In My Hands Today…

The Perfect Son – Barbara Claypole White

25228579From a distance, Felix Fitzwilliam, the son of an old English family, is a good husband and father. But, obsessed with order and routine, he’s a prisoner to perfection. Disengaged from the emotional life of his North Carolina family, Felix has let his wife, Ella, deal with their special-needs son by herself.

A talented jewelry designer turned full-time mother, Ella is the family rock…until her heart attack shatters their carefully structured existence. Now Harry, a gifted teen grappling with the chaos of Tourette’s, confronts a world outside his parents’ control, one that tests his desire for independence.

As Harry searches for his future, and Ella adapts to the limits of her failing health, Felix struggles with his past and present roles. To prevent the family from being ripped apart, they must each bend with the inevitability of change and reinforce the ties that bind.

Recipe: Mor Kozambu aka Buttermilk Gravy

IMG_6069A very traditional south Indian dish, this is our version of Kadhi, a yoghurt based gravy, which is found almost all over India, in various avatars – the kadhis which you have in Gujarat and Punjab and the pitla from Maharashtra.

This is a very easy dish to make with minimal ingredients, which you can make with not much effort.

IMG_6071Mor Kuzambu or Buttermilk Gravy

Ingredients:

  • 2 cups yoghurt, thinned to a pouring consistency
  • 5-6 ladies fingers or Okra, cut into long pieces
  • 3-4 tbsps grated coconut
  • 5-6 green chillies (more or less depending on the spice intensity or your ability to take the heat)
  • 1 tsp cumin seeds
  • 2 tbsps oil (any vegetable cooking oil)
  • 1 tsp mustard seeds
  • ¼ tsp turmeric powder
  • Salt to taste

Method:

  • In a pan, warm the oil and add the mustards. When the mustard seeds pop, add the chopped ladies finger and turmeric powder and let it cook till it is crisp. You can also add a tsp of salt to lightly salt the okra.
  • When the ladies finger becomes crisp, switch off the gas and keep aside.
  • In a blender, add the coconut, chillies and the cumin seeds and blend until smooth. Use the yoghurt to add moisture to blend.
  • When smoothly blended, add it to the fried okra and let it cook.
  • Add some more of the thinned yoghurt to bring it to the consistency you like (think or thick) and once the whole gravy comes to a rolling boil, switch off the gas and remove from the flame.
  • Serve with rice and a vegetable of your choice.
  • Enjoy yummy Mor Kozambu

Notes: Instead of Okra, you can also use orange pumpkin, white pumpkin or even potatoes to make this gravy.

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In My Hands Today…

In Spite of the Gods: The Strange Rise of Modern India – Edward Luce

74121India is poised to become one of the world’s three largest economies in the next generation and to overtake China as the world’s most populous country by 2032. Well before then India’s incipient nuclear deterrent will have acquired intercontinental range and air, sea and land capabilities. India’s volatile relationship with its nuclear-armed neighbour, Pakistan, may prove to be the source of the world’s next major conflict. And if you call anyone- from your bank to rail enquiries- your query may well be dealt with by a graduate in Gujarat. Any way one looks at it, India’s fate matters. Edward Luce, one of the most incisive and talented journalists of his generation, assesses the forces that are forging the new nation. Cutting through the miasma that still clouds thinking about India, this extraordinarily accomplished book takes the measure of a society that is struggling to come to grips with modernity. Drawing on historical research, existing literature and his own unparalleled access as the New Delhi-based, South Asia correspondent of the FT, this is a book that will enthral as well as educate and will remain the definitive book on the country for many years.

2016 Week 36 Update

This week seemed to fly past for me! I hardly seemed to be at home most of the days. 

I went for the weird interview one day and for the teachers day celebrations at BB’s school on another. On Friday which was a school holiday for Teachers Day, I took BB & GG to the National library (we love to go there for the sheer range of books available) and then S met us and took us for lunch at this wonderful Middle East restaurant. 

We also booked our tickets to India over the weekend and the trip is getting closer. I just hope that if I get a new position soon, I am able to take the three odd weeks off if I start before then. The best possible outcome would be that I get the job and then start after I am back. 

This week is also the school holiday, but both of them have to go back to school on different days. 

Have a great week and an awesome September people!!

Secondary One Week 36 Update

Term 3 in this school year has come to an end. The children are on a week-long holiday and will go back to school on 13th September (after the Hari Raya Haji or Bakri Id) holiday and get into the business of finishing the school year with exams. Exams start around the end of the month and school ends in the end of October.

On the last day of the term, which in Singapore is celebrated as Teachers Day, both GG & BB, went to their primary school, along with other primary school friends for an alumni ‘Homecoming’ the school organised. GG had spent the better part of the week making Oreo Truffle chocolates. She made for all her primary school teachers plus some for her and BB’s secondary school form teachers. Hope it was well received by the teachers.

I also spoke to one of GG’s form teachers to ask her about GG’s chances to progress to the higher stream (the one that BB is in). The prognosis seems to be quite positive and according to the teacher, if the student does well in all her subjects, the teachers will discuss the promotion of the student to the stream and if the teachers agree that the student can cope with the vigour of the stream, they will let the student know, who in turn will speak to her parents and if all agree, the parents have to go down to the school to sign the appropriate documents.

GG wants this, so I am egging her on to do well in the end of year exams. I will leave the decision to her, but I want her to get the offer from the school as a validation of her efforts during the year.

Have a great Sunday folks!