In My Hands Today…

The 48 Laws of Power – Robert Greene

In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum.

Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.

In My Hands Today…

The Psychology of Money – Morgan Housel

Doing well with money isn’t necessarily about what you know. It’s about how you behave. And behaviour is hard to teach, even to brilliant people. Money—investing, personal finance, and business decisions—is typically taught as a math-based field, where data and formulas tell us exactly what to do. But in the real world, people don’t make financial decisions on a spreadsheet. They make them at the dinner table or in a meeting room, where personal history, your own unique view of the world, ego, pride, marketing, and odd incentives are scrambled together. In The Psychology of Money, award-winning author Morgan Housel shares 19 short stories exploring the strange ways people think about money and teaches you how to make better sense of one of life’s most important topics.

Short Story: The Memory Basket

The sun streamed through the kitchen window, casting a warm glow on the sage green woven basket on the table. Aisha Tan stared at it, her heart heavy with memories. Just days ago, she had lost her beloved grandmother, Mei Ling, who had filled their home with laughter and the aroma of delicious food. The basket was all that remained of her culinary legacy.

Aisha gently lifted the lid, revealing a collection of handwritten recipes carefully penned in her grandmother’s elegant script. There were dishes from various cultures—Nasi Lemak, Char Kway Teow, Roti Canai, and even Indian curries like Chicken Rendang and Dhal Curry. Each recipe was a testament to the multicultural tapestry that defined Malaysia.

As she sifted through the recipes, Aisha felt a pang of longing. She had always loved cooking but had never taken the time to learn from her grandmother. Now, with Mei Ling gone, Aisha felt an urgency to reconnect with her roots and honour her grandmother’s memory. “I’ll do it,” she whispered to herself. “I’ll cook every dish in this basket.”

The following weekend, Aisha decided to start with Nasi Lemak, a dish that held special significance in her family. It was often served during family gatherings and celebrations. She gathered the ingredients—coconut milk, pandan leaves, rice, sambal, fried anchovies, peanuts, and boiled eggs. As she cooked, memories flooded—her grandmother teaching her how to prepare the dish while sharing stories of their family’s history. Aisha could almost hear Mei Ling’s voice guiding her through each step.

“Add just the right amount of coconut milk,” she remembered Mei Ling saying with a twinkle in her eye. “It’s what makes the rice fragrant.”

Once the dish was ready, Aisha plated it beautifully and sat down at the dining table. She closed her eyes and took a deep breath, savouring the aroma that filled the air. With each bite, she felt connected to her grandmother and their shared heritage. That evening, as she enjoyed her meal alone, Aisha realised that cooking was more than just preparing food; it was a way to keep memories alive—a bridge between generations.

Inspired by her first culinary adventure, Aisha decided to invite her estranged relatives over for dinner. It had been years since they had gathered as a family; disagreements and misunderstandings had driven them apart. But now, she felt it was time to mend those bonds.

She sent out invitations to her aunties and uncles, promising them an evening filled with nostalgia and delicious food. As the day approached, Aisha prepared an array of dishes from the basket—Char Kway Teow for starters and Chicken Rendang as the main course.

On the night of the gathering, Aisha decorated the dining table with flowers and candles to create a warm atmosphere. When her relatives arrived, there were initial awkward moments filled with hesitant smiles and polite greetings. But as they sat down to eat and shared stories about their childhoods—about Mei Ling’s cooking and family traditions—the atmosphere began to shift. Laughter filled the room as they reminisced about old times and shared their favourite memories of Aisha’s grandmother.

“Remember when Auntie May tried to make Nasi Lemak for the first time?” one uncle chuckled. “She forgot to add salt!” Aisha laughed along with them, feeling the warmth spread through her heart as she watched her family reconnect over food. It was then that she realised how powerful cooking could be—a way to heal wounds and bring people together.

Encouraged by the success of her family dinner, Aisha continued exploring other recipes in the basket. Each dish came with its own story—her grandmother’s experiences in different kitchens around Malaysia and beyond.

One weekend, she decided to try making Roti Canai from scratch. As she kneaded the dough and flipped it on the hot pan, she thought about how this simple bread brought together Indian influences in Malaysian cuisine. While preparing Roti Canai, Aisha remembered visiting Little India with Mei Ling as a child—the vibrant colours of saris in shop windows and the tantalizing scents wafting from street vendors selling delicious snacks. Those memories made her smile as she rolled out each piece of dough.

When she finally served it alongside spicy curry for dipping, Aisha felt accomplished. The flavours transported her back to those joyful moments spent with her grandmother exploring their heritage together.

As months passed by, filled with culinary experiments, Aisha discovered more than just recipes—she uncovered stories embedded within each dish reflecting cultural traditions passed down through generations!

One evening while preparing Laksa—a spicy noodle soup popular among Malaysians—Aisha stumbled upon an old photo album hidden beneath some cookbooks on a shelf! Curiosity piqued; she opened it, revealing faded pictures capturing moments from family gatherings long forgotten…

In one photo stood young Mei Ling, surrounded by relatives, smiling brightly, holding bowls filled with steaming Laksa! Another image showcased festive celebrations during Hari Raya, where everyone gathered around tables laden with various dishes showcasing diversity within Malaysian cuisine! A wave of nostalgia washed over Aisha as she flipped through pages filled with laughter, the joy reminding everyone present of the importance of cherishing bonds forged through shared meals celebrating life itself!

Determined not only to preserve these memories but also to honour the legacy left behind, Aisha decided to host another gathering, inviting everyone once again, ensuring that traditions lived on to inspire future generations to embrace journeys undertaken together, forging connections deeper than ever imagined possible…

On the day of the Hari Raya celebrations, excitement buzzed through Aisha’s home as relatives began arriving adorned in colourful traditional attire, filling the air with laughter and joy celebrating a reunion long overdue! This time, however, instead of simply serving dishes prepared from the basket inherited, Aisha encouraged each member to contribute their favourite recipes, to share stories behind them, reminding everyone present of the importance of preserving cultural heritage intertwined throughout lives lived long ago…

As they gathered around tables laden with food; aromas wafted through the air, creating a symphony of flavours and inviting everyone to partake in discovering that beauty lies within stories shared connecting generations past present future alike, reminding all hope remains alive even in darkest moments faced along the way…

“Let me tell you about my mother’s special recipe for Beef Rendang!” said Auntie May, excitedly recounting tales passed down through families, showcasing the significance behind every ingredient used within the dish, reminding everyone present of the importance of cherishing bonds formed across generations…

As festivities continued late into the night, Emma found herself reflecting upon the journey undertaken since inheriting the sage green woven basket filled with handwritten recipes from her beloved grandmother. Each dish prepared not only served the purpose of nourishing their bodies but also their souls, creating connection and bridging gaps formed over years lost amidst misunderstandings and estrangements experienced throughout life.

Feeling the warmth radiate throughout the room, filled with laughter and joy surrounding loved ones gathered close together and sharing moments cherished forevermore, Emma realized cooking wasn’t merely about food—it was about love, a legacy passed down, intertwining lives forevermore, reminding everyone present of the importance embracing change while honouring past ensuring light would always shine bright, illuminating hearts and souls alike, guiding them homeward bound forevermore…

With newfound purpose igniting spirit within, Emma vowed to continue honouring ancestors, ensuring stories lived on, inspiring future generations to embrace journeys undertaken together, forging connections deeper than ever imagined possible…

And so they stood together, united by purpose celebrating life, love, and resilience, knowing together they’d overcome challenges faced, paving the path forward, ensuring light would always shine bright, illuminating hearts and souls alike, guiding them homeward bound forevermore…

2025 Week 20 Update

Hello from the sky! My grand adventure starts today, so join me for the ride! I am posting this from about 35,000 feet in the air on the way to the start of my sort of grand trip with my sisters. This trip has been in the planning for more than a year, and today the adventure begins. I will share more about this trip once I am back in Singapore.

Today’s insightful quote by Pablo Picasso speaks to the innate creativity and imaginative freedom found in children and how that natural artistic spirit often diminishes as people grow older. Spanish painter, sculptor, and one of the most influential artists of the 20th century, Pablo Picasso was known as a co-founder of the Cubist movement and a revolutionary force in modern art. His legacy endures not just through his artwork but through his belief in the power of the imagination. 

When we’re young, we’re curious, bold, and uninhibited. Children draw, build, paint, and dream without fear of judgment or failure. Their creativity flows naturally because they’re not constrained by rules, expectations, or the need for perfection. Picasso’s observation highlights a truth: everyone is born with creativity, but adulthood often teaches us to suppress it. As we grow, we begin to conform to societal norms, absorb criticism, and internalise the belief that being creative is only for the talented few. We start fearing mistakes or ridicule, which stifles the spontaneity and joy that once came so easily.

The problem Picasso refers to is not that creativity disappears; it’s that we stop nurturing it. We become more self-conscious and overly analytical, losing touch with the playful, expressive part of ourselves. Maintaining artistic freedom in adulthood requires deliberate effort. It means embracing vulnerability, being open to experimentation, and permitting ourselves to create without expectations or limitations. This quote is not just about being a painter or a musician. It’s about retaining the spirit of creativity in all forms: thinking outside the box, dreaming big, taking risks, and seeing the world through fresh eyes. Whether designing, problem-solving, or telling stories, keeping that childlike sense of wonder is crucial to innovation and fulfilment. In essence, Picasso challenges us to reclaim our creative selves, to break free from fear, judgment, and rigidity, and return to the imaginative, expressive nature we were all born with. Creativity is not something we lose with age; it is something we must choose to preserve.

GG has started her internship this week and is super busy. She leaves early in the morning and comes home exhausted in the evening. BB is busy with his work in camp, and life is as usual for him.

That’s all from me this week. Hopefully, I will have more to share next week, but if not, no worries; once I am back in Singapore, I will share more about the trip. Stay positive and keep smiling!