Festivals of India: Varalakshmi Vratam

Last week was the Varalakshmi Vratam, also called Varalakshmi Puja, an observance to propitiate the goddess of prosperity, Goddess Lakshmi. Varalakshmi is the manifestation of Goddess Lakshmi who grants boons or varams and is the embodiment of wealth, prosperity, and auspiciousness.

It is a puja primarily performed by married Hindu women in South India, particularly in the states of Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh, and Telangana on the Friday before the day of the full moon in the Hindu month of Shravana, which corresponds to the Gregorian months of July – August. The vratam or fast is performed by sumangalis or married women for their well-being, and to ask the Goddess to bless their husbands with health and longevity. Many believe that worshipping the aspect of Varalakshmi on this day is equivalent to worshipping the Ashtalakshmi or the eight aspects of Lakshmi, all of whom represent different forms of wealth.

On this occasion, women worship the goddess Lakshmi by offering fruits, sweets and flowers and a kalasham which represents the deity is decorated with a sari, flowers and gold jewellery, with offerings placed in front of it. The puja begins with the formal welcome of Goddess Lakshmi into one’s house. A wooden tray or a stand is placed outside the house’s threshold. Rangoli is drawn in the puja room. A kalasham which is usually made of brass or silver is placed on the tray outside the house. The pot is decorated with mango leaves as well as flowers. Auspicious items such as rice, betel leaves, turmeric sticks, bananas, and coins are placed inside the pot. A thread dipped in turmeric is tied around the neck of the pot. A coconut scrubbed with turmeric is placed on top of it. In some traditions, the face of the goddess may be drawn on the coconut, or a brass or silver face may be kept on the pot and decorated with kumkum, turmeric, and sandalwood powder. During an auspicious hour, the women sing a song of greeting to Goddess Lakshmi and carry the tray and kalasham into the puja room. After lighting the lamp and performing the arati, shlokas, songs dedicated to the goddess are sung. The yellow thread is untied, and a piece is given to each girl or woman to tie around her right wrist. This is symbolic of the conclusion of the auspicious puja, as well as receiving the blessings of the deity. This is also worn to signify protection and piety, and several articles are given as gifts and charity in good faith.

In Tamil Nadu, as offerings, four varieties of kozhakattai, payasam, and vadai are prepared as naivedyam or offerings. The next day, the Lakshmi puja is performed. Cooked rice, chickpeas, fruit, and betel leaves are offered to all the women who participated. The face of the goddess is turned towards the west, and the kalasham with its contents is placed inside a drum of rice, symbolically keeping the goddess safely inside the house until the next year. The festivities of this occasion often end with the recitation of the vrata katha, the story of the vow that offers it its religious significance.

According to one story, a Brahmin woman named Padmavati, known to be pious and dutiful to her husband, as well as reputed to assist the sick, poor, and the needy, was observed by Goddess Lakshmi in the kingdom of Kosala. Greatly pleased, the goddess instructed her to perform the festival on the given date in the month of Shravana so that she could achieve salvation. In a similar story, a virtuous and honest woman named Charumati, devoted to her husband and in-laws, receives a dream from Lord Vishnu. The deity tells her to worship the Goddess Lakshmi every year during the month of Shravana, which would give her blessings of his consort, as well as wealth.

Some of the rituals that are performed on this occasion are regarded by some scholars to be significant. The essence of the goddess, in fact, of all females, is said to be turmeric and vermillion, and then during this festival, goddess and woman overlap, periodically, momentarily.

Varalakshmi Vrat is not just an individual observance but also a festival that fosters a sense of community and togetherness. The festival celebrates the divine feminine energy where women come together to perform the puja, share their experiences, and seek the blessings of the Goddess. It is a time when friendships are strengthened, and bonds are renewed. In a country that is diverse with multiple cultures and traditions, festivals hold a special place in the hearts of its people. And I believe that it is these festivals that keep us rooted in our traditions and as custodians of traditions, we should celebrate them so that the next generation also knows the beauty of their culture.

2023 Week 34 Update

Today’s quote comes to us from Denmark. The proverb carries a valuable piece of advice about caution, responsibility, and foresight. The proverb means that one should not venture into situations or commitments that are beyond their ability to handle or control. Just as when one is on a boat, one should avoid going too far from the shore if they’re unsure whether they’ll be able to row back to safety. This proverb advises against taking on more than one can handle, the importance of risk assessment and management, prudent decision-making, self-awareness, and being prepared. It encourages a balanced approach to taking risks, one that considers both the potential rewards and the potential challenges. By not sailing too far from shore, i.e., venturing into the unknown, without the ability to row back or address challenges, or retreat if necessary, one increases their chances of navigating life’s challenges and uncertainties more effectively.

Also, this week, Chandrayaan 3 successfully soft-landed on the Moon’s south pole. This made India the fourth country to have landed a rover on the moon, after the United States of America, Russia, and China and the first to have landed on the south pole of the Moon. The Moon’s south pole is an area of great scientific interest due to its unique characteristics, including permanently shadowed regions that could potentially contain water ice and other resources. Chandrayaan 3 aims to explore and study these regions to unravel more about the Moon’s geological and environmental history. Like millions of Indians, I too was glued to my phone watching the live stream from ISRO and cheered when the Vikram lander soft-landed on the Moon’s surface. A soft landing on the Moon is an intricate and challenging feat, involving precise engineering, navigation, and communication.

Singapore will go to the polls to elect a new President next week and while I do have a candidate I am leaning toward, I am still evaluating all three candidates before I make a final decision. That’s all for this week, see you next month!

In My Hands Today…

The Smartest Kids in the World: And How They Got That Way – Amanda Ripley

Through the compelling stories of three American teenagers living abroad and attending the world’s top-notch public high schools, an investigative reporter explains how these systems cultivate the “smartest” kids on the planet.

America has long compared its students to top-performing kids of other nations, but how do the world’s education superpowers look through the eyes of an American high school student? Author Amanda Ripley follows three teenagers who chose to spend one school year living and learning in Finland, South Korea, and Poland. Through their adventures, Ripley discovers startling truths about how attitudes, parenting, and rigorous teaching have revolutionized these countries’ education results.

In The Smartest Kids in the World, Ripley’s astonishing new insights reveal that top-performing countries have achieved greatness only in the past several decades; that the kids who live there are learning to think for themselves, partly through failing early and often; and that persistence, hard work, and resilience matter more to our children’s life chances than self-esteem or sports.

Ripley’s investigative work seamlessly weaves narrative and research, providing in-depth analysis and gripping details that will keep you turning the pages. Written in a clear and engaging style, The Smartest Kids in the World will enliven public as well as dinner table debates over what makes for brighter and better students.

Poem: Friendships

Friendships are life’s gifts that keep on giving. They are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives and the bonds that uplift us, support us, and bring joy to our days. True friendships go beyond surface-level interactions and create a sense of belonging, trust, and understanding. They offer a safe space where we can be ourselves, share our joys and sorrows, and find comfort in times of need. Friendships provide companionship, laughter, and a shoulder to lean on, reminding us that we are never alone on this journey. They enrich our lives and leave an indelible mark on our hearts, reminding us of the power and beauty of human connection. On that note, here’s a poem that celebrates the beauty of friendships.

Poem: Friendships

In the tapestry of life, friendships bloom,
A kaleidoscope of colours, casting away gloom.
Like delicate flowers, they grace our days,
Guiding us through life’s meandering maze.

Friends are the stars that light up the night,
Glowing with warmth, their love shining bright.
Through laughter and tears, they stand by our side,
With open hearts, in them, we confide.

A friend is a melody, harmonising our soul,
Their presence is a balm that makes us whole.
In their embrace, our spirits find release,
A sanctuary of trust, offering inner peace.

They lift us when we stumble and fall,
Supporting our dreams, answering the call.
With every word spoken, a bond is sealed,
A connection so profound, it’s never concealed.

In times of sorrow, they’re a comforting shoulder,
Whispering solace, making our burdens grow colder.
They celebrate our triumphs, big and small,
Cheering from the sidelines, cheering through it all.

Friendships are bridges, crossing divides,
Uniting hearts, no matter the tides.
Through differences and diverse paths, we roam,
True friends are a place where we find a home.

They’re the laughter that echoes in memories past,
The secrets we share, forever they’ll last.
In a world full of chaos, they’re a beacon of light,
Guiding us forward, shining pure and bright.

So let’s cherish these treasures, these friendships we hold,
For they are more precious than silver or gold.
With love as the thread that weaves us as one,
Friendships endure, their beauty never undone. 

In My Hands Today…

Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World – Gretchen Rubin

For more than a decade, Gretchen Rubin had been studying happiness and human nature. Then, one day, a visit to her eye doctor made her realize that she’d been overlooking a key element of happiness: her five senses. She’d spent so much time stuck in her head that she’d allowed the vital sensations of life to slip away, unnoticed. This epiphany lifted her from a state of foggy preoccupation into a world rediscovered by seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, and touching.

In this journey of self-experimentation, Rubin explores the mysteries and joys of the five senses as a path to a happier, more mindful life. Drawing on cutting-edge science, philosophy, literature, and her own efforts to practice what she learns, she investigates the profound power of tuning in to the physical world.

From the simple pleasures of appreciating the magic of ketchup and adding favorite songs to a playlist, to more adventurous efforts like creating a daily ritual of visiting the Metropolitan Museum of Art and attending Flavor University, Rubin show us how to experience each day with depth, delight, and connection. In the rush of daily life, she finds, our five senses offer us an immediate, sustainable way to cheer up, calm down, and engage the world around us—as well as a way to glimpse the soul and touch the transcendent.

Life in Five Senses is an absorbing, layered story of discovery filled with profound insights and practical suggestions about how to heighten our senses and use our powers of perception to live fuller, richer lives—and, ultimately, how to move through the world with more vitality and love.