With all that is happening in the world today, I think we deserve some smiles. Here are some happy photos to do just that!






With all that is happening in the world today, I think we deserve some smiles. Here are some happy photos to do just that!






The Kitchen House – Kathleen Grissom

When a white servant girl violates the order of plantation society, she unleashes a tragedy that exposes the worst and best in the people she has come to call her family.
Orphaned while onboard ship from Ireland, seven-year-old Lavinia arrives on the steps of a tobacco plantation where she is to live and work with the slaves of the kitchen house.
Under the care of Belle, the master’s illegitimate daughter, Lavinia becomes deeply bonded to her adopted family, though she is set apart from them by her white skin.
Eventually, Lavinia is accepted into the world of the big house, where the master is absent and the mistress battles opium addiction. Lavinia finds herself perilously straddling two very different worlds. When she is forced to make a choice, loyalties are brought into question, dangerous truths are laid bare, and lives are put at risk.
Over the Christmas holidays last year, I learnt that a friend has been diagnosed with breast cancer. It was a huge shock to me since she is just a couple of years older than me and was super fit, did not smoke and only drank socially. My first thought was for her family and the second thought was if it could happen to her, then it could probably happen to anyone.
Earlier this year, I started reading up on this disease and that’s when I realised that yesterday, February 4th was World Cancer Day as determined by the World Health Organisation. World Cancer Day is an initiative of the Union for International Cancer Control (UICC), the largest and oldest international cancer organisation dedicated to taking the lead in convening, capacity building and advocacy initiatives that unite the cancer community to reduce the global cancer burden, promote greater equity, and integrate cancer control into the world health and development agenda.
World Cancer Day was born on the 4 February 2000 at the World Summit Against Cancer for the New Millennium in Paris. The Paris Charter aims to promote research, prevent cancer, improve patient services, raise awareness and mobilise the global community to make progress against cancer, and includes the adoption of World Cancer Day.
This year, the campaign turns 20 and there has been tremendous progress in many areas, from increased political will, technological advancements, research breakthroughs, and greater public understanding of the disease. In 2019 the World Health Organization included Non-communicable Diseases (NCDs), including cancer, as one of top ten threats to public health.
It turns out that around 9.6 million people die each year from cancer. That is more than HIV/AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis combined. By 2030, experts project cancer deaths to rise to 13 million, so there’s much to be done in the next decade if these statistics are to be reversed. Experts say that more than one third of cancer cases can be prevented. Another third can be cured if detected early and treated properly. By implementing resource-appropriate strategies on prevention, early detection and treatment, up to 3.7 million lives can be saved every year.
Today, more than half (65%) of cancer deaths are happening in the least developed parts of the world. Even if you live in a higher income country, inequities still exist among lower-income, indigenous, immigrant, refugee and rural communities. It has been proven that equal access to cancer prevention, diagnosis, treatment and care can save lives. How do health officials and experts do this? They do this through raising the public and political literacy and understanding around cancer. By doing that, they are able to reduce fear, increase understanding, dispel myths and misconceptions, and change behaviours and attitudes, all of which are essential to cancer prevention, diagnosis, treatment and care.
The theme for the 2020 World Cancer Day is “I Am And I Will”. This theme is a 3-year campaign which is an empowering call-to-action urging for personal commitment and represents the power of individual action taken now to impact the future. The campaign is built to resonate, inspire change and mobilise action long after the day has passed.
What is the Big C, aka Cancer? Cancer is a disease which occurs when changes in a group of normal cells within the body lead to uncontrolled, abnormal growth forming a lump called a tumour; this is true of all cancers except leukaemia (cancer of the blood). If left untreated, tumours can grow and spread into the surrounding normal tissue, or to other parts of the body via the bloodstream and lymphatic systems, and can affect the digestive, nervous and circulatory systems or release hormones that may affect body function.
Cancer tumours can be divided into three groups: benign, malignant or precancerous
Cancer can be classified according to the type of cell they start from. There are five main types:
9.6 million people die from cancer every year with at least one third of common cancers being preventable. Cancer is the second-leading cause of death worldwide with around 70% of cancer deaths occuring in low-to-middle income countries. Up to 3.7 million lives could be saved each year by implementing resource appropriate strategies for prevention, early detection and treatment. There is also an economic impact of the disease at an annual estimation of US$1.16 trillion!
My friend I mentioned in the beginning of this post? Well the biopsy showed that she was having stage 1 breast cancer. She has started treatment and is expected to be cancer free soon.
Please do spread the word about this deadly disease, especially if you live or know someone who lives in one of the less developed countries or is someone who lives in lower income, indigenious or rural areas with not much access to information and care.
Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine – Gail Honeyman

No one’s ever told Eleanor that life should be better than fine.
Meet Eleanor Oliphant: She struggles with appropriate social skills and tends to say exactly what she’s thinking. Nothing is missing in her carefully timetabled life of avoiding social interactions, where weekends are punctuated by frozen pizza, vodka, and phone chats with Mummy.
But everything changes when Eleanor meets Raymond, the bumbling and deeply unhygienic IT guy from her office. When she and Raymond together save Sammy, an elderly gentleman who has fallen on the sidewalk, the three become the kinds of friends who rescue one another from the lives of isolation they have each been living. And it is Raymond’s big heart that will ultimately help Eleanor find the way to repair her own profoundly damaged one.

You look at it and what do you see?
You looking back at you, your reflelction for the world to see
What you see is what the world sees
Warts and faults, beauty and stories
Mirror, Mirror on the wall, tell me this, tell me quick
Am I really that what I show in public?
Is my outside the same as what I am in the inside?
Or am I living a double life, am I living a lie, with eyes open wide?
Tell me the truth, my mirror, tell me now
Show me what I truly am, let me inside me somehow
Let me take the first step in syncing my in and out
So my mirror reflects the real me, both in and out
My mirror is true to myself, inside and out