Friday the 13th: A day shrouded in Enigma and Mystery

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Today is Friday the 13th – a date shrouded in mystery and fear, often associated with bad luck, curses, and eerie happenings. For centuries, this particular day has sparked a multitude of myths and superstitions, captivating the minds of people across various cultures.

In Norse mythology, the day was named after Frigg, the goddess of love and fertility, which led to it being called Frigg’s Day eventually evolving into Friday. Frigg’s counterpart in Roman mythology was Venus, the goddess of love, beauty, and fertility, further cementing the association of Friday with a divine feminine presence. In medieval Christian Europe, it gained an unfortunate reputation due to its connection to events considered ill-fated. For instance, some Christians believed that Eve tempted Adam with the forbidden fruit on a Friday, and it was also considered the day on which Cain murdered his brother Abel.

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The superstition surrounding the number 13 is known as triskaidekaphobia and the fear of Friday the 13th is known as friggatriskaidekaphobia or paraskevidekatriaphobia. Friggatriskaidekaphobia comes from Frigg, the Norse goddess of wisdom after whom Friday is named, and the Greek words triskaideka, meaning 13, and phobia, meaning fear. Paraskevidekatriaphobia is also derived from Greek, where paraskeví translates as Friday, and dekatria is another way of saying 13. Experts say that friggatriskaidekaphobia affects millions of people and estimate that businesses, especially airlines, suffer from severe losses on Friday the 13th. Triskaidekaphobia, or the fear of the number 13, is even more widespread. So much so that many high-rise buildings, hotels, and hospitals skip the 13th floor, and many airports do not have gates numbered 13. In many parts of the world, having 13 people at the dinner table is considered bad luck.

Its roots can be traced back to various historical and cultural sources. One widely held belief links it to the Last Supper, where there were 13 individuals present, including Jesus and his twelve disciples. Judas Iscariot, the apostle who later betrayed Jesus, is often associated with the number 13, adding to the ominous reputation of this numeral.

Western culture perceives the number 12 as a symbol of completeness and harmony with 12 months in a year, 12 zodiac signs, 12 days of Christmas, 12 labours of Hercules, and 12 tribes of Israel, among others. In contrast, the number 13 was considered irregular and unbalanced, evoking feelings of discomfort and unease and a long history as a sign of bad luck.

The fusion of Friday and the number 13 to create Friday the 13th is a relatively recent phenomenon, believed to have gained prominence in the 19th century. Despite its rather recent concoction, the fear and superstitions surrounding this date have become deeply ingrained in popular culture worldwide. Over time, numerous myths and legends have emerged, further fueling the aura of Friday the 13th.

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One of the most enduring legends associated with Friday the 13th is the curse of the Knights Templar. The Knights Templar, a medieval Christian military order, faced persecution and were eventually disbanded by King Philip IV of France on Friday, October 13, 1307. According to the legend, the Grand Master of the Templars, Jacques de Molay, placed a curse upon those responsible for their destruction, vowing that they would face misfortune. This curse is said to be the reason behind the superstitions surrounding Friday the 13th. Another popular belief related to Friday the 13th is its association with the full moon. While both Friday and the number 13 have their respective superstitions, the combination of the two is believed to intensify the perceived malevolence of this day, leading to heightened supernatural occurrences and erratic behaviour.

In the late-19th century, a New Yorker named Captain William Fowler (1827-1897) sought to remove the enduring stigma surrounding the number 13 — and particularly the unwritten rule about not having 13 guests at a dinner table — by founding an exclusive society called the Thirteen Club. The group dined regularly on the 13th day of the month in room 13 of the Knickerbocker Cottage, a popular watering hole Fowler owned from 1863 to 1883. Before sitting down for a 13-course dinner, members would pass beneath a ladder and a banner reading “Morituri te Salutamus,” Latin for “Those of us who are about to die salute you.”

In more recent times, several traumatic events have occurred on Friday the 13th, including the German bombing of Buckingham Palace in September 1940; the murder of Kitty Genovese in Queens, New York in March 1964; a cyclone that killed more than 300,000 people in Bangladesh in November 1970; the disappearance of a Chilean Air Force plane in the Andes in October 1972; the death of rapper Tupac Shakur in September 1996 and the crash of the Costa Concordia cruise ship off the coast of Italy, which killed 30 people in January 2012.

In some cultures, Friday the 13th is considered an inauspicious day for travel. It is believed that embarking on a journey on this date may lead to unfortunate incidents or accidents during the trip. Many individuals tend to avoid making important decisions or initiating new endeavours on Friday the 13th. The fear of potential bad luck or negative outcomes often prompts people to postpone crucial life choices until the day has passed.

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So why are people scared of Friday the 13th? The fear of Friday the 13th, known as paraskevidekatriaphobia, is surprisingly widespread, impacting millions of people worldwide. But why does this particular date invoke such dread and trepidation? Several factors contribute to this phenomenon.

Cultural conditioning plays a significant role in shaping our beliefs and perceptions. From an early age, many of us are exposed to stories, movies, and media that depict Friday the 13th as a day of ill fortune. As these beliefs become deeply ingrained, they can manifest as genuine fear in adulthood. Confirmation bias refers to our tendency to interpret events in a way that confirms our preexisting beliefs. On Friday the 13th, people might be more vigilant and pay extra attention to any negative or unfortunate incidents, reinforcing the belief that the day is indeed cursed. The collective belief in the unluckiness of Friday the 13th can create a self-fulfilling prophecy. When so many people are apprehensive about a specific date, their shared energy and anxiety can influence their experiences and interactions, potentially leading to a heightened sense of negativity on that day. Superstitions can evoke genuine fear and anxiety in individuals. When people genuinely believe that something is unlucky or cursed, it can trigger physiological responses, such as increased heart rate, sweating, and feelings of unease. These reactions can reinforce the perception that the day is genuinely dangerous.

Friday the 13th remains an enigma that has captivated the human imagination for centuries. Its origins in the amalgamation of a day associated with the divine feminine and a number steeped in superstition have given rise to a host of myths and legends. As people continue to fear this date, it’s essential to recognise the power of collective beliefs and the impact of cultural conditioning on our perception of luck.

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So, take a moment today to reflect on the fascinating history and myths surrounding it. Perhaps this day is not as foreboding as it seems, and the fear can be put to rest, allowing us to embrace the beauty of the unknown without the weight of superstition.

In My Hands Today…

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Without Ever Reaching the Summit: A Journey – Paolo Cognetti, translated by Stash Luczkiw

Why climb a mountain without ever reaching the summit?

In 2017, Paolo Cognetti returned to Nepal, not to conquer the mountains but to journey through the high valleys of the Dolpo with a copy of Peter Matthiessen’s The Snow Leopard in hand. Drawing on memories of his childhood in theAlps, Cognetti explored the roots of life in the mountains, truly getting to know the communities and the nature that forged this resilient, almost mythical region.

Accompanying him was Remigio, a childhood friend who had never left the mountains of Italy, and Nicola, a painter he had recently met. Joined by a stalwart team of local sherpas, the trio started out in the remote Dolpo region of Nepal. From there, a journey of self-discovery shaped by illness, human connection, and empathy was born.

Without Ever Reaching the Summit features line illustrations drawn by the author.

In My Hands Today…

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Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy – Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant

After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again. “I was in ‘the void,’” she writes, “a vast emptiness that fills your heart and lungs and restricts your ability to think or even breathe.”

Her friend Adam Grant, a psychologist at Wharton, told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover and rebound from life-shattering experiences. We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. It is a muscle that everyone can build.

Option B combines Sheryl’s personal insights with Adam’s eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity. Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband, Dave Goldberg, collapsed on a gym floor, Sheryl opens up her heart—and her journal—to describe the acute grief and isolation she felt in the wake of his death. But Option B goes beyond Sheryl’s loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness, job loss, sexual assault, natural disasters, and the violence of war. Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere . . . and to rediscover joy.

Resilience comes from deep within us and from support outside us. Even after the most devastating events, it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning and gaining greater appreciation in our lives. Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis, develop compassion for ourselves, raise strong children, and create resilient families, communities, and workplaces. Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles, allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead. Two weeks after losing her husband, Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity. “I want Dave,” she cried. Her friend replied, “Option A is not available,” and then promised to help her make the most of Option B.

We all live some form of Option B. This book will help us all make the most of it.

World Mental Health Day

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Tomorrow is World Mental Health Day. This day serves as a global reminder of the importance of mental health and encourages open conversations around mental well-being. It was first celebrated in 1992 at the initiative of the World Federation for Mental Health, a global mental health organisation with members and contacts in more than 150 countries. This day, each October, thousands of supporters come to celebrate this annual awareness program to bring attention to mental illness and its major effects on people’s lives worldwide. In addition, this day provides an opportunity for mental health professionals to discuss and shed light on their work, making mental health a priority worldwide. In some countries, this day is part of an awareness week.

Mental health is an integral part of our overall well-being and encompasses the emotional, psychological, and social aspects of our lives. It affects how we think, feel, and act, as well as how we handle stress, make choices and relate to others. It is crucial to recognise that mental health is not merely the absence of mental illness but rather the presence of positive psychological states and coping mechanisms. Just like physical health, mental health is subject to fluctuations throughout our lives. We all experience a range of emotions, face challenges, and cope with stress at various times. This is perfectly normal. However, when these challenges become overwhelming and persist over extended periods, they can negatively impact our mental well-being.

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Maintaining a healthy mental state is essential for multiple reasons. Mental health is interconnected with physical health and impacts every aspect of our lives. When we take care of our mental health, we are better equipped to handle stress, make informed decisions, and maintain healthy relationships. Good mental health is linked to higher productivity and improved performance in various areas of life, including work, academics, and personal goals. Research has shown a strong connection between mental and physical health. Poor mental health can lead to a weakened immune system, increased risk of chronic diseases, and even slower recovery from illnesses. Promoting mental health helps reduce the stigma associated with mental illnesses. Open discussions encourage empathy and understanding, leading to a more inclusive society. Taking care of our mental health proactively can act as a protective measure, reducing the risk of developing mental illnesses or exacerbating existing conditions.

The theme for the 2023 edition of World Mental Health Day is “Mental Health for All,” emphasising the need for universal access to mental health care and support. This year’s theme aims to break barriers and ensure that mental health services are available to everyone, regardless of their background or location. The theme addresses the disparity in mental health care and aims to break down barriers that prevent individuals from seeking help.

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By encouraging open conversations and education about mental health, we can work towards eliminating the stigma that often prevents people from seeking help. Ensuring that mental health services are accessible to everyone, regardless of their socioeconomic status, location, or background, is crucial to achieving mental health for all. The theme highlights the need to prioritise mental health support for vulnerable populations, such as refugees, victims of violence, and those facing discrimination. Empowering individuals with the knowledge and tools to take care of their mental health can lead to better self-awareness and improved coping mechanisms. The theme also emphasises the importance of collaboration between governments, non-governmental organizations, healthcare providers, and communities to advocate for mental health support and resources.

World Mental Health Day is not just a day of awareness, but also a call to action. There are several ways individuals and communities can contribute to the “Mental Health for All” initiative. One can educate themselves and others about mental health issues, signs of distress, and available resources. By raising awareness, one can create a supportive environment for those in need. One can and should advocate for inclusive mental health policies and services that cater to the diverse needs of all individuals, including marginalised communities. One should volunteer or contribute to mental health organisations and initiatives that work towards improving access to mental health care. Open conversations about mental health should be encouraged and seeking help from mental health professionals when needed, is normalised. So one should prioritise self-care and mental well-being in their daily life and engage in activities that promote relaxation, stress reduction, and emotional well-being.

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World Mental Health Day is a powerful reminder that mental health is a fundamental aspect of our lives and should be a global priority. 2023’s theme emphasises the importance of breaking down barriers and ensuring universal access to mental health care and support. By promoting awareness, education, and inclusivity, we can work towards building a society that fosters mental well-being for everyone, regardless of their background or circumstances. Let’s visualise a world where mental health is valued, protected, and nurtured, not just on World Mental Health Day but every day of the year.