In My Hands Today…

Cleopatra’s Daughter: From Roman Prisoner to African Queen – Jane Draycott

The first modern biography of one of the most influential yet long-neglected rulers of the ancient world: Cleopatra Selene, daughter of Antony and Cleopatra.

As the only daughter of Roman Triumvir Marc Antony and Egyptian Queen Cleopatra VII, Cleopatra Selene was expected to uphold traditional feminine virtues; to marry well and bear sons; and to legitimize and strengthen her parents’ rule. Yet with their parents’ deaths by suicide, the princess and her brothers found themselves the inheritors of Egypt, a claim that placed them squarely in the warpath of the Roman emperor.

“Supported by a feast of visual and literary references” (Caroline Lawrence), Cleopatra’s Daughter reimagines the life of Cleopatra Selene, a woman who, although born into Egyptian royalty and raised in her mother’s court, was cruelly abandoned and held captive by Augustus Caesar. Creating a narrative from frescos and coinage, ivory dolls and bronzes, historian and archaeologist Jane Draycott shows how Cleopatra Selene navigated years of imprisonment on Palatine Hill―where Octavia, the emperor’s sister and Antony’s fourth wife, housed royal children orphaned in the wake of Roman expansion―and emerged a queen.

Despite the disrepute of her family, Cleopatra Selene in time endeared herself to her captors through her remarkable intellect and political acumen. Rather than put her to death, Augustus wed her to the Numidian prince Juba, son of the deposed regent Juba I, and installed them both as client rulers of Mauretania in Africa. There, Cleopatra Selene ruled successfully for nearly twenty years, promoting trade, fostering the arts, and reclaiming her mother’s legacy―all at a time, Draycott reminds us, when kingship was an inherently male activity.

Adulting 101: Navigating the Job Market – Resume Writing, Interviews, and Networking

The job market can be intimidating, especially for young adults entering the workforce for the first time. Whether fresh out of university or looking for a new role, knowing how to craft a standout resume, ace interviews, and network effectively are critical skills for landing the right job.

Why is navigating the job market important? Entering the job market can be overwhelming, but it’s also an opportunity for growth, exploration, and building your dream career. Here’s why mastering the process is vital. Understanding what employers look for and presenting yourself effectively can set you apart from other candidates. Securing the right job opens doors to new opportunities, mentorships, and long-term career development. Navigating the job market successfully helps you gain confidence in your abilities and value as a professional. Equipped with the right skills, you can make the transition into the workforce more manageable and rewarding. Let’s start by focusing on the first element: creating a powerful resume.

Part 1: Resume Writing – Crafting a Standout Application
Your resume is your first point of contact with potential employers. It’s a snapshot of your professional story that showcases your skills, accomplishments, and experiences. Here’s how to craft a winning resume:

  • The purpose of a resume: The resume’s purpose is to summarise your qualifications and convince hiring managers to invite you for an interview. It should be tailored to highlight the skills and experiences that are relevant to the specific role you’re applying for.
  • Key components of a resume: A well-structured resume typically includes contact information like name, phone number, email address, and LinkedIn profile. Ensure your email is professional. It should also include a brief overview of your qualifications and career goals. Highlight relevant technical and soft skills that align with the job description. List your work experience in reverse chronological order, focusing on accomplishments rather than duties. Mention your degrees, institutions, and graduation dates and include any certifications, awards, or recognitions that boost your credibility for the role.
  • Resume writing tips: Follow these tips for a polished and impactful resume. Customise your resume for each job application by emphasising skills and experience relevant to the role. Start bullet points with strong action verbs like “implemented,” “led,” “optimised,” or “achieved.” Use numbers to quantify achievements (e.g., “Improved sales by 20%” or “Managed a team of 5”). Limit your resume to one page unless you have extensive experience. Check for spelling or grammar mistakes. Errors can make a bad impression.
  • Avoid common resume mistakes: Be mindful of these pitfalls: Avoid cluttering your resume with irrelevant details. Focus on what’s important. Use a clean, professional layout with clearly labeled sections. Replace vague objectives with a professional summary showcasing your value.

Part 2: Interview Preparation – How to Shine in the Spotlight
Securing an interview means that your resume has done its job. Now, it’s time to shine in person (or virtually) by showcasing your skills, personality, and enthusiasm for the role.

  • Types of job interviews: Understanding the types of interviews can help you prepare better. Traditional interviews are one-on-one conversations with hiring managers, while in panel interviews, multiple interviewers ask questions in a formal setting. Behavioural interviews focus on past experiences and how you’ve handled specific situations. Virtual interviews are conducted via video platforms like Zoom or Teams, while group interviews involve interaction with other candidates and assessing your teamwork skills.
  • Preparing for the interview: Preparation is the key to interview success. Study the company and research its mission, values, products, and services to familiarise yourself with the industry and competitors. Understand the role. analyse the job description to identify key responsibilities and required qualifications, and prepare to discuss how your skills align with the role. Practice common interview questions, including “tell me about yourself”, “what are your strengths and weaknesses”, “why do you want to work here”, and “describe a challenge you’ve faced and how you overcame it.”
  • Prepare STAR responses: Use the STAR method when answering behavioral questions. S stands for Situation, where you describe the context of the example. T stands for Task, where you explain the goal or challenge. A stands for Action, which details the steps you took to address the situation. R stands for Result, or the outcome and what you learned. Dress professionally and choose attire appropriate for the company culture (business formal or smart casual). Avoid noisy jewelry or overly casual clothing. Practice mock interviews and practice interviews with friends or mentors to refine your answers and boost your confidence.
  • Performing well during the interview: Make a lasting impression by showcasing professionalism and enthusiasm. Arrive on time. If it’s virtual, test your tech setup and video connection beforehand. For in-person interviews, arrive early. Be engaged and actively listen to questions and respond thoughtfully.
  • Highlight your value and focus on how you can contribute to the company rather than just describing your skills. Ask questions and prepare thoughtful questions about the role or company to show genuine interest. Express gratitude and thank the interviewer for their time and opportunity.

Part 3: Networking – Building and Leveraging Connections
Networking is one of the most powerful tools for career advancement. Building professional relationships and tapping into your network can lead to job opportunities, mentorships, and collaboration.

Networking is crucial for several reasons. Many jobs are not publicly listed but filled through referrals. Networking allows you to learn about industries, roles, and companies from experienced professionals. Consistently connecting with others helps you establish your reputation in your field.

Networking doesn’t mean randomly handing out business cards. It’s about building meaningful connections. Start with your existing network and inform friends and family about your career goals; they may have valuable connections. Reach out to former professors or alumni networks for advice and introductions. Attend conferences, workshops, or seminars in your field. Participate in job fairs to connect with recruiters and learn about opportunities.

Leverage online platforms like LinkedIn by optimising your profile and engaging with professionals by commenting on posts, joining groups, and messaging connections. Build connections at work by connecting with colleagues and building relationships with coworkers by collaborating effectively and supporting team efforts. Seek mentorship by finding experienced colleagues who can share insights and guidance. Practice professional communication and be genuine when networking authentically rather than self-promotion. Follow up and send thank-you emails or messages after meetings or introductions.

Introverted individuals can excel at networking by leveraging their strengths. Focus on one-on-one interactions rather than large groups, and prepare talking points to ease conversations. Use written communication (emails or LinkedIn messages) to connect thoughtfully.

Putting It All Together
Navigating the job market takes effort, strategy, and resilience. By mastering the three pillars—resume writing, interviews, and networking—you can position yourself for success. Here’s how to integrate these strategies:

  • Build a strong foundation by crafting a polished resume and tailoring it for each job application.
  • Prepare for opportunities and practice for interviews thoroughly to showcase your skills confidently.
  • Cultivate relationships and dedicate time to build a network that supports your career goals.
  • Stay persistent because rejections are inevitable in any job search, but persistence is key. Learn from setbacks and keep improving.

Navigating the job market as a young adult is a vital step in personal and professional growth. By focusing on writing a standout resume, preparing thoroughly for interviews, and building a strong network, you can create the foundation for a successful career. Remember, each step in your journey is an opportunity to learn, connect, and grow. With dedication and the strategies outlined here, you’ll be ready to tackle the job market and achieve your goals!

In My Hands Today…

Foolproof: Why Misinformation Infects Our Minds and How to Build Immunity – Sander van der Linden

Informed by decades of research and on-the-ground experience advising governments and tech companies, Foolproof is the definitive guide to navigating the misinformation age.

From fake news to conspiracy theories, from inflammatory memes to misleading headlines, misinformation has swiftly become the defining problem of our era. The crisis threatens the integrity of our democracies, our ability to cultivate trusting relationships, even our physical and psychological well-being―yet most attempts to combat it have proven insufficient.

In Foolproof , one of the world’s leading experts on misinformation lays out a crucial new paradigm for understanding and defending ourselves against the worldwide infodemic. With remarkable clarity, Sander van der Linden explains why our brains are so vulnerable to misinformation, how it spreads across social networks, and what we can do to protect ourselves and others.

Like a virus, misinformation infects our minds, exploiting shortcuts in how we see and process information to alter our beliefs, modify our memories, and replicate at astonishing rates. Once the virus takes hold, it’s very hard to cure. Strategies like fact-checking and debunking can leave a falsehood still festering or, at worst, even strengthen its hold. But we aren’t helpless.

As van der Linden shows based on award-winning original research, we can cultivate immunity through the innovative science of “prebunking”: inoculating people against false information by preemptively exposing them to a weakened dose, thus empowering them to identify and fend off its manipulative tactics. Deconstructing the characteristic techniques of conspiracies and misinformation, van der Linden gives readers practical tools to defend themselves and others against nefarious persuasion―whether at scale or around their own dinner table.

Family Footprints: An Unforgettable Italian Adventure – Part 4

First view of Venice

Venice
We reached Venice around 8 pm, and my god, the first view of the city by the water completely blew me away! We reached just around sunset, and the city was so beautiful! We took a water taxi to the stop closest to our Airbnb, which was the Rialto Bridge, and walked to the house. Venice is full of cobbled streets and lots of bridges, so we had a slightly hard time walking to the house. The flat was on the second floor and didn’t have an elevator, so again I had to climb with the luggage. We went and brought back food, had a nice dinner with wine, and slept after a tiring day.

St Mark’s Square

The next day, our last day of the trip, we woke up slightly late, and then after getting ready and checking out, we left our luggage at a luggage storage place. There are lots around, and we found one midway between our house and the water taxi point. We also booked tickets for a water taxi to get to the airport before leaving the house. After coffee, we walked to St. Mark’s Square, where we took in the beauty of the square and the Doge’s Palace. Then it was time to tick off a bucket list item—a gondola ride. We negotiated and got two gondolas and took the one-hour ride. After that, it was time for a quick lunch before one of us had to leave for the train station, as she was continuing her trip in Italy. The rest of us wandered around and finally picked up our luggage before heading to the water taxi embarkation point at Rialto. The taxi took about an hour to get to the airport, which is also connected to a jetty. It was super hot at this point, and it was the only time I had to put my hair up! Then a two-hour flight back to London before we took a taxi back to my sister’s house.

Another view of the Venice Grand Canal

The next day, the day I was flying back to Singapore, we all woke up late, after being exhausted the previous six days. After getting ready, I got my sister to take me food shopping. I had a list of some cheese, tea, and oils to buy, which I was not able to purchase in Italy because of the rules in the UK. Then we went to lunch at this amazing West African restaurant. We had the tasting menu, which lasted for about 2 hours. After that, we dropped the sister, who also lives in London, at the train station, which was the easiest way for her to get home, and then rushed home because it was late for me to get to the airport. I was stressed at this point because I had heard so much about how long it would take to clear check-in and passport control at London Heathrow that I was constantly refreshing all the apps I had checking about the times it would take me. After quickly changing and putting my things in my bag, we left for the airport. Check-in was smooth, as was passport control and customs, and I was finally on the other side. Then it was another 13 hours to Singapore, which I spent more or less sleeping, and then I was reunited with my family!

And that was our epic trip in spring!

Taking off from London Heathrow

Some last thoughts:

We packed too much into the trip – if I have to redo it, I would only do one main activity or attraction in a day and let us flow through the day. Since this was the first trip to Italy for most of us, we wanted to maximise our time there. What we forgot was that if you have six women trying to get out of the door, things will be delayed! Also, maybe we should not have gone to Venice and had an additional day in Florence. But this just means I have to go back to see all that I missed.

We used the Frecciarossa high-speed train from the Italian Rail, and I was impressed. We decided to spend a bit more and booked business class tickets on both journeys. The trains left and arrived on time on both trips. On the trip from Rome to Florence, other than us, there were two other people in the cabin, while we were the only ones in the cabin on the trip from Florence to Venice. The ticket also included a drink and a cookie. There is a small storage area above the seats, and bigger bags can be stored in a dedicated space at the entrance of the cabin. It was safe, as this was a nonstop trip and we were in eye contact with our luggage at all times. During the Rome to Florence trip, we did have some police asking to see our passports, but this didn’t happen on the second trip.

We also used Rome’s metro almost exclusively during our time there and didn’t have any issues. We all had contactless cards and used them. Rome’s metro has a fixed charge, and we paid €1.5 for each trip, irrespective of the distance, and you only need to tap your card when you enter, not when you exit. We did see a couple jump fare when we were coming back from dinner near Piazza Popolo, so that took us by surprise.

I was also worried about pickpockets in Italy and especially in Rome and had taken the precaution of having my phone on a lanyard around my neck at all times, but we didn’t see anything, and touch wood, nothing happened to us. I guess, growing up in India, we unconsciously were careful, or maybe we didn’t look like it was worth pickpocketing us. I also never had my passport with me; instead, I had a photo and my digital copy on hand.

Somewhere in Florence

Some tips and tricks that may help future travellers:

Overall Italy:

  • The streets are cobbled, and most older buildings don’t have lifts or elevators. So, before you pack that extra piece of clothing, think about whether you will be able to carry it up. My knowledge is from Airbnb, so if you are staying in a hotel, it may be different.
  • When visiting churches, shoulders and knees must be covered (men too), hats off, and no sleeveless tops. Both Florence’s Duomo and St Mark’s Basilica are strict and actively turning people away. Pack a light scarf for instant compliance.
  • Reserve, screenshot, repeat. Timed tickets for hot spots (Colosseum arena, Brunelleschi’s Dome, Accademia, Uffizi) open ~90 days out and often live only in a QR code. Save it offline: Italian turnstiles frequently lose signal, and email apps can lag. Florence’s Dome is now gated by the Brunelleschi Pass, so no pass, no climb.
  • Stamp (or check in) your regional train ticket. Paper regional tickets must be time-stamped in the green/white machines; digital tickets need the Trenitalia/Italo “check-in” tap before departure. Fines start around €50 if the conductor catches an unstamped fare.
  • Historic centres in pretty much all Italian cities are camera-policed limited-traffic zones; a rental car that strays inside can trigger an €80–€120 ticket months after you’re home, plus the agency’s admin fee. Park outside the walls and ride public transport instead.
  • Carry a small cross-body and stay alert.
  • Keep phones zipped away during crowd surges and ignore “helpful” strangers who bump or offer petitions.
Piazza del Popolo

Rome:

  • Book tickets early for major sites like the Colosseum and the Vatican. We booked almost 2 months out and still could not get the dates/times we wanted. Hence, the big miss when we went to Vatican City.
  • Use contactless cards on Rome’s public transit system. We used the same card for both the metro and the bus and, in both cases, paid €1.50 for each ride, irrespective of its length.
  • Hydrate from the street. Rome’s 2,500 nasoni fountains pour free, safe water 24/7. Carry a bottle and skip pricey kiosks. Look for “acqua non potabile” signs before sipping.
Views from Castello di Brolio

Florence:

  • Book Brunelleschi Pass tickets in advance for timed entry.
  • The Uffizi is free on the first Sunday of the month, but expect crowds.
  • Avoid driving in ZTL zones; you will be liable for heavy fines otherwise.
Grand Canal, Venice

Venice:

  • Budget for the “invisible” fees. Venice now charges day-trippers €5 (€10 if you book within 4 days of arrival) on 54 peak-season dates; carry the downloaded QR or risk a €50–€300 fine at the causeways.
  • Take the skip-the-line queue for St. Mark’s Basilica; watch for acqua alta.
  • The vaporetto pass is cheaper, but avoid large luggage. Though when we did use it from the station to our Airbnb, one of us had a large luggage, it was ok, but manageable.
  • There are fines for feeding pigeons or sitting on the Rialto Bridge steps.

2025 Week 37 Update

It’s been a week since BB has been in Australia. Though we speak over the phone almost daily, it’s not the same. I’ve been counting down the days when he will come back home. But he is enjoying himself and the scenery is just amazing from the few photos he shared with us. And that’s what is important. This week, I barely saw GG also as she was super busy with school work, tests and project submissions. But she has been very hard at work, especially after her priority offer, so I am happy for her.

Today’s quote is from Chinese general, military strategist, and philosopher best known as the author of The Art of War, an influential text on military strategy, leadership, and tactics, Sun Tzu. His philosophy emphasises discipline, foresight, adaptability, and the intelligent use of opportunities and his teachings remind us that success often comes from strategy and decisiveness rather than sheer force.

The quote emphasises the idea that taking action creates momentum. Sun Tzu suggests that opportunities don’t just appear randomly; they grow out of the ones we act upon. When we seize a chance, it often opens the door to new possibilities, connections, and paths that wouldn’t have existed had we hesitated.

For example, saying yes to one project may lead to new partnerships, recognition, or further opportunities down the line. In contrast, failing to act can cause opportunities to vanish. The message is clear: initiative breeds abundance, while inaction breeds stagnation. This insight applies not only to warfare, Sun Tzu’s primary subject, but also to everyday life: careers, relationships, and personal growth. The more proactive and courageous we are, the more doors open before us.

Another thing I read this week is also similar and spoke to me. What it said was that little tweaks in the way we speak to ourself can transform the narratives that shape our life experiences. For example, instead of saying “I let go of control”, we can say “I let go of the illusion of control”. This little distinction can help us remember that we don’t have to worry about figuring it all out by ourselves. Things work better when we surrender control, open up to trusting more. So by reframing “This day is ruined” into “This is only a difficult moment. It will pass soon”, we take control of how we perceive and shape our view. The key is being aware of the way we perceive our experiences, it makes all the difference.

That’s all from me this week. Stay positive and keep smiling!