puja is celebrated with grandeur at Jogadya Temple. Elaborate rituals are conducted over nine days to honor Maa Durga’s victory over evil forces. Devotees participate in cultural programs and community feasts during this time. On new moon nights or Amavasya, special Tantric rituals are conducted by priests to invoke Maa Jogadya’s protective energy.

According to local legend recorded in Chandi Mangal and Jogadya Bandana, Hanuman carried Maa Durga on his back while searching for a suitable place to establish her shrine after rescuing her from Paatal Lok, the underworld. He chose Kshirgram due to its central position on Earth. This story reinforces the belief that Kshirgram is a spiritually significant location. During renovations of Kshirdighi in recent years, villagers discovered an ancient idol believed to be the original statue of Maa Jogadya hidden underwater for centuries to protect it from invaders. In medieval times, human sacrifices were reportedly performed at Jogadya Temple as part of Shakti worship rituals. These were later replaced by buffalo sacrifices under royal decree from the Bardhaman Raj family.

The Jogadya Temple is somewhere one should go if they are seeking spiritual solace or wish to explore India’s rich cultural heritage.

In My Hands Today…

The Starch Solution: Eat the Foods You Love, Regain Your Health, and Lose the Weight for Good! – John A. McDougall, Mary McDougall

From Atkins to Dukan, the fear-mongering about carbs over the past few decades has reached a fever pitch; the mere mention of a starch-heavy food is enough to trigger a cavalcade of shame and longing.

In The Starch Solution, bestselling diet doctor and board-certified internist John A. McDougall, MD, and his kitchen-savvy wife, Mary, turn the notion that starch is bad for you on its head. The Starch Solution is based on a simple swap: fueling your body primarily with carbohydrates rather than proteins and fats. This will help you lose weight and prevent a variety of ills.

Fad diets come and go, but Dr. McDougall has been a proponent of the plant-based diet for decades, and his medical credibility is unassailable. He is one of the mainstay experts cited in the bestselling and now seminal China Study—called the “Grand Prix of epidemiology” by the New York Times. But what The China Study lacks is a plan.

Dr. McDougall grounds The Starch Solution in rigorous scientific fact and research, giving readers easy tools to implement these changes into their lifestyle with a 7-Day Quick Start Plan and 100 delicious recipes. This book includes testimonials from among the hundreds Dr. McDougall has received, including people who have lost more than 125 pounds in mere months as well as patients who have conquered lifethreatening illnesses such as diabetes and cardiac ailments.