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Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things – Adam M. Grant

We live in a world that’s obsessed with talent. We celebrate gifted students in school, natural athletes in sports, and child prodigies in music. But admiring people who start out with innate advantages leads us to overlook the distance we ourselves can travel. We underestimate the range of skills that we can learn and how good we can become. We can all improve at improving. And when opportunity doesn’t knock, there are ways to build a door.

Hidden Potential offers a new framework for raising aspirations and exceeding expectations. Adam Grant weaves together groundbreaking evidence, surprising insights, and vivid storytelling that takes us from the classroom to the boardroom, the playground to the Olympics, and underground to outer space. He shows that progress depends less on how hard you work than how well you learn. Growth is not about the genius you possess—it’s about the character you develop. Grant explores how to build the character skills and motivational structures to realize our own potential, and how to design systems that create opportunities for those who have been underrated and overlooked.

Many writers have chronicled the habits of superstars who accomplish great things. This book reveals how anyone can rise to achieve greater things. The true measure of your potential is not the height of the peak you’ve reached, but how far you’ve climbed to get there.
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2024 Travel Bucket List

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Now that we are in the new year, let’s start thinking of

The world beckons with open arms, whispering promises of sun-kissed beaches, ancient ruins, and bustling cityscapes. Here’s my list of 24 travel destinations that should be on your bucket list this year.

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  • Aruba: Aruba, a Caribbean gem, is enchanted with its pristine beaches, colourful coral reefs, and vibrant cultural scene. Snorkel in the clear waters of Eagle Beach, explore Arikok National Park, and experience the island’s warm hospitality.
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  • Cancun, Mexico: Cancun, a tropical paradise, beckons with its white-sand beaches, vibrant nightlife, and ancient Mayan ruins. Whether snorkelling in crystal-clear waters or exploring nearby cenotes, Cancun offers a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure.
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  • Cuba: Cuba, a time capsule of vintage cars and colourful architecture, beckons with its lively music, vibrant street life, and historic charm. Explore the cobbled streets of Havana, relax on Varadero’s beaches, and savour the unique blend of Spanish and Afro-Caribbean influences.
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  • Cairo, Egypt: Cairo, Egypt’s bustling capital, is a treasure trove of ancient wonders. Marvel at the Pyramids of Giza, explore the Egyptian Museum and experience the vibrant energy of the Khan El Khalili market.
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  • Cape Town, South Africa: Cape Town, nestled between mountains and sea, showcases diverse landscapes and rich cultural experiences. Visit Robben Island, explore the Cape Winelands, and marvel at the iconic Table Mountain.
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  • Hurghada, Egypt: Hurghada, along the Red Sea, beckons with its vibrant coral reefs and underwater wonders. Dive into the crystal-clear waters, embark on a desert safari, and experience the unique blend of maritime and desert landscapes.
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  • Marrakech, Morocco: Marrakech, a sensory wonder, entices with its bustling souks, vibrant medina, and ornate palaces. Indulge in Moroccan cuisine, wander through the Jardin Majorelle, and experience the lively atmosphere of Jemaa el-Fna Square.
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  • Zanzibar Island, Tanzania: Zanzibar Island, with its white-sand beaches and spice-scented air, offers a tranquil escape. Explore Stone Town’s historic alleys, swim with dolphins in Menai Bay, and unwind in luxurious beach resorts.
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  • Crete, Greece: Crete, the largest Greek island, is a tapestry of ancient history and stunning beaches. Visit the Palace of Knossos, hike the Samaria Gorge, and savor Cretan cuisine in picturesque villages.
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  • Edinburgh, Scotland: Edinburgh, steeped in history and culture, invites exploration of its medieval architecture, including Edinburgh Castle and the Royal Mile. Climb Arthur’s Seat, attend the Edinburgh Festival, and relish the city’s literary heritage.
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  • Istanbul, Turkey: Istanbul, where East meets West, showcases a rich tapestry of history, blending Byzantine and Ottoman influences. Explore the Hagia Sophia, stroll through the Grand Bazaar, and cruise the Bosphorus.
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  • London, United Kingdom: London, a melting pot of history and modernity, captivates with iconic landmarks like the Tower of London, Buckingham Palace, and the British Museum. Stroll through Hyde Park, experience West End theatres, and embrace the city’s diverse cultural offerings.
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  • Paris, France: Paris, the City of Love, enchants with its romantic ambiance, iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower, and world-class art at the Louvre. Savour croissants in charming cafés, stroll along the Seine, and immerse yourself in the city’s timeless elegance.
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  • Reykjavík, Iceland: Reykjavík, the world’s northernmost capital, captivates with its geothermal wonders, including the Blue Lagoon and the Golden Circle. Chase the Northern Lights, explore glaciers, and immerse yourself in Iceland’s unique landscapes.
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  • Rome, Italy: Rome, the Eternal City, invites you to wander through ancient ruins like the Colosseum and Roman Forum. Indulge in exquisite Italian cuisine, toss a coin into the Trevi Fountain, and absorb the timeless art and architecture.
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  • Bali, Indonesia: Bali, the Island of the Gods, invites you to explore lush landscapes, serene temples, and pristine beaches. Immerse yourself in the vibrant culture, witness traditional dance performances, and indulge in the island’s culinary delights.
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  • Bangkok, Thailand: Bangkok, the vibrant capital of Thailand, pulsates with street markets, ornate temples, and a dynamic nightlife. From the Grand Palace to bustling markets like Chatuchak, Bangkok offers a sensory journey through Thai culture.
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  • Colombo, Sri Lanka: Colombo, the capital of Sri Lanka, is a blend of modernity and historical charm. Visit the Gangaramaya Temple, stroll through Viharamahadevi Park, and explore the city’s bustling markets.
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  • Doha, Qatar: Doha, a modern metropolis on the Arabian Gulf, dazzles with futuristic architecture and cultural landmarks. Visit the Museum of Islamic Art, stroll along the Corniche, and experience the blend of tradition and innovation.
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  • Dubai, United Arab Emirates: Dubai, a symbol of modern opulence, dazzles with its futuristic skyline, luxury shopping, and extravagant experiences. From the towering Burj Khalifa to the desert adventures, Dubai seamlessly blends tradition with cutting-edge innovation.
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  • Hanoi, Vietnam: Hanoi, the capital of Vietnam, immerses visitors in a blend of ancient traditions and French colonial architecture. Explore the Old Quarter, savour street food delicacies, and visit historical sites like the Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum.
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  • Jaipur, India: Jaipur, the Pink City, radiates with its architectural wonders like the Hawa Mahal and Amber Fort. Immerse yourself in the city’s vibrant markets, witness traditional Rajasthani culture, and explore the City Palace.
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  • Phuket, Thailand: Phuket, Thailand’s largest island, is a tropical paradise with vibrant nightlife, stunning beaches, and vibrant markets. Whether relaxing on Patong Beach or island-hopping in the Andaman Sea, Phuket offers a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure.
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  • Pokhara, Nepal: Pokhara, nestled in the Himalayas, offers breathtaking views of Annapurna and serene lakes. Embark on treks to Poon Hill or Annapurna Base Camp, paddle on Phewa Lake, and experience the tranquility of this mountainous haven.

So pack your bags, dust off your passport, and prepare to paint your memories with the vibrant hues of adventure. Travel enriches the mind and changes your perspective, sometimes irrevocably! Bon voyage!

In My Hands Today…

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Unreliable Narrator: Me, Myself, and Impostor Syndrome – Aparna Nancherla

Aparna Nancherla is a superstar comedian on the rise—a darling of Netflix and Comedy Central’s comedy special lineups, a headliner at comedy shows and music festivals, a frequenter of late-night television and the subject of numerous profiles. She’s also a successful actor who has written a barrage of thoughtful essays published by the likes of the New York Times. If you ask her, though, she’s a total fraud. She’d hate to admit it, but no one does impostor syndrome quite like Aparna Nancherla.

Unreliable Narrator is a collection of essays that uses Aparna’s signature humor to illuminate an interior life—one constantly bossed around by her depression (whom she calls Brenda), laced with anxiety like a horror movie full of jump scares, and plagued by an unrepenting love-hate relationship with her career as a painfully shy standup comedian. But luckily, crippling self-doubt comes with the gift of keen self-examination. These essays deliver hilarious and incredibly insightful meditations on body image, productivity culture, the ultra-meme-ability of mental health language, and who, exactly, gets to make art “about nothing.” Despite her own arguments to the contrary, Unreliable Narrator is undeniable proof that Aparna is a force—as a comedian and author alike—to be reckoned with.


2023 Words of the Year

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Every year, dictionaries and language authorities take up the mantle of word sleuths, scouring the linguistic landscape for the term that best captures the zeitgeist of the past twelve months. These words of the year transcend mere dictionary definitions, acting as cultural barometers and reflecting our anxieties, aspirations, and the shifting sands of our collective consciousness.

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Oxford Dictionary
The Oxford Dictionary, the venerable custodian of the English language, crowned “rizz” its 2023 Word of the Year. Born in the effervescent realm of online slang, “rizz” defies easy definition. It encompasses charm, charisma, and an almost magnetic ability to attract and impress. Think smooth moves, witty repartee, and the undeniable swagger that makes hearts flutter and heads turn.

“Rizz” isn’t just a word; it’s a cultural phenomenon. Its meteoric rise reflects the growing influence of internet slang and the democratization of language itself. It’s a testament to the power of Gen Z to carve their linguistic niche, one meme and TikTok video at a time.

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Dictionary.com
Across the pond, Dictionary.com chose “hallucinate” as its word of the year. But fear not, no mass psychosis is upon us! This “hallucinate” refers not to the clinical variety but to the ever-blurring lines between reality and the increasingly sophisticated simulations crafted by artificial intelligence.

From deepfakes that make anyone say anything to the hyper-curated realities of social media, “hallucinate” captures the unsettling yet seductive power of technology to bend and reshape our perception of the world. It’s a cautionary tale in the age of digital illusion, urging us to remain discerning travellers within the labyrinthine landscapes of the virtual.

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Merriam-Webster
For Merriam-Webster, the quest for authenticity reigned supreme. In a world awash in filters and facades, “authentic” emerged as the word that resonated most deeply. It’s a yearning for genuineness, for connection beyond the carefully constructed personas we present online and offline.

“Authentic” reflects a growing societal desire for transparency, for experiences and relationships that ring true. It’s a pushback against the tide of artifice, a call to embrace our vulnerabilities and celebrate the unique tapestry of our narratives.

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Collins Dictionary
Collins Dictionary has crowned “AI,” the ubiquitous acronym for artificial intelligence, as its Word of the Year for 2023. This potent choice reflects the undeniable pervasiveness of AI in every corner of our lives, from healthcare to art, entertainment to ethics.

From self-driving cars navigating city streets to language models like myself parsing your questions, AI has become the invisible hand shaping our reality in profound and often unsettling ways. Choosing “AI” as the Word of the Year isn’t just a recognition of its technological prowess, but a call to examine its ever-expanding role in our society and, crucially, to define the future we want AI to forge for us.

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Cambridge Dictionary
Cambridge has also chosen “Hallucinate” as its word of the year. The surge of interest in this word has been prompted by an abundance of tools being released for public use, all of which depend on large language models. With this new technology comes a new language. Many existing words, such as hallucinate, have adopted additional AI-related meanings this year as well.

The Cambridge Dictionary team chose hallucinate as its Word of the Year 2023 as it recognized that the new meaning gets to the heart of why people are talking about AI. Generative AI is a powerful tool but one we’re all still learning how to interact with safely and effectively. This means being aware of both its potential strengths and its current weaknesses.

While 2023 threw its fair share of curveballs, the diverse tapestry of ‘Words of the Year’ also whispers a story of resilience, innovation, and a search for meaning. As we step into the unknown of 2024, let these words serve as a compass, guiding us towards authenticity, connection, and perhaps a sprinkle of digital rizz along the way. So, which ‘Word of the Year’ resonates most with you?

2024 Week 1 Update

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Today’s quote is a Navajo proverb, which is a message about the futility of trying to change or enlighten someone who is intentionally ignorant or resistant to the truth. The quote suggests that the person is not unaware or uninformed but is consciously pretending to be so. This implies a deliberate choice to remain ignorant or avoid facing certain truths. The act of pretending to be asleep symbolises a resistance to being awakened, both metaphorically and literally. It implies a refusal to acknowledge or confront uncomfortable realities, even when presented with opportunities for awareness or change. The proverb implies that attempting to enlighten or awaken someone who is feigning ignorance is futile. Just as you cannot rouse someone who is pretending to be asleep, you cannot make someone understand or accept the truth if they are intentionally avoiding it. In essence, the quote encourages discernment in recognising when efforts to enlighten or influence someone are likely to be in vain. It highlights the importance of engaging in meaningful conversations with those who are open to understanding and learning, rather than expending energy on those who are intentionally resistant to change or awareness.

I went and had my fifth COVID vaccine on Friday and I am still feeling the effects. While I am ok physically, my body is feeling a peculiar sense of tiredness, and I am sleepy all the time. This means that I have not written anything this weekend. But I guess once in a while, we need to have days where we don’t do anything and just relax.

GG will start her second semester next week while BB is still at camp. Life is as usual for them, so there’s nothing to add here.

Have a great week ahead and stay positive!